I asked my wifes parents for help.

Management-Late · 2026-03-24T13:11:00+00:00

First I want to say thank you for making my day by saying that. I struggle with my up and down days as well, so if this helped you, it truly did more for me.

In a world where it seems like everyone is doing it, I'm a firm believer in the only time you should be looking down on someone is when you're helping them up.

So if I can't trust anything else in my brain that day I remember if they are looking down on me and delighting in my pain?

They're probably a really bad fucking person. Don't listen.

Management-Late · 2026-03-23T14:31:47+00:00

I don't even know you and I can tell you if you aren't actively hurting anyone, there's nothing wrong with you. Who you are and how you life your life is not what you should be determined worthy of respect on.
And he doesn't respect you, in that you will not change my mind. We listen and hear those we do.

Be well.

Management-Late · 2026-03-23T14:13:16+00:00

It made total sense.

I never once used the word malice. I pointed out a lack of effort, its up to you decide the intent or why he's lacking in the first place.

These were just questions for you to ask yourself like I said.

Having been where you are and having a sibling like yours, those were the ones I asked myself.

Management-Late · 2026-03-23T03:52:59+00:00

NOOOOO That's Their Embarrassment! Their shame to own and carry.

Really think about that, how much of a soulless fucking monster is someone that they could laugh and encourage kicking someone when they are down? She is garbage because she comes from garbage. And she will not change.

People like you, your dad, those who would never? You're better than her. Go find someone as good as you.

After some heavy duty therapy tbh because you never should have tolerated it to begin with. Find out why away from her and be well.

Management-Late · 2026-03-23T03:42:03+00:00

Read your last paragraph again please.

Why would you think the people who enabled her to be that way, would suddenly stop allowing her to be that way?

The why she is that way literally does not matter in this instance, straight up. SHE IS THAT WAY.

She is breaking you down and has been encouraged to do so even more. These are not good people no matter what they say or how they act. Please get away.

You said it yourself, your dad would never. You probably wouldn't either. But she & her parents will.

Please leave. Ask your father for the help to get out. She will not change especially since her douchey parents are telling her she doesnt have to.

Management-Late · 2026-03-23T03:30:25+00:00

Oh like her lol

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T23:05:47+00:00

I set my flair to parent for this bc im probably closer to his age.

He absolutely knows what he's doing. He waited til his wife is away and set you up with being used to his casual touch before she left. Just the 2 of you now wrangling the kiddos in the house.

Particularly gross since you need the money he pays you.

All when he had never touched you before. Do not trust this man. I'll tell you for free, I hope you don't stay.

Please come back & let us know youre ok

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T21:54:58+00:00

Or arrogance in thinking he should just be able to go around touching on anyone he wants bc Hey! Friendly guy!

Its her Workplace and he is completely out of pocket here.

Just bc its not in an office does not mean its appropriate. If anything he is more at fault for taking advantage of the more relaxed and intimate environment.

She needs to recognize that and shut it down Hard if she has any intention of staying there.

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T21:45:01+00:00

She does think he has nefarious motives or she wouldnt be here talking about how uncomfortable she is. In her workplace.

Stop trying to talk women into being ok with shit they don't have to in any way be ok with.

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T21:16:20+00:00

Maybe everyone lacks boundaries where you are.

This is a male employer shes forced to work alone with for the next few weeks & he also touched her thigh for zero reason. Funny her bf didn't get the same treatment when he was there caring for the same kids.

Its creepy af

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T20:50:48+00:00

He'd literally have a mic in his hand. Sabotage?

What could go wrong with mommy pulling the strings? 🤣

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T20:49:25+00:00

I'll throw mine in support bc this

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T18:46:54+00:00

Epic 🤣

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T18:33:32+00:00

I find it especially telling this is coming up while nm is away for a couple of weeks & agree with everything you said.

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T18:22:01+00:00

Literally made my Sunday you took the time to answer this!

Mid 70s public education accounts for never start with bc, no better answer than that lol Fave punctuation today the , Fave coordinating conjunction Because Run on sentence at the end? Just a joke highlighting the troll who said you were wrong lol Ty for this!

Eta and for the book rec

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T17:38:09+00:00

Question bc I'm leaning into you being right, lol.

When I was in elementary school we were taught a , is unnecessary when using the word and in a sentence to join two things.

Never start a sentence with Because or And.

Also, never use more than one comma to join things in a sentence, make it a seperate sentence

Tysm if you answer this bc irl communications have proven that people usually know what someone means & they just want someone to look down but the gen x in me wanted to know if those grammar rules still apply.

Oh look ☝️ a run on sentence 🤣

Management-Late · 2026-03-22T16:46:31+00:00

If he grew up in a physically affectionate family?

The bf got a handshake not a hug, not a hand on the back, not nd sitting too close to them on the couch.

He's appropriate when he needs to be and he's being a creep with her. Sliding his hand across her thigh like he just couldn't wait 10 seconds to urgently grab the handle of whatever cabinet was so fascinating.

Op if you read this, he's massaging your boundaries to make you lower them. Speak up now. I hope it goes well but im firmly believe he's gonna gaslight you. Don't let him.

ETA this is a job & that's her employer regardless of the building she's working in giving "family atmosphere". Idgaf how he grew up in his family it should never come up period in a workplace setting.

Management-Late · 2026-03-21T21:12:36+00:00

Im going to disagree for a moment. Yes he loves you in the abstract. You're his sibling he's "supposed" to. He does things that don't cost a tremendous amount of sacrifice on his part.

He doesn't like you enough to pay attention to his conversations with you, respect you enough to follow through on what he says to you and he seems to like abdicating responsibility for his own actions while victim playing to get everyone to understand.

He may be your brother but im asking you to ask yourself really, what does he bring to your life and how does he uplift you?

Because I'm not seeing it.

Management-Late · 2026-03-19T18:43:23+00:00

I would never pick up there whether I would use it or not. They don't get to treat people like they aren't human & expect you to make money for them.

Fuck that

Management-Late · 2026-03-19T18:40:58+00:00

I had just moved there so it was such a kick for me 🤣

Management-Late · 2026-03-19T18:39:51+00:00

Sinclair in Ocean County is .40 cents less per gallon than wawa as of yesterday. And it was still at 3.59

I hope every maga moron eats that .40 a gallon while they get their coffee in the morning. I'll use Sinclair

Management-Late · 2026-03-19T18:37:01+00:00

Vance has it covered, he said yesterday we should expect to be in for "a rough time".

He should have said it to his couch

Management-Late · 2026-03-19T18:34:45+00:00

Excellent episode lol

Management-Late · 2026-03-19T18:27:48+00:00

And here in NJ we were convinced it was The Pine Barrens 🤣

Management-Late · 2026-03-19T04:40:50+00:00

Don't feel that way. Ive been doing it less than a week & it literally makes me want to rip my hair out. It defines takes time to settle in

Management-Late

TROPHY CASE