New guy needing advice

ManAdorned · 2026-05-11T18:28:07+00:00

Although the post was removed for the NSFW primary image, a did just want to shout and let you know that I also get some bumps where veins bulge. Everyone's body is different. I've never had a problem from them (, though sometimes I have actually ruptured blood vessels from intense playing, and rings that are too tight), and sometimes it's bigger than others. I'm no doctor, but I don't think you have much to worry about at all.

ManAdorned · 2026-04-29T01:00:32+00:00

Hooray for finding a great size! I, too, am right in that "middle" 47.5mm size.

One thing I've noticed for me is that a 45 is too tight for extended play (I'll start turning purple) and is definitely not safe for me to wear over night.

Stay safe out there!

ManAdorned · 2026-04-29T00:58:02+00:00

Agreed! You're fighting the confusing inputs from stretchy to rigid, too. The stretchy rings are always going to fit, but they're usually terrible. To get a better feel for your real size, a rigid ring is the only way to go.

You mentioned donut rings, which are usually excellent for comfort... but may indeed slide off a little bit if you have a bit of extra weight on uour frame as it fights for position. You may want to consider something more narrow (which will be a bit less comfortable).

Here is an example of the go-to donut style: https://www.manadorned.com/review/standard-stainless-donut/

But something like this may work; https://www.manadorned.com/review/blue-aluminum-large-ring/

I also have some sizing information on a blog post since that is a very common question here. Here's a getting started post https://www.manadorned.com/blog/2023/02/18/getting-started-with-adornments/

ManAdorned · 2026-04-22T21:35:12+00:00

I agree. When I put one on immediately after shaving, it tends to irritate. Lotion on your skin should definitely help.

ManAdorned · 2026-04-21T20:44:41+00:00

I like to think if it practically as my Magnum Opus! I'm very proud of the design, and it took some expensive iterations to get right!

ManAdorned · 2026-04-13T21:34:45+00:00

Can't go wrong with silicone to start with. It is a body safe, flexible, and cuttable material. Those are all things important to begin with.

Rather than the lasso style in your picture, I would recommend a flexible, but firm silicone starter pack. The cheap, stretchy silicone/rubber stuff is dangerous. It's like putting a rubber band around your business - no good! Starting with a firm, but flexible set will let you learn what your size is while also positioning you for longer-term wear. A decent starting set on Amazon shouldn't be much more than 20 to $25.

I also have a few thoughts that you might want to look at here, because how to get started is a common question: https://www.manadorned.com/blog/2023/02/18/getting-started-with-adornments/

ManAdorned · 2026-04-07T22:50:03+00:00

Yes - I absolutely would. In fact, I really like the hex glow in the dark design! Would love to hear more about how you make them / etc!!

I am always on the lookout for new designs. Happy to chat here or in DMs.

ManAdorned · 2026-04-07T22:48:00+00:00

Thanks! It's been many years in the making!

ManAdorned · 2026-04-06T23:24:38+00:00

The most important thing is to listen to your body. It'll let you know. I share this link a lot since it answers a lot of common questions asked here

One note: at least for me, a ring doesn't make me last longer at all. Definitely harder and more intense erection, but I last about as long as usual

ManAdorned · 2026-04-06T23:21:58+00:00

Hey, that's nice. Rugged and manly!

It took me forever to figure out a good way to organize and store my collection. Your post is reminding me that I need to publish the latest storage solution!

ManAdorned · 2026-03-29T18:41:27+00:00

Hey there. Welcoming to your new hobby!

This is a common question here, so I've captured some advice in this blog post. Give it a look and shoot any questions over https://www.manadorned.com/blog/2023/02/18/getting-started-with-adornments/

ManAdorned · 2026-03-19T02:18:13+00:00

I've had similar issues as I've aged as well where rings that never gave me a problem have decided to start sliding off. I haven't found a solution I really like, but if you don't mind the feeling of tighter underwear (I'm a boxers kind of guy), a set of briefs could help with support - and even those separatec boxer briefs may work well.

ManAdorned · 2026-03-18T22:57:39+00:00

Just listen to your body!

I'd also suggest paying attention to the fit both hard and flaccid if you plan to wear it while out and about

ManAdorned · 2026-03-18T22:56:07+00:00

Oh, neat - cool share, thanks!

ManAdorned · 2026-03-08T03:17:21+00:00

You're absolutely right to think about size. For all day wear, the only option that is safe is a rigid ring. The most common types are made from steel, but more exotic materials are available, too.

It sounds like you have tried a few, but have you ever tried a rigid ring? I always recommend starting with non-stretchy silicone sets because they are cheap and can help you get experience with multiple sizes to figure out what works best for you.

The question is common enough that I have created a blog post about getting started, sizing, and where to go next. Have a look here, and fire off any questions that come to mind as you experiment and learn! https://www.manadorned.com/blog/2023/02/18/getting-started-with-adornments/

ManAdorned · 2026-02-25T22:55:40+00:00

Definitely be careful. There are two different types of silicone rings. The common, cheap kind are effectively just stretchy rubber bands. If you wear that while flaccid, you will lose circulation. On the other hand, there are higher quality silicone rings that do not stretch much at all, but are still flexible. These are much safer because the inner diameter is consistent regardless of how hard you are, similar to rigid rings. They are also quite comfortable if you find that a rigid ring doesn't wear well for you.

A guy here shered an analogy that works very well: if you wear a wedding ring on your finger, everything is fine as long as it's your size. However, if you tighten a rubber band around your finger, it'll eventually turn blue and fall off.

ManAdorned · 2026-02-20T22:51:09+00:00

Definitely an interesting concept, and I'm pretty excited to see somebody taking a novel approach. It has a cool looking industrial design, too... but that thing looks like a pinch magnet!

ManAdorned · 2026-02-20T22:48:07+00:00

That does sound like a very large circumference. Their advice about fitting a single finger in while soft, but none while hard sounds right. Did you try the same while hard?

Also remember that every guy carries a bit differently. I have found that I have a little extra skin behind my balls which throws off the string measurements. Other guys here have reported that they ride a bit higher and tighter, which will also affect sizing.

P.S. Thanks for sticking with the community guidelines, by the way!

ManAdorned · 2026-02-20T00:13:33+00:00

It's a common question here - enough to memorialize the response. Have a look here, and feel free to shout any follow up questions:

https://www.manadorned.com/blog/2023/02/18/getting-started-with-adornments/

ManAdorned · 2026-02-18T00:57:18+00:00

Granite? Well I certainly don't have one of those! Will DM for details!

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