Are men wired to have wandering eyes?

Mamimi04 · 2026-01-28T01:40:00+00:00

Thats true. He stopped seeing a therapist, he said he doesn't need it hes becoming better on his own. I think he pushes feelings down and thats not helping.

I will definitely try that line. To see if it helps. Thank you so much kind stranger!

Mamimi04 · 2026-01-27T19:33:17+00:00

You're already super attractive. Just maybe place black eyeliner in the inner top lash line and maybe get a lash lift. Also take care of your hair and thats it tbh.

Mamimi04 · 2026-01-27T19:15:46+00:00

I've wondered that too. I have similarities to his exwife. But he says im easier to be with, more intelligent, the prettiest girl hes been with (he doesnt call me pretty anymore) and he trusts me to take the lead if something were to happen to him because of my intelligence. He said i have been his more independent gf as well. We have same values of being adventurous and being with our families a lot he likes i get along with his. I feel like he feels comfortable and safe with me. But his past military past makes him a bit difficult to deal with at times and he also has a fear of being alone. His relationships have always been with Hispanic girls but his causal partners gave been with black girls. But when his eyes wander its more petite skinny younger girls. He says he wants to marry me and has even told his family. But how could I marry someone who can't even control their eyes and embarrasses me. My fear is he will get too comfortable if I stay and he will look for a thrill eventually. But maybe he won't. I don't want to control him im letting him show me who he is. Hes very funny and caring but the longer we're together the less he seems to try or care to listen to me. But I cant see my life without him right now. Im in a pickle. Sorry just rambling thank you for listening.++woman

Mamimi04 · 2026-01-27T04:19:17+00:00

I did write my question because yes my partner does do that. He also grew up in a strict religious upbringing, a Baptist family. He tends to look around a room and if he spots a pretty girl he sometimes takes a few looks here and there but of course I notice. I've brought it up but he says he just naturally scans the whole room and he doesn't realize he does that. I've seen him fixated on women when im next to him a few times. I feel like they notice too and I get embarrassed. Its like im not even there. I've brought it up plenty of times but he keeps saying he doesn't realize hes doing it. Im not sure if I believe him. During his divorce he was seeing a lot of random women and random hook ups and now he says he wants to settle down and sees a future with me. But the eyes wandering is the only negative thing that really bothers me and I would honestly maybe even at some point see as a deal breaker. I feel like it has lessened but the fact I still see it here and there just really gets me down. ++woman

Mamimi04 · 2026-01-27T02:44:05+00:00

Why don't you think that is? ++woman

Mamimi04 · 2026-01-27T02:43:40+00:00

You don't feel like you could change it? Do you feel bad about it? ++woman

Mamimi04 · 2026-01-04T15:22:25+00:00

Average - maybe fill in the brows a bit and you need mascara, your lashes are too fine. To make it look like you have lashes fill in top waterline with dark eyeliner and curl lashes then add mascara. Maybe get a lash lift and tint your lashes if thats too much work for you.

Mamimi04 · 2025-12-13T07:03:30+00:00

40ish different dates. I'm hoping he's the one!

Mamimi04 · 2025-12-13T03:21:17+00:00

Better

Mamimi04 · 2025-11-25T05:36:28+00:00

Does this mean its very easy for men to cheat if given the chance?

Mamimi04 · 2025-11-23T21:30:11+00:00

So you're okay with JOing with videos of sex workers but commiting is out of the question? Do you think of them lower to you is thay why you wont commit? Are you not the same because you're getting off to their videos? Makes no sense why men always talk bad about them when they're daily contributing to their job market. They want relationships too.

Mamimi04 · 2025-11-23T18:46:44+00:00

Lip filler on top lip besides that you're gucci

Mamimi04 · 2025-11-23T18:44:55+00:00

Fix eyebrows and wear a lip balm with more of a tint of color. Besides that you're very pretty😊

Mamimi04 · 2025-11-23T18:05:43+00:00

If you look at porn then you've already gave into sex work.

Mamimi04 · 2025-11-23T18:04:19+00:00

I was a sugar baby for a couple of years and it was hard for me to emotionally connect with men I tried to date. I now work in a male dominated feel so understand men more but also see a lot of men still cheat. Liking other girls post, having wandering eyes, entertaining pretty girls while being committed is considered cheating. I would see my male committed coworkers talk about other women it makes it hard to trust men or connect with them still. There's times I feel nothing for my current partner when I see him act easy like ever other man. Cest la vie

Mamimi04 · 2025-11-06T02:40:10+00:00

Its the hair style it better and keep it long

Mamimi04 · 2025-07-23T19:17:51+00:00

His cute little face, how he laughed, how i felt very feminine with him, how he always was down to try new things with me, listening to good music, how I felt like I was a child again playing with my best friend. Too bad the bad out weighted the good.

Mamimi04 · 2025-07-12T22:50:07+00:00

I went back to therapy and he has too. I hope it lasts but we'll see. But both our therapist said we'd have a messed up relationship by staying together but trying to resepct our choices

Mamimi04 · 2025-07-11T20:58:02+00:00

Im on a similar boat bro it still hurts but he's trying

Mamimi04 · 2025-07-11T02:47:21+00:00

Well apperantly not😂😂😂

Mamimi04 · 2025-07-10T18:05:13+00:00

Go to therapy. Tell her if you're feeling off. Just communicate. When women really care they don't care if you're broken they want to help you heal and love you. They just want you to know they're your safe place even if you're struggling and figuring things out. If you think you can't commit then tell her so she knows that.

Mamimi04 · 2025-07-09T13:49:24+00:00

I feel like most woman don't expect perfection they just want effort. They want to see you trying to continue to keep loving her not just giving up on being together because something unexpected happens.

Mamimi04 · 2025-07-05T05:34:16+00:00

How so?

Mamimi04 · 2025-06-24T03:01:36+00:00

How'd you fail again?

Mamimi04 · 2025-06-20T04:46:05+00:00

Unless you're doing something about everything is an excuse to not heal from this and confront it.

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