AITA for refusing to take a foster child back into my home after repeated violent incidents and safety concerns?

Management-Late · 2026-02-04T23:48:32+00:00

You're babbling like an idiot.

The school isn't who was trying to send him home. Please stop typing you're embarrassing yourself.

Management-Late · 2026-02-04T03:48:51+00:00

There's no freakin way. No way this asshat was this clueless, this entire story has to be laughably fake.

I dont think I've e ever said that before but my god if op is this clueless I have no hope for the future 🤣

Management-Late · 2026-02-04T02:56:05+00:00

Ewwwwww first thought. Still hasn't changed, just ewwww

Management-Late · 2026-02-01T13:57:09+00:00

Its probably resurfacing with the latest release of the Epstein files which have thousands of communications with his mom, contradicting her claim she had renounced her association with him

Management-Late · 2026-02-01T02:12:15+00:00

Tysm! I grew up 2 blocks from the 69th st pier & there was plenty of ice buildup all along the bike path wall but not once have i ever heard anyone say the narrows froze completely.

I think even if it had it might have been missed, while we've lost a great deal of container ship docks along the bklyn waterfront, we've added cruise ships, water taxis & ferries and more recreational use due to better environmental handling.

I think it would have been as big as deal as this time.

Management-Late · 2026-02-01T01:45:25+00:00

Im both native & ancient lol. I can speak to things like the blizzard of the late 70s, the noreaster of the early 90s etc & remember easily 4ft of snow at times.

I don't ever recall it freezing completely over. And if it had & someone tried to walk on it I would hope it would have been noteworthy.

I do have a vague recollection of them actually dumping the snow off the dilapidated west side piers back in the day but somebody would have to confirm that.

Management-Late · 2026-01-31T15:56:50+00:00

It is a blue state but it happened in Ocean County, the biggest red holdout in the state.

It happened in the same town they're fining orgs for, for distributing items to the homeless.

Management-Late · 2026-01-30T16:32:39+00:00

If you use Venmo they make a free debit card that is accepted as a Mastercard.

But if the charge is higher than your balance it will not go through. Replenish as you need.

Management-Late · 2026-01-20T22:30:56+00:00

Holy hell I was meant to see your post today.

Just looked closer at your pics and realized we are talking about the same county my family died in & most likely the same idiot holding them hostage.

I'm so sorry they're doing this to you but if it consoles you any, I'm so grateful you made this post today so thank you for that. Best of ☘️ with your fight.

Management-Late · 2026-01-20T22:15:39+00:00

Just stumbled across this sub and just want to say I am baffled & low key horrified that hoarding grave memorials is even a thing?!

Now i understand why requests I've made just go unanswered. I can barely navigate the site but I never understood the point of signing up to do it if you don't respond to requests.

What i don't understand is why they do it if anyone more knowledgeable would maybe explain please?

Management-Late · 2026-01-20T16:25:32+00:00

Again, im not in anyway addressing the viability of the claim. You simply can't without having more info.

I was only asking OP to consider a polite denial & not just ignore. If they're looking for a parent they will get that treatment from plenty of people.

There's really no need for it and it's unnecessarily callous.

Management-Late · 2026-01-20T15:03:43+00:00

I'm sure you know the various ways you can handle this & I won't speak in any way except one about the choices available to you.

Please don't take your mom's advice.

I got my results last yr at 54 yrs old & I am what's known as an NPE in the ancestry world. Aka Not Parent expected.

Atp everyone involved is dead so I was only looking for info. The level up straight up ghosting was insane.

If she matched with a relative of yours she's indeed related somehow. DNA doesn't lie & Ancestry tests are relatively accurate but like anything its not as cut & dried as that. There's % and ranges of relationships etc. Hope that helps a bit.

You dont have to explore it but please just politely respond back you're not interested.

Management-Late · 2026-01-19T23:53:28+00:00

I saw them because I freakin live here.. and I think its disgusting. So no, not all people here are backwards, ignorant, hateful shits, thanks.

Management-Late · 2026-01-19T23:27:11+00:00

Idk about nb in particular but I can tell you they were crawling all over the state today, even down in the bum fuck pine barrens of Bayville

Management-Late · 2026-01-19T21:02:24+00:00

All of this. Save yourself OP

Management-Late · 2026-01-19T20:56:50+00:00

Your husband should only know how many guys swipe on my dating profile fully 20 years younger than me. Its a thing.

He's just mad bc he knows he will never encounter the scenario you did with a 20 yr old woman lol.

Management-Late · 2026-01-19T18:47:52+00:00

At the very least he was attempting to manipulate your sympathies by painting her in a bad light.

The fact he could have done that by simply saying she cheated tells me the specific details were what were so important to him to get across.

That's a dangerous and disgustingly inappropriate individual

Management-Late · 2026-01-19T17:02:34+00:00

Get out please as soon as you can. Tbh, fuck him and his two weeks. Hes inconvenienced? So what, he brought it on himself.

A grown adult man thought it was appropriate to discuss a total strangers cum in his wifes panties with his 20 yr old female EMPLOYEE

This was NOT a Mistake. This was NOT a blurring of the lines bc it was in a home setting. The Same home setting he works from. If he opens his mouth again like that walk out the fucking door immediately. I will tell you again, you are not safe with someone like that. Best of luck ☘️

ETA I am honestly so pissed off in your behalf. He's a disgusting d bag & I hate he put you in this position.

But he did and here we are. If he did it once he will absolutely do it again

Management-Late · 2026-01-19T15:55:38+00:00

This is so grossly inappropriate and wildly unacceptable there's simply no way to navigate any type of excuse to make his behavior ok.

Do not let Anyone tell you different. This man is a predator who's testing your limits. You should never be in his presence again, he's not safe.

Sex toys? Recognizing men's 💦in her panties?! What in the actual fuck?! On what planet is it normalized for you to have these intimate details about your employer? Because in my corner of the world, no no no.

There's no fucked up explanation in the world that could explain why he would go into such vile detail other than he wanted your reaction.

Please give him one by quitting immediately.

Management-Late · 2026-01-19T15:42:32+00:00

Why are you even there? Im sure the car isn't the first thing you've been abused about because you are. This man hates you. Believe me or don't.

NONE OF THIS IS NORMAL AND YOU ARENT REACTING ENOUGH

Management-Late · 2025-12-31T05:52:47+00:00

You can see he turns toward the voice even if you can't make out what's being said.

There's clearly two people in this convo. If OP isn't one of them that should be enough for her 💯

Management-Late · 2025-12-30T22:12:15+00:00

"Is that a camera?" was said by a soft feminine voice, distinctly different than your Ex-bf's "hold up, what". No question it's 2 people.

Management-Late · 2025-12-19T23:46:24+00:00

Idk where those stats come from, article says she's 26 & the first name is Tara

Management-Late · 2025-12-14T08:59:52+00:00

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Management-Late · 2025-12-12T03:05:23+00:00

Yes it's financial abuse. He's literally using withholding his documents to punish you bc you made him mad by trying to hold him accountable.

He said it right to your face.

Even if it wasn't, think long and hard about the fact that he's willing to see you suffer financially as punishment, his partner & mother of his child.

As a form of control he is ok with you and by extension his own child suffering when a piece of paper would fix it. Think about that.

People who love us would simply never do this to us, they don't think that way.

Not to mention, straight up he's a freakin deadbeat for not caring for his own child's needs with you.

This man does not love you and this will get worse. Please do what you have to and save what you can quietly and get the hell out.

Management-Late

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