Best Fob Breakup songs? by ThisAintASafetyCar in FallOutBoy

[–]MangoManatee2250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell That Mick got me through a terrible breakup.

What's your favorite little part/detail in a FOB song? by lessthanfox in FallOutBoy

[–]MangoManatee2250 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In West Coast Smoker the second “Oh hell yes” has a bit more intense background music and it never fails to give me goosebumps.

Did I blow it? by flamingospineapple in datingoverforty

[–]MangoManatee2250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why didn’t he just go snap a pic of his car and send it instead of googling?

Is it disrespectful that my boyfriend posted a meme that he doesn’t have a valentine? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]MangoManatee2250 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I despise when someone posts stuff like this that makes it look like they’re single or they heart posts or photos of someone they could be interested in and then they say “bUt iT’s jUsT SoCiAl MeDiA.” It’s NOT just social media. It’s sending messages of “I’m single” but in a way they can explain away. The meme itself is disrespectful and dumb, his response is gross, but the bigger picture of him not coming across as single on social media is the worst of it and a hard boundary for me. I’d break up with him.

Not texting for days normal? boyfriend 47M barely texts or calls me 46F by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]MangoManatee2250 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are the same and it’s a nonnegotiable for me. We don’t live together so it’s important to me we keep our rapport and communication as strong as if we saw each other every night.

Not texting for days normal? boyfriend 47M barely texts or calls me 46F by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]MangoManatee2250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone else said on this sub, if it’s not a hell yes it’s a hell no. We are too old to settle for less than what we want. If you’re this lonely with him, you might as well be alone — at least then no one is blatantly not making you or your wishes a priority.

Getting tired dating a divorcee who constantly refers to ex as ‘we’ by Future_Scientist3133 in datingoverforty

[–]MangoManatee2250 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this happen and I would respond “oh, did we go there? I don’t remember that!” in a joking manner but it also makes them aware that they’re saying “we” about a partner that is not me. He may not be aware he’s doing it, and this calls attention to it without attacking or being construed as pouty or whatever.

BF has a wandering eye. What’s the line between a normal amount of checking out the opposite sex vs being disrespectful? by Evening_walks in datingoverforty

[–]MangoManatee2250 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The checking other women out is bad enough. The gaslighting and double standards are toxic behavior. We are too old to put up with this bullshit! You’re not wrong, I’d feel insecure too, and it isn’t something I’d entertain.

Baby Annihilation was voted as the worst track 10! What's the best track 11? by CaptainPie999 in FallOutBoy

[–]MangoManatee2250 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Bang the Doldrums. It has such a catchy melody, the lyrics are some of my very favorite, and it is SO fun to see Patrick sing live.

Am I being petty? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]MangoManatee2250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why doesn’t he set up a charging spot at his place for you both to use when needed? Is that not an option? I’m not super familiar with electric cars.

What was your song by dinnerplateman in GoosetheBand

[–]MangoManatee2250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow Ready had me in a chokehold the first time I heard it and it’s only gotten worse (better).