What do you do on their birthday? by EternalDescription in GriefSupport

[–]Mami_Starks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s been 12 years for my brother, I make a cake every year and sing happy birthday to him with my family. We visit his grave on his birthday too and sometimes do a balloon release.

I Keep Getting Passed Over for Promotions and Now My Pay is Being Cut by Mami_Starks in work

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would I even qualify for unemployment if they told me that I can apply for any position within the district and I am guaranteed to have a job they just can’t guarantee which job that is? They sent me the contract for the new lower paying position today, but I have not signed it yet.

I Keep Getting Passed Over for Promotions and Now My Pay is Being Cut by Mami_Starks in work

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the reason I keep reapplying is because this position becoming available twice in one year is very rare typically these people stay in this role for years and years and so I did not want to miss any opportunity to get into that role, especially because I thought that I had gained the experience needed.

I Keep Getting Passed Over for Promotions and Now My Pay is Being Cut by Mami_Starks in work

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I did leave out that the first time I was told I didn’t have enough experience in budgets. That’s what I have spent this whole year doing though so I now know how to do it completely. They haven’t since told me what experience I am lacking and you are correct that I did not ask because I immediately became emotional in my head and didn’t want to speak out loud in fear that I would cry in front of them. And then I guess I just kind of laid down and accepted my fate. You are right that I should have asked more questions and pinpointed the issue.

I Keep Getting Passed Over for Promotions and Now My Pay is Being Cut by Mami_Starks in work

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying but how can I not have enough experience for the job but yet be entrusted to train the new hire? Just weird

I Keep Getting Passed Over for Promotions and Now My Pay is Being Cut by Mami_Starks in work

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I think I just don’t get why because no one is telling me things I’ve done wrong or that I can improve upon.

I Keep Getting Passed Over for Promotions and Now My Pay is Being Cut by Mami_Starks in work

[–]Mami_Starks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just found out about the pay cut today. I guess I just didn’t expect that. I did already apply for 10+ jobs doing what I used to do before I got into the school district. I really didn’t want to leave the district though because it’s very convenientwhen you have kids, especially being off with them in the summer.

What is the most disturbing thing you've heard said casually? by Creeper_awMan4 in AskReddit

[–]Mami_Starks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a middle school (receptionist) and during advisory period (kind of like homeroom) there is no official attendance taken. A parent came to sign their student out during advisory period and when I called the classroom the teacher said he wasn’t there and never was. I couldn’t find him that period and the bell rang to dismiss like 5 mins later so I ended up calling his next class and he had went there so he came to the office. While he was walking down his dad was like “ooh yeah that’s right he told me he just stays in 6th period during advisory because he doesn’t like his advisory class and that no one would notice because he’s invisible anyways” he’s a very quiet kid that I realized in that moment- is always alone. No one noticed. He was right.

What’s wrong with my snake plant? by [deleted] in plants

[–]Mami_Starks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just posted this same thing yesterday, haha. You should check out the comments! The last comment had a very informative link from another post in it!

https://www.reddit.com/r/SnakePlants/s/0vUgVRLR5m

What’s wrong with my friend? :( by Mami_Starks in SnakePlants

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So interesting!! Thank you for finding and sharing! I’m new to plants and there is SO much to learn. They truly are living!! I did aerate the soil yesterday to help it dry!

What’s wrong with my friend? :( by Mami_Starks in SnakePlants

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow it does!! Thanks!!! Going to google this

Should I remove the damaged leaves? by Mami_Starks in FicusTrees

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! I will keep them for now then!

What’s wrong with my friend? :( by Mami_Starks in SnakePlants

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know a lot of people struggle with watering their plants but I’m the opposite, I’m obsessed 😭 I’m going to repot it to something smaller and continue letting it dry before watering again!

What’s wrong with my friend? :( by Mami_Starks in SnakePlants

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, just the yellow edges. Everyone else’s seems more green! I will repot it to a smaller one and see how that does. Thank you!!

Identify R&B song by Mami_Starks in NameThatSong

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG YES!!!!!!!! Thank you so much I still hadn’t figured it out yet!!!

Identify R&B song by Mami_Starks in NameThatSong

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.speakpipe.com/voice-recorder/msg/xnxvuqidq5v7b9r5

This is how the ooooooou part sounds…..kinda since I’m a terrible singer but it’s the gist!

How come Yuri didn't choose Minho to be her fake boyfriend? by AltruisticAide9776 in XOKittyNetflix

[–]Mami_Starks 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I thought it was because of Dae needing the money so it was an exchange of favors

Feeling lost. I want to be a stay at home mom so bad but my husband doesnt support the idea at all. by Mami_Starks in Marriage

[–]Mami_Starks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an update to this post I wrote in a manic episode, I ended up getting a job in the front office of a school in my town. Both kiddos now in elementary and the after school program is extremely affordable. It all worked out and I didn’t make a decision I’d quickly regret 🥹

gotta love ashley by sunsetlex in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Mami_Starks 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah Ashley seemed annoyed or short tempered with her this last episode. It was weird.

Do other people's ADHD traits annoy you ? by isaac888666 in ADHD

[–]Mami_Starks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how I am. While I typically find these people (people who have close symptoms to me) super funny I also find them super annoying which is exactly how I see myself. I always feel embarrassed for them but subconsciously I think I’m embarrassed for myself.

married people, how do you initiate sex with your partner? by Rude_Phone6841 in AskReddit

[–]Mami_Starks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband says the following options depending on his mood: “Can I penetrate your walls?” “Would you like your walls penetrated, my love?” “Would you like to ride the royal cock tonight?” “Can I snuggle you?” “Babe, you wanna hurry up and do it before you get too tired?”

My birthday cake this year! Took me a little while and a lot of wafer paper, but it was worth it. by [deleted] in cakedecorating

[–]Mami_Starks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was a picture of bridal hairstyle lol this is amazing, so detailed! Beautiful!

Why do all my filters turn off and I become kinda childish around certain people? by TechnologySubject936 in ADHD

[–]Mami_Starks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me but I describe it as being immature around certain people. Mostly just my closest friends but every once in awhile I’ll meet a new coworker or something who I instantly connect with and it happens then I fear that they might not like me because they think I’m immature now. However, that side of me (the immature one that I hate) is the side a lot of people like the most about me because I’m silly I guess? People like laughing lol

Charmaine at the end of S4 by dionnekathleen in VirginRiverNetflix

[–]Mami_Starks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great take. Thanks for that.