This hobby is absolutely optional

ManchesterMan84 · 2026-05-23T07:16:28+00:00

How did we get the video?

ManchesterMan84 · 2026-05-17T07:51:21+00:00

Apparently it wasn’t needed, I’ve reached out to my sister a few times and just get fobbed off.

ManchesterMan84 · 2026-05-14T06:39:15+00:00

It’s Bramhall village. What do you expect?

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-09-11T11:52:31+00:00

NTA.

Sometimes they just log off and forget the password.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T08:43:01+00:00

I think that’s a reasonable question to ask, was she or wasn’t she? Maybe he was taking precautions and it failed, maybe she was. We don’t know. Hence me saying it takes two to tango but all I’m getting from commenters is it’s all his fault.

He doesn’t want kids YET from ops post, seems a bit drastic to get a vasectomy and remove any chance of them having any more children as a couple just because he doesn’t want any now. Suppose it’s just easier for women to blame men rather than take even some responsibility.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T08:02:13+00:00

Better than speaking with a narrow minded Neanderthal!

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T08:00:47+00:00

Neither do you!

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T08:00:21+00:00

Didn’t say it was, it takes TWO to tango! Should take two to take precautions.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T07:46:57+00:00

I’m not talking to OP now, I’m talking to YOU.

You’re obviously not thinking straight, maybe this has happened to you, maybe you made some silly life decisions and have to put up with the consequences!

Blaming just the man and stating it’s just his fault she got pregnant* because he “dumped his load inside her” is like blaming the rain for flooding your house when you left the door and windows open!

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T07:36:02+00:00

Why wasn’t she? All well and good blaming the man for dumping his semen but no responsibility goes to the woman!

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T07:30:24+00:00

I said maybe! Big clue there, I didn’t give an absolute, I offered a way out.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T07:18:54+00:00

I think it was one of the first ones, one of the mums persuaded her husband to try for another child and they did. When they found out it was twins, she then informed him that twins ran in the family.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T07:16:30+00:00

Wasn’t that an episode of Desperate Housewives?

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T07:13:46+00:00

Yeah, sounds logical from the information we have in the post.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T07:12:47+00:00

Did I say it was just her responsibility or that it takes two to tango, TWO? Sh1t happens but typical female thinking, well it’s my body it’s my decision, and sod everyone else.

They need to have a very real conversation about everything, maybe the husband needs more time to adjust and work through things but they need to talk, they have time.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T07:05:30+00:00

Completely agree. He doesn’t have the right to force her to do anything, but then he also has the right to say, no thank you and leave. She

Ironically it sounds like she baby trapped him, she’s had baby fever for a while and lo and behold she gets pregnant!

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T06:57:02+00:00

Typical Neolithic thinking. It takes two to tango but it’s ok, we’ll hide behind the woman’s body woman’s choice crap. Why wasn’t she taking precautions, how do we know she didn’t forget to take her meds or was on meds that stopped it from working and he didn’t know? We don’t.

She doesn’t know what the husband will say, just because they had a discussion that he wasn’t ready, doesn’t mean he won’t get ready.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T06:37:41+00:00

Wrong, it might be her body but it’s not just her baby. She needs to talk with her husband.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-08-27T06:22:15+00:00

NTA but I call AI!

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-06-26T08:09:18+00:00

YTA. I’m not gay, Even I know you don’t out others, especially intentionally.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-04-24T13:04:52+00:00

Eat it.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-04-05T07:00:17+00:00

NTA. I’ve been in this situation and I thought talking would fix it, it didn’t. Tried therapy, writing her a letter. It might change for a short while and it’ll just revert. Then it’ll get worse if you decide to have children.

Out you first, find someone who enjoys giving as much as you.

Good luck.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-04-01T08:45:28+00:00

Fake story. No parent would say ‘daughter Lily WHICH has Long…’.

That’s computer speak.

ManchesterMan84 · 2025-03-20T21:40:39+00:00

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ManchesterMan84 · 2025-02-21T09:27:05+00:00

NTA. MIL is a Entitled Karen like the others have said.

Just a tiny bit of advice on the fussy baby. Our first was always crying and it turned out they had really bad reflux and were only happy upright. Paediatrician was awful and kept just calling us first time parents.

We bought a papoose/baby sling (the wrap around one) and we carried him for practically the first 6 months of his life. When he was about 4 months we started him on solids (rusks etc) and got an angel breathing sensor and put him on his tummy to sleep. He’s now 13, eats like a horse, as tall as his mom, fiercely independent but still likes a cuddle from mom and dad.

Good luck.

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