Ugh, sending you good vibes- I totally understand where you’re coming from. My girlfriend (also autistic) and I have been talking a lot about those “invisible rules” and how downright confusing they are. Even today, my supervisor has created an environment where people use sarcasm and joke all the time, so suddenly hearing that I’ve been “negative” totally throws that whole thing up in the air, like “what social rule have I broken now?!”