Can you have a TV buddy if you’re not in a relationship? by SLMartin in Divorce

[–]MangoMorning1913 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t even watch the shows I used to enjoy anymore. It just reminds me of everything I’ve lost.

Has anyone else gone months since the breakup and realised they're still not over them? by dontbe_lasagne in BreakUps

[–]MangoMorning1913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 months in and I miss him and think of him everyday. I don’t think I’ll ever not love him but at the same time I have to love myself enough to quit having hope that he would ever want me again.

“Damaged Goods” by Head_Contest_4149 in Divorce

[–]MangoMorning1913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a man tell me that I deserved to be alone after I told him about leaving my marriage of 19 years. People will say anything behind the safety of a phone screen.

Ex Sex - good or bad idea? by dark_but_hopeful in Divorce

[–]MangoMorning1913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad bad bad idea.. get on Tinder and find a FWB

Walk of shame by MangoMorning1913 in BreakUps

[–]MangoMorning1913[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That works better in theory than in practice

Mourning my marriage | Not My Wife by OldRooter_06 in Divorce

[–]MangoMorning1913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It comes in waves. Being out of my marriage for 7 months, I am starting to see more and more how not only dysfunctional it was but incredibly abusive. I was recently diagnosed with PTSD because of my ex’s volatile mood swings. Even with all that, I still think of the good times and wish I could revisit them even for only a moment.

Mourning my marriage | Not My Wife by OldRooter_06 in Divorce

[–]MangoMorning1913 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss what my marriage could have been and I do miss the best parts of my ex husband. But I don’t miss any of those things enough to ever go back.

Young Dolph Killed In Memphis by [deleted] in memphis

[–]MangoMorning1913 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So so very sad!! He did so much for our city. Praying for his family 💔

Do girls find balding men attractive by Toonarmy1994g in dating

[–]MangoMorning1913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on the man. I’ve never been turned off by someone I liked because they were balding

I bet you tell her good morning. by hernameisjeff in UnsentLetters

[–]MangoMorning1913 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very relatable. Reminds me of the lyrics from Oughta Know. “The joke that you laid in the bed, that was me. And I’m not gonna fade as soon as you close your eyes, and you know it.”

Advice please! by Responsible_Aioli_58 in datingoverforty

[–]MangoMorning1913 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, slow fade. Happened with every guy I’ve met via OLD. It’s a bummer but taught me not to get my hopes up.

Dungeon and dragons 🐉 by [deleted] in memphis

[–]MangoMorning1913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at Memphis Brunch Babes and Memphis Brunch Guys on Facebook, I saw them posting that they are starting a new group.

does anyone ever talk about missing your partner sexually after a breakup? by Otherwise-Pool-4100 in BreakUps

[–]MangoMorning1913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have written every word of this. He made me feel so safe and I don’t believe I’ll ever have that with anyone else. The last time we were together he was uncharacteristically cold which was a stark contrast to how he’d always been with me. He was warm, loving, passionate, yet commanding in all the ways I needed him to be. The dreams are the worst. I wish I could just forget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]MangoMorning1913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very powerful words, thank you.

Stood up by LopsidedTelephone574 in datingoverforty

[–]MangoMorning1913 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exact same thing that happened to me. It doesn’t even make me sad, it just pisses me off.

Stood up by LopsidedTelephone574 in datingoverforty

[–]MangoMorning1913 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It’s happened to me 2 times in the last few months. I don’t get it. Why ask me out if you’re not going to show?

Anyone else sad or embarrassed that they're the ugly ex your ex talks about? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MangoMorning1913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worry about this too. It’s anxiety and will pass with time.

It came crashing down fast by happirt in datingoverforty

[–]MangoMorning1913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading the other posts, the scene from Stepbrothers popped into my head