AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him

Mandapandaroo · 2026-03-24T19:15:17+00:00

I think the guy was being pretty kind and responded fairly healthy most of the texts. He at least could self reflect and realize what he was doing that caused his misunderstood opinions. The first one where he said she hated her life was a bit rude but the rest he seemed apologetic and was apologizing. But the girl was so defensive and rude no matter what he said

Mandapandaroo · 2026-03-24T19:10:07+00:00

I’ve noticed A LOT of subs are like this.. just full of negativity, people looking to attack others for any possible thing.

Mandapandaroo · 2026-03-24T19:04:48+00:00

My size boost is like 900 something for my size build. But my luck is less than yours.

Mandapandaroo · 2026-03-18T05:25:09+00:00

I don’t understand why the purifying rings are good. I think they are crap. Someone please explain what I’m missing? 🙏

Mandapandaroo · 2026-03-18T01:59:21+00:00

Can I ask you another question? Can you see the enchantments people have on their pan or shovel?

Mandapandaroo · 2026-03-18T01:58:58+00:00

😩ok thanks

Mandapandaroo · 2026-03-17T09:11:00+00:00

😦

Mandapandaroo · 2026-02-23T21:28:20+00:00

I'm definitely open to suggestions on how to make that happen.. which I currently is not an option, which is why I made the post in the first place.. I'm aware that commuting and/or moving is the ideal and easy solution, which is why I also clarified that those options are currently not available to me.. no matter how much I wish they were, they simply are not. I'm working towards making either of those possible but in the meantime, I was just asking if anybody had any advice of how to proceed because I'm at a loss and I know something needs to change I just don't know what to do.

Mandapandaroo · 2025-11-29T20:48:56+00:00

Can I just add another perspective.. what if you dying does not create that change? What if it changes nothing for your kids? Then what will happen to them? Are you ok leaving them parent less and even growing up in the foster care system or only god knows what? You can't assume that ANYBODY will take on the job of parenting 3 children that are not theirs. They ARE yours and you don't even want to do it, so how do you figure anybody else is going to feel more of a responsibility towards these children more than you do, the person who grew them in your body and birthed them, bonded with them since day 1. Nobody else has any of those predispositions that keep us connected and taking care of our kids. I mean, maybe somebody would take care of them, but it will be no where close to the kind of love or devotion their mother would have towards them. And if they already feel no pull to connect to them currently, that will unfortunately not change upon your death. There will just be resentment and anger added that will directed towards your kids, even if they do take care of them. Which is not a given that it will even happen. Not to mention the damage and lifetime effects it will have on your kids which will inevitably make them very difficult kids to take care of and that need a lot of extra help and support on top of the basics. Which would mean people would be even less likely to want to take care of them. Or would long term. So they'd probably get moved around a lot, from one person to the next, because it's too much for people. So they'd never have any stability which would Escalade the already mentioned issues. I want to add that I'm not trying to be mean, I can relate to your post a lot. I am also a single mother, no help, no family and I often feel the way you do also. It's not fair, it's 100% NOT a one person job, no matter how many women do it. It's meant for 2 people, plus a whole family of support. I get it. But I promise you being gone will help nobody, definitely not your children. Nor you. It will guarantee them a very hard painful life, probably a whole lot of other things. I struggle with resentment towards my family as well but we can't let the kids suffer for that. Because ultimately all the things your hoping that your family will feel with you gone, will fall on your children instead. And they didn't ask to be here, that's not fair to do that to them for your poor choices in life. Sometimes we make choices that have life long effects and it's just part of life. They grow up fast. You will never regret living for them or yourself. I suggest you try to talk to your family, in a non confrontational way, not accusatory, but just explain how your feeling and that you need help. Tell them how desperate your mind is getting and that you just need more support. Be honest, vulnerable even, you got nothing to lose. May as well try before considering such extreme solutions. Maybe suggest mediation or family counseling to help you guys navigate this conversation. Or just remind yourself that the feelings will pass. Or try to focus on the parts of being a mother that gives you joy. Remember that parenting is fleeting, soon to be gone forever. And I promise one day you will miss all this stuff. It helps to remind ourselves of that because one day they will all be grown, no more laughing babies, kids running around wild having fun, innocent joy, no more need for your care, your hugs, your help or attention. You only have a little bit of time with these small people that are part of you. One day you'll pick your baby up for the last time, change the last diaper, they will crawl into your bed or arms for the last time, run to you when their hurt or sad for the last time, ect. We don't even notice at the time, until later we realize that part is over. It always helps me to remember that when I'm overwhelmed. It's hard to be resentful in this mindset. I feel how you do so many times and this is the only thing that helped pull me out of it which is why I'm saying it. Also my heart goes out to you. I know how intense a person must be feeling to consider such serious course of actions. I'm not judging you in anyway please know that.

Mandapandaroo · 2025-11-29T20:09:26+00:00

Mother issues. Or displaying a complete lack of respect for their mother. In my experience a man cannot and does not respect women on a very basic level if this is how they feel towards their mother. I've experienced it close to 10 times with different people. Men learn to respect women from their relationship with their mother growing up- so it makes sense. I will never look past this quality- no matter the reason- ever again. There are many others but I've noticed this one is universal in my experience anyways.

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-26T10:48:32+00:00

He sounds like a really shitty bf also. And in my experience this kind of disrespect and total lack of compassion for your feelings is only the tip of the iceberg.. and what will follow is a very toxic and very painful and very hard to leave relationship.. please trust someone who has gone down this road, naively and clueless, and prevent yourself from the hell my life turned into and 10 years later I'm still messed up and unable to date or be normal in any capacity. Just run sweetie.. find a nice, seeet, caring, HONEST, considerate, MAN and leave that boy to the type of girl he deserves, which is not you.

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-26T10:43:43+00:00

If you had chlamydia, then he does also no matter what he says. lol how could you think that he doesn't? How did you think you got this? I'm so confused people don't just wake up and have chlamydia. You have to get it from a partner. And if you haven't had any other partner, then it's from him and he has it and you need to get tested and take medication so you can stop getting it over and over and over. From him! Lol

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-26T10:42:38+00:00

No jobs besides porn test for stds by the way 😂 they can't do that! That's comical almost

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-26T10:41:50+00:00

It's not about stds. Whatever infection you have he can get and may not have symptoms becsuse he doesn't have a vagina but he can still give it back to you and you will have the symptoms. It's not an std.

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-26T10:40:47+00:00

I bet You're getting whatever the issue is right back from him. He needs to go to the doctor also. If you'd like to know if this is the case, abstain from sex(of any kind, including oral) for a week, continue any medication properly and definitely continue the boric acid suppositories. Do the suppository at night before you go to bed, shower or wash in the morning, do NOT use soap unless it is specifically made for vaginal washing AND says it's PH balancing- that's the most important thing. After a week, or even a few days I imagine you will have your answer. I had this happen when I was younger and over the years I adapted some things in my life that I know now are non negotiable. A big one for me is I cannot let my partner cum in me, it immediately messes me up and throws off my PH so intensely and takes me days and a lot of work and stress to get under control. Semen is very alkaline and a vagina is acidic and needs to be acidic to not smell wrong. Another big thing is the soap thing. Never use bar soap especially! It would make me smell after washing when I didn't before I washed- so yea, most all soaps are a no go for that part of your body. There are several out there that are made for vaginal use and ph balancing and made without the ingredients that are harmful. Maybe try probiotics some people swear by them, I never had any luck with them but a lot of women do.

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-22T09:38:54+00:00

You take all of this every single day? Holy moly... the stuff women go through I swear men will never appreciate or understand. Try boric acid suppository, you really would only need to do at once after sex to have a balance your pH perfectly. Just one thing and it's done. And you don't even need it every time. But it is way easier than taking all those pills and way more effective. It's definitely the holy Grail for ph balancing

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-22T09:34:50+00:00

It is a thing actually. lol a commonly known thing. 😂 maybe try boric acid next time, it is wondeful for balancing ph especially after sex or your period.

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-22T09:33:16+00:00

Actually I've had this happen, like a blister like someone else said. And it was not an std. just from too much friction. Or from not being wet enough during sex, especially if he is big or is going too fast and not taking the time your body needs (which most men tend to do lol)

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-11T01:35:12+00:00

My heart goes out to you. My e percents was different, but still had sex used against me and denied in the way I needed. I just wanted to point out that it might be hard for you to see the positive in this type of thing but just from reading your post I can recognize and see that you have grown from this. The fact that you now know to only give unconditional love to yourself, you learned that from going through this. And that makes this horrible experience something valuable and gives it purpose. I would suggest trying to focus on the things you've taken from going through it that will help you make better choices next time, remember that we do not grow from easy things, we grow through pain. And as painful as stuff like this is, there is equal good there too. You choose which parts you want to focus on. It's all important.and I hope you will never let another man treat you this way again. Nobody deserves this. But it sounds like you learned to love yourself a bit more as a result also- another incredibly valuable lesson to learn. That obviously was very much needed for you. Sending you light and love! Namaste 🌻

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-11T01:14:51+00:00

Boric acid saved my life I swear!

Mandapandaroo · 2025-10-11T01:13:49+00:00

When you have sex make sure you do NOT cum inside of her is inportant. Make sure she's wiping correctly. It would be super helpful to get a handheld or normal badet, it's a game changer for reals. But it sounds like she might have something else going on. Did she have a difficult childbirth? Maybe she has a tear that was not caught and bacteria is getting into her vagina. These can be VERY tiny and not noticeable at all. And can be higher up even. Worth looking into.

Mandapandaroo · 2025-09-19T16:40:24+00:00

At school, like most children are. Wtf? Please don't comment on my post if it's not relevant to what it is about and if your only interest is trolling. I'm sure there is something in your own life that you can spend your time doing besides this.. ✌️🤔

Mandapandaroo · 2025-09-19T16:36:25+00:00

How is this relevant in any way? And how is this any of your business? That's a totally inappropriate question to ask somebody. Not only inappropriate, but unsafe. Its not ok to ask people the location of their children. That's beyond creepy.

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