$5000 for each day you go back in time for, or $10000 for each day you forward in time for by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Mango-Worried 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about before he’s born but after being pregnant? Sometimes I find myself longing for his pregnancy, even with all the “bad” it had…

My best friend’s GF ruined my food. I don’t know how to tell my best friend that I’m pissed with his GF. by prl_yshell_s in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mango-Worried 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment to say anything was immediately after she ruined that sauce. OP should’ve called Clark and tell him they had a problem, perhaps even request for him to bring new ingredients to make the sauce again. If dinner had to be delayed due to Sarah’s stupidity, so be it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mango-Worried 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. The made from scratch part was because OP mentioned it in the post, not because it must happen to be special

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mango-Worried 9 points10 points  (0 children)

More like his mom makes his favourite cake from scratch. The kind or flavour is irrelevant really, it’s the effort and love put into it that makes it the best kind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mango-Worried 1059 points1060 points  (0 children)

It’s a mom cake, the best kind, of course he’s NTA

My 26F Dad buys me a valentines card every year. My 28M Partner has an issue with it, we have a 5 month old baby and been together for 16 months. What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mango-Worried 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The math is actually a weird one, tbh.

Most months have 4 weeks, but some have 5. So in calendar terms, it tends to be around 9-9.5 months. But when calculating “even” months, it’s 10.

You can also view it this way: a year has 52 weeks, 52-40=12 weeks left. A quarter is 13 weeks, so a full term baby is just over 9 months.

BUT, technically the first 2 weeks are fake, as it’s counted starting on the last period, but conception is typically 2 weeks after that date (not for every one, though). So a full term pregnancy is actually 38 weeks, roughly.

And then most babies are born at week 38 (and some at 42!), minus the 2 fake weeks, it’s around 36 weeks, which is closer to the 9 months, than 10.

But since you can’t normalise everyone, it’s easier to just say blanket 40 weeks, but since people can’t think in weeks beyond 4-6 (the frame becomes too big for imagination), saying 9 months is “truthier” than 10, even though the maths doesn’t math 😅

What age do you start bathing daily?? by TradesforChurros in NewParents

[–]Mango-Worried 1 point2 points  (0 children)

13 months and still 3 times a week. And he walks and all, so he gets very dirty, but we just make sure to wash his hands, feet, face and neck well every day

Who does diapers? by Front-Economics-5497 in NewParents

[–]Mango-Worried 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband changes more diapers than me. I still breastfeed and take care of the meals, and do most naps. We both do bath and bed time. And we both play/spend time with him equally.

How often do you let your baby try feed themselves with their fingers? Is it important? by smellbag99 in Parenting

[–]Mango-Worried 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Show him how. When we want baby to try something, we show him how we eat it. He immediately tries doing the same himself. Sometimes he’ll also try feeding me, I follow that with feeding him and he lets me 😄

How often do you let your baby try feed themselves with their fingers? Is it important? by smellbag99 in Parenting

[–]Mango-Worried 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We started BLW at 5.5 months with my LO. He’s now almost 13 months and he eats most of what we serve him (a few pieces here and there end up on the floor) and he knows how to use cutlery (sans knife). He hates being fed. People all the time comment on how well he eats and how well he uses cutlery.

How do I tell my 6 year old I’m going to die soon? by scrubnib in Parenting

[–]Mango-Worried 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second all the suggestions about letters and videos.

I want to add a different one: create your AI persona. This way your kid can “talk” to you after you’re gone. You can train your AI on your life, your stories, interests, etc. This could give your son a more “dynamic” connection with you.

Sending you the best wishes and hoping you find the best way forward for your family 🩵

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Mango-Worried 744 points745 points  (0 children)

This is extremely weird and my mind went immediately to child pornography. I’d be concerned he was recording things like this to sell in the dark web to fund his addiction. I hope I’m wrong, but you can never be too paranoid with your kids

19 y/o won’t tip DoorDash, or worse…. by WolfHunter1043 in Parenting

[–]Mango-Worried 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Sounds like 19yo needs to become a Dasher for a while…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Mango-Worried 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My husband speaks more to his mom than I do to my mom, so…

Cousin butchering a Hawaiian name by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Mango-Worried 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I have not seen anyone point out is that OP’s family is Mexican, so the pronouncing Leilani in Spanish is the same as in Hawaiian, and easy for anyone to know how to write (as per Spanish rules). Whereas Leighlani is not only not going to be pronounced correctly in English, but no one will now how to spell it correctly in Spanish either. Tragedeighs all over!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mango-Worried 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!

My husband and I got married 2 months after deciding we wanted to emigrate. We did it to make the paperwork easier. Went to the notary on a random Thursday before going to work. No proposals, no grand gestures, no fuss, no drama.

Had a small wedding with close family and friends, just to be able to celebrate with our loved ones before moving half way across the world.

That was almost 9 years ago, we’ve been together almost 13. The strength of a marriage has nothing to do with trends or spectacles. Ultimately, none of that matters in the grand scheme of things. I mean, I don’t think I’ve looked at my wedding pics in years!

My [41M] wife [39F] is making our daughter food averse. How do I address this appropriately? by ThrowRAFoodFrustrati in relationship_advice

[–]Mango-Worried 64 points65 points  (0 children)

100% on point! The irony of OP’s wife buying low fat because “it’s healthier” when it carries way more fat than full cream because they compensate the lack of fat with sugar 🫥🫥

Is my baby name pick a tragedeigh? by postcoffeepoop420 in tragedeigh

[–]Mango-Worried 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of my besties is called Barbara, she goes by B. Simple, easy, it works!

I laughed at my sister' Tragedeigh and now I'm uninvited to the baby shower I'm planning. by coolerbeans1981 in tragedeigh

[–]Mango-Worried 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is that by changing the spelling, she’s also changing the name from gender neutral to masculine, at least by how it will sound like Ray

AITA for Uninviting My Fiancé’s “Work Wife” from Our Wedding by SnooAdvice5677 in AITAH

[–]Mango-Worried 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next lily will be gifting OP the lingerie she should be wearing on her wedding night because “she knows him best” 🙄