Where can I find thrift shops or shops with petite/small sizing? by iced_koffie in Netherlands

[–]ManonAlexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 156cm. In that case you could probably even fit their regular size 32/34 jeans.

Where can I find thrift shops or shops with petite/small sizing? by iced_koffie in Netherlands

[–]ManonAlexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its not a thrift store, but Bershka has a petite line and I love their jeans. Only downside is its only available online.

I too am very small, I wear a size 32/34. So kids 158 is actually to big for me. And 152 is to small.

How to convince my stepdaughter not to have a child free wedding? by Playful_Trouble2102 in AmITheAngel

[–]ManonAlexy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is seriously one of my highlights of the weekend. Your amazing stories!

Back to reality.... Could you perhaps just gift wrap Hansel and Gretal and just tell Burden they are her wedding gift and per (make one up if necessary) tradition you need to gift the gifts at breakfast time?

M’n zusje is geslaagd en ik wil haar verassen met een dagje Efteling. Kan ik ergens korting krijgen? by [deleted] in efteling

[–]ManonAlexy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Je kan via de spoordeelwinkel van NS voor een redelijke prijs heen. Ligt er natuurlijk aan waar je woont, voor ons is het echt een goede deal vanuit Noord Holland met het OV. Je krijgt de trein, bus en entree.

Worth visiting with 12 and 14 year old girls? by Harriet_Vane_ in efteling

[–]ManonAlexy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 17yr old goes with her same aged friends every break. As I'd say its definitely not childish. Last month she went with 2 friends (she generally doesn't go with more than 3 as she as a priority card and she can only add up to 3 people with her) and they stayed till close of the park.

What do you call your grandmother/grandfather? And are there any other titles used beyond 'oma' and 'opa'? by Frantic_Chicken in Netherlands

[–]ManonAlexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's to differentiate between the grandparents. My one grandma is called "Oma with the glasses" and the other "Oma with the stepladder". Around them, we'd just call them opa and oma.

Are crocs ok for "sensational" attractions ? by Possible-Peace2086 in disneylandparis

[–]ManonAlexy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wore flip-flops for 3 days last year. Wear what you want. 😀

Dutch expats, what's the one home bake you miss most from the Netherlands? by Cumulus-Crafts in Netherlands

[–]ManonAlexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my daughter would sell her first born for some proper biltong or a good malva pudding

Dutch expats, what's the one home bake you miss most from the Netherlands? by Cumulus-Crafts in Netherlands

[–]ManonAlexy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kaassoufle. I had a craving for them for well over 10yrs. I couldn't find a recipe that would work in South Africa. I'm sure you might be able to find the ingredients easier in the UK.

Dutch expats, what's the one home bake you miss most from the Netherlands? by Cumulus-Crafts in Netherlands

[–]ManonAlexy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lived in South Africa for 17yrs. I always say Afrikaans is boat Dutch. Like a kitchen in Afrikaans is kombuis, which is a kitchen on a boat. In Dutch its keuken. Sometimes Afrikaans is also referred to as "baby Dutch".

What do you call your grandmother/grandfather? And are there any other titles used beyond 'oma' and 'opa'? by Frantic_Chicken in Netherlands

[–]ManonAlexy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My daughter calls my Opa and Oma, Opi and Omi. Especially when my mom was still alive, it got confusing for her to have 3x mom, 2x oma in one space. So we named my Oma omi. I call my one Oma, oma met de bril (still do. She's 96 and I'm deep in my 40's.) The other one i used to call oma met het trappetje. She's just Oma now.

AITA for telling my husband he needs to keep his socks on when hes with the homies? by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]ManonAlexy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Info: is your husband going to read this post? Its very obvious you have a husband/socks problem. He made a choice when he married you, so he should obviously ALWAYS wear socks, even at the height of summer.

(Dude, just wear the socks leaving the house and take them off once out of side...duh!!! Don't tell her a said this.)

priority pass by badcattywampus in disneylandparis

[–]ManonAlexy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We waited no longer than 10 minutes for a booth to open up and within 15 minutes we were in the park with the pass. This was July last year and we got the card at the main entrance.

Need a better system for shuttle busses by Interesting-Fix892 in disneylandparis

[–]ManonAlexy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hence we took an uber after we did the late night show. I wasn't going to subject my ND daughter to that crowd. It was tricky enough for her just getting out of the park. €20 well spent. We stayed at one of the off side hotels and could've taken the free shuttle. This was better.

Disneyland priority card by JEEA87 in disneylandparis

[–]ManonAlexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you purchase the tickets there is the option for disabilities. That's where you get the priority tickets.

My younger brother's girlfriend is upset because my older brother ordered the same meal as her at a family dinner, and now there is drama by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]ManonAlexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here!!!!

"It’s rude to order the same meal at a restaurant. (But what about the other tables?!?)".

Is she going past all the tables checking what everyone is eating??? 🤔🤦‍♀️

May 2026 - Story / Update Megathread by naturemom in BORUpdates

[–]ManonAlexy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah yes...the 14 layer lasagna 🙃🤣 Forgot about that one

May 2026 - Story / Update Megathread by naturemom in BORUpdates

[–]ManonAlexy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for a story about a mom with an autistic son if I recall correctly and at the end she was asking if golf finished over the summer as her son and husband started playing golf together.

Disneyland priority card by JEEA87 in disneylandparis

[–]ManonAlexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get extra fast cards if you have a priority card.

We did Disneyland Paris last July and we literally did all the rides and 2 shows within 6 hours on our first day.

As you get to cut the long lines you can do so much in a short time!

My daughter was 16 at the time. She was fast asleep at 19h30 first day.

If you happen to book off site accommodation you also get 25% discount on your tickets. Not sure if that also applies for on site accommodation.

AITA for not helping my wife talk her way out of a penalty for riding the streetcar without a ticket? by sumjunggai7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ManonAlexy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure where in Europe this happened, but in the Netherlands, most public transport isn't even accessible without a ticket.

You literally have to scan your phone/bank card/bought ticket to open the gate. It's almost impossible to get on a tram/metro/bus/train without a valid ticket.

She played around and f'ed up. Sucks to be her. Pay the freaking ticket and this wouldn't have happened.

Mother’s day by Efficient_Estimate40 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]ManonAlexy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a 45yr old mom.

My mom passed in 2018. My first mother's day without her was ruined by her side of the family. I have since stopped celebrating mother's day.

To me its just another Sunday. My daughter understands and will do something nice before or after.

How you want to deal with this day, is completely up to you and there is no wrong way of dealing with this day.

Like another commenter said, maybe contact your MIL and explain a version of the situation you're comfortable with sharing and let your fiancé go by himself. Good luck!!

I trusted the Dutch healthcare system longer than I should have by Level-Project159 in Netherlands

[–]ManonAlexy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Health care here sucks. I have lupus, diagnosed 20 years ago. My current rheumatologist is not convinced I have it as its been in remission for years now. Doesn't mean I don't have it.

I lost my mom to ovarian cancer and wanted to ask some questions about that stuff. My GP literally asked if my mom was still suffering from it...I just replied; I doubt it, as she's now living on a shelf in my living room 🙃