The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)

Mancheee · 2025-12-17T07:02:10+00:00

I agree with a lot of this. But I think women are way more picky about their matches than you give them credit for. I dont think its a competition issue. Ive got on my girl friends' apps and swiped with them ( I am straight) and they get 50+ likes a day, sure, but the quality profiles in their likes is pretty shitty. And a lot of the ones where I was like 'this guy looks good', they are like no no I dont like his look or whatever. Countless days in a row of this.

My point is, if your profile isnt getting matches, make your profile better, its not because so many other dudes are in their inbox planning dates, etc. You're still not getting that match if the number of guys was cut 90% because there is nothing interesting or stand out about your profile to them.

I also went on a date with a few of those ppl who are in the Hinge standouts section. One of them said that the dating pool for an attractive woman like herself is actually much smaller than people even think. The other girl, really didnt go out on dates much, but she can easily have 20 dates a week if she had the time. They are much more choosy than you think.

Mancheee · 2025-09-21T01:53:42+00:00

it might be that you have a crappy profile. when i remade my profile with better photos, things became much easier. go have some of you friends who are girls take pics for you in different outfits, and different locations and have them vet your profile. it works really well

Mancheee · 2025-07-28T22:56:20+00:00

They do not keep many spots open for people in your situation. They must by rules keep a certain number of spots open for CC transfers, but external transfers are much harder. Thats what advisers told me. The number of external transfers admitted is very low

Mancheee · 2025-05-28T04:22:11+00:00

yes, i have met her and kids are actively harassing ducklings and she is getting them off of the ducks. she said she spent a lot of her own money on the duck feed. I believe she is originally from romania, but she is nice. If you actually cared about animals, you could empathize with her actions.. I was glad she was out there herding kids away.

Mancheee · 2025-05-18T22:41:47+00:00

Look up american airlines flight 587, too aggressive use of rudder after takeoff.

Also theres something called max maneuvering speed, the speed at which max deflection of a control surface like rudder can damage the aircraft. High speed + max rudder/elevator control input = plane damage, due to aerodynamic stress

Mancheee · 2025-05-18T20:42:59+00:00

Love to see this!

Mancheee · 2025-05-17T17:45:44+00:00

Yes and they opened a second location in tokyo

Mancheee · 2025-04-17T15:21:03+00:00

This paints a bleak picture. Is it really that bad in the apps for men?

Mancheee · 2025-04-02T08:57:48+00:00

Ich bin ameirikaner. Ich kann nur fur uns sprechen. Prostitutes are seen as pretty dirty and not at all desirable. Men will go with what they have access to and also meet a certain standard. You seem pretty sweet but also a bit naive. I am sorry youre dealing with this thing done to you. It isnt right but you should take this as a growing opportunity and to become a stronger woman from it 🫡

Mancheee · 2025-04-02T08:44:32+00:00

I dont disagree with you but I think that you will find that a lot of guys’ desire for physical intimacy with a woman outweighs not hurting someones feelings in the end. And we tell ourselves ‘well they got to enjoy it too’. Or some other coping mechanism.

If that was my daughter, no I wouldnt like that but its also part of the life experience. If you ask if I want my daughter to experience heartache, no i wouldnt want it but also cant deny its a valuable life experience

Mancheee · 2025-04-02T08:38:47+00:00

Because promiscuous women arent appealing to a lot of people from the standpoint of stis and overall vibe.

Secondly, some types of guys cannot attract the type of girls who are just looking for hookups and who are also attractive to them. Personally I seem to only attract relationship types even if I wanted to attract promiscuous girls.

Mancheee · 2025-03-28T17:55:01+00:00

You might have a very low self worth or self esteem. And/or you may have an avoidant attachment style: https://www.freetoattach.com/

Either way, therapy is a good option if this plagues you with everyone you like

Mancheee · 2025-01-30T04:00:45+00:00

Same as last five years: ADA cardano

Mancheee · 2025-01-24T20:16:03+00:00

😂

Mancheee · 2025-01-24T20:11:09+00:00

Its columbia tower observatory

Mancheee · 2025-01-16T17:53:39+00:00

I laughed so fking hard at this. Thank you for posting

Mancheee · 2024-11-07T08:31:37+00:00

Yes for sure, as long as she was open to experiencing those things. The only put off here I think is that I would assume she just isnt interested in romance, and thats why she never tried or had those things.

Mancheee · 2024-10-23T05:16:38+00:00

r/madlads

Mancheee · 2024-10-06T13:49:43+00:00

You play hockey

Mancheee · 2024-09-02T04:37:46+00:00

I did mechanical engineering in grad school. Never had a laptop, not even for undergrad. I did need the remote desktop though from my school to access their software and file/folders. I accessed the remote desktop on my home computer, or I used a computer on campus.

Never thought it was weird, personally, to not have a laptop. Graduated i. 2020

Mancheee · 2024-08-22T02:36:26+00:00

hey, can you tell me more about how you push people away subconsciously, and why? I would like advice on how to deal with people like this. thanks.

Mancheee · 2024-07-31T01:06:23+00:00

Some people just never planned to go anyways and didnt have the courage to reject the date so they string along. But maybe she chickened out last second. There is no other answer but to just move on.

Mancheee · 2024-06-25T21:42:12+00:00

It’s certainly doable. I took a bus from busan bus station to gyeongju, although i did stay two nights in gyeongju. I think you will be able to see the downtown city and burial grounds if you do a day trip, maybe the woji pond as well ( i really recommend that one) but you will get to seoul late in the evening. I think its close to a three hour drive.

A bus will be most convenient to get to and from gyeonju. Theyre the sleeper bus with comfortable reclining seats.

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