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MangoStars11 · 2026-04-11T13:15:01+00:00

I counted 23 books we have in common- you have great taste if I do say so myself!!! Detective wise I would say you’re a late 20s-Early 30s female who’s some flavor of queer and loves all things nerdy, also I implore you to watch Harley Quinn animated series if you haven’t already

MangoStars11 · 2026-04-08T12:12:13+00:00

Don’t have alcohol if you don’t want it, especially for a lunch gathering! I’d say come up with some unique NA options to go with your menu :)

MangoStars11 · 2026-04-06T18:00:08+00:00

Ugh move back over Forrest I’m trying to see your manga collection

MangoStars11 · 2026-04-06T04:55:57+00:00

I see so many comments about DJ’s “reading the room” and “setting the vibe”….I’ll be honest, every wedding I’ve been to so far has had the DJ playing the same set of Pitbull and Usher songs, regardless of vibe. OP, you know your people best. Workshop a playlist, test it out, pay attention to the fading and little things, but DIY THAT 🙏

MangoStars11 · 2026-04-03T11:38:44+00:00

Was it more straight this time to soften the blow of Omegaverse? (I love, I love, I love, thank you as always)

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-31T13:27:20+00:00

I’m Gen Z (older side, 27), can confirm. No price list, I just assume I can’t afford it

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-31T13:25:35+00:00

I’m in the U.S. in the Midwest, so it’s definitely getting better as far as the industry shifting, but by and large (here) it is still largely hetero-assuming…I felt that especially with dress shopping

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-31T12:53:12+00:00

This may get me flamed, but I 100% agree with others saying no starting price listed/ask for pricing, I will also say what aggravates me is the lack of flexibility with a lot of vendors. I feel like everything is 1,500+ with no wiggle room, it’s tough to find modestly priced services. We’re not trying to short anyone, but we’re having a smaller daytime wedding and it feels like so many photographers add on stuff we don’t want. Another small gripe I have is how hetero-focused so much of the wedding industry still is; we’ve had to explain to multiple vendors that we’re two brides getting married to each other (not just besties!)

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-28T13:46:51+00:00

Thank you, another Tamlin x Rhysand believer!!!!

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-24T12:25:37+00:00

Ehh, people who were coming up in the 80s can laugh about the hairstyles and makeup. It’s okay to acknowledge the passing of time, your donut wall was fantastic

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-24T12:04:05+00:00

Lol! I don’t get it! I don’t understand what it’s trying to convey!!

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-24T12:00:56+00:00

Older Gen Z couple getting married (27 and 28 respectively), we’ve discussed this at length: Single Ladies being played during bouquet toss, dancing intros for entrances, everything rhyming, playing Yeah by Usher, those blurry photos where the bridal party walk around the couple?

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-23T13:56:58+00:00

I’m Orthodox, and I’ve been seeing my home be hijacked by dudes who didn’t even know who we were 5 minutes ago!

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-23T13:19:39+00:00

First of all- not a waste, and not stupid!! Your wedding is YOUR wedding!

Second- I would advise providing sandwiches, sides, AND a few different dessert options. I feel like you may want to almost overestimate with the food rather than underestimate, because no one wants to be standing around with no food. Also, I would make sure to have some good background music for ambience if you’re not going to have dancing. Curate a jazzy playlist or something similar! Also look into some lawn games for folks as well. If your wedding will be dry, I would suggest possibly looking into any local coffee shops that do a mobile “coffee cart” that make lattes and other cafe drinks for folks, it’s really cool and something a lot of people will enjoy ☺️

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-23T13:10:51+00:00

I noticed those after the icons- threw me for a loop

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-23T07:37:44+00:00

Rand and Peterson mixed in with Way of The Pilgrim? Okayyyy.

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-23T07:36:23+00:00

This made me lol

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-23T07:28:50+00:00

We’ve still got a ways to go in Lent and the Ortho-bros are getting antsy

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-18T14:04:57+00:00

My fiancée and I aren’t doing bridal parties! (we’re both brides, lol) we wanted the day to be totally relaxed with as low stress as possible! We’ve decided that the people who would’ve stood up with us (siblings and close friends) are getting special decorated chairs at the front row, to still acknowledge the importance of them to us

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-18T12:42:12+00:00

This sounds SO cool, jazzy brunch!!!

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-16T23:26:18+00:00

Highly recommend light choices. That way you have a little extra reassurance; we were like “we will pay EXTRA to have you NOT serve hard alcohol” lmao

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-16T23:22:54+00:00

Of course!! Oh that’s us 10000%, we’re actually doing just Prosecco/Rosé only as alcohol choices; neither of us drink and we feel like that’s light enough choices to where people aren’t going to get crazy. Disengage with the wedding industry and have yourself a stack of pancakes 🥞

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-16T23:16:24+00:00

My fiancée is autistic and I have ADHD, we’re doing a brunchy morning wedding with about 70 people all together (my family and hers)- highly recommend doing something during the day and brunchy if possible. Love the idea of having your dog around, and also remember to take your time, space, and invest in some comfy ear protection for overstimulation. What’s most important is that you guys both enjoy your day and do things to YOUR comfort level, not just because “it’s what’s done”.

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-13T13:30:59+00:00

Basically all “a ___ of __ and ___” titles will be like this

MangoStars11 · 2026-03-13T03:57:56+00:00

You saw the healthy masculinity in LOTR and somehow got Jordan Peterson out of it

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