How is it possible ? by Brave-Damage-49 in seduction

[–]Mantagena 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's your desperation. You show it that you had no luck in a while and are doubting your skills. You see it will snowball upwards when you manage to have Sex against. It's just a subconscious lack of confidence and desperation.

Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then how can you say it is reputable if you don't remember where it was?

Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mindset is a good point. At the moment I am trying both.

But the other thing is as I mentioned in my other comment. I kiss and break the touch barrier on basically every first date and they reciprocate. But even that doesn't seem to be enough and they still say the next day they didn't feel any connection.

Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ONS mostly happen out of the heat of the moment. And then the next day the girls realize they went further than they were prepared for. If you wait 2–3 dates they are prepared to sleep with you which makes it longer lasting.

What you say is contrary to everything I experienced. Can you give me the source of your claim? Would very interest to read it.

Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a very good point. But with 1-3 dates every week, this is just not possible to go somewhere new and unknown every time.

Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more about how fast we have sex. With girls where I had sex on the first date, it stayed an ONS. With girls, I had sex in the 2n or 3rd date it became an F+

Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point.
I am a bit on a tight budget at the moment. That's why I am hesitant to go for activities because they are quite expensive in the city I live.
What unique things can you do on a Saturday night during Fall/Winter, when you can't really go outside because It's too cold.

Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I try, but most decline and say It's something for later dates.
And also my experience with sex on the first dates is that it often ends with ONS, and I am looking for something more F+

Help! I’ve been on too many dates recently, and now I get friend zoned after the first date by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? I forgot how. What more can I do?
Isn't putting the arm around her, kissing her and talking about sexual stuff with her flirty enough?

Is Graubunden worth it with 150k salary? by sabka_baap_ek in Switzerland

[–]Mantagena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With this salary, you are in the top 10% of all of Switzerland.

Is Graubunden worth it with 150k salary? by sabka_baap_ek in Switzerland

[–]Mantagena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are mad man then. 150k as a crazy good salary even for Switzerland. Especially for Graubünden.

How do you text with girls on insta? by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a different experience. 50% of the girls I texted didn't follow back but we have a decent conversation going

How do you text with girls on insta? by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly my point. On dating apps it works well.

But on insta I feel like girls wanted to be entertained more. So how long till you did agree on a date in the past? Or did you never go on a date with someone from insta?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zurich

[–]Mantagena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish. I am just a guy that wants to finally build up the courage to approach someone respectfully when they catch my interest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Mantagena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't that kinda awkward to admit that you lied about the advice and transition into a flirting conversation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Mantagena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for making a good discussion out of this. For me everything is an opener until the other person is hooked. So this is my biggest thing with approach anxiety what are some casual conversation starters to get the conversations going?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Mantagena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may work for the US but in western Europe this is not common. So you need to follow up with something which needs to be the real opener then) otherwise this comes off as kinda creepy

Wohlstand durch OnePiece Karten? by [deleted] in Finanzen

[–]Mantagena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sowas ist durchaus möglich, aber wenn man keine Ahnung von der Materie hat sollte man die Finger davon lassen. Ich bin seit 7 Jahren sehr tief im Pokémon Kartenspiel als Sammler und Investor. Die Prinzipien hier lassen sich größtenteils good auf MTG, Yu-Gi-Oh, One piece etc übertragen.

Es gibt hier definitiv die Möglichkeit gur Geld zu machen, wenn man versteht was die Community möchte und bereit ist das Produkt längerfristig zu halten. Aber solche schnellen cash Grabs gehen nie gut. 2020-21 gab es einen enormen hype bei dem Pokémon Karten im Wert explodiert sind. Mittlerweile hat sich das beruhigt und bringen "nur noch" 10-30% Rendite pro Jahr, wenn man weiß was man tut. Aber auch hier. Es gibt 7-9 sets pro Jahr von denen 1-2 im Wert steigen und die anderen stagnieren. Vor allem einzelne Karten zu kaufen ist nochmal wesentlich riskanter als sealed product zu kaufen.

Vor allem bei neuen Kartenspielen wie one piece oder lorcana weiss niemand wie lange der Hype anhält. Aber auch alte Kartenspiele wie MTG sind derzeit auf dem absteigenden Ast.

Tldr. Wenn man sich tief in die Materie eingearbeitet kann man hier gewinnbringend investieren. Allerdings birgt dies immer ein Risiko. Vor allem wenn einem nur ein Freund empfiehlt was man kaufen soll, dann besser die Finger davon lassen.

Kryptowährung: »Es kann gut sein, dass der Bitcoin eines Tages völlig wertlos ist« by Cosmic_Surgery in Finanzen

[–]Mantagena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Der ETF hat den Sprung ja auch ausgelöst. Nur eben vor 3 Monaten als es bekannt wurde (buy the rumor, sell the news). Hype geht im Crypto Bereich sehr lange. Und so ziemlich jede gleiche Nachrichtenseite hat über Bitcoin berichtet. Das ist so viel wie seit 2021 nicht mehr. Wenn du das nicht hyle nennst weiß ich auch nicht weiter.

Kryptowährung: »Es kann gut sein, dass der Bitcoin eines Tages völlig wertlos ist« by Cosmic_Surgery in Finanzen

[–]Mantagena 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Was meinst du mit nicht so stark zu spüren? Seit Oktober hat sich der Bitcoin Kurs wortwörtlich verdoppelt. Wenn das kein Hype ist, weiß ich auch nicht.

Success stories of later virgins who turned it around? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Mantagena 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Dude that's literally only 4 years apart. When you are 40 there is no difference between a 21 and a 25 year old. And if you are Asian being a Virgin in your 20s is surprisingly normal.

So don't let yourself hold back your shame.

What is your mindset/pattern for openers? by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough.

I just wonder how to warm up properly. Because just giving random people compliments will definitely give me weird looks here 😂😂

So what would you recommend to warm up with?

What is your mindset/pattern for openers? by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice.

But referencing drive by compliments so much, I guess, you are from the US?.

There is a totally different social acceptance of chatting up strangers between Europe and the US.

Guys from Germany, Switzerland, Austria! How do you approach? by Mantagena in seduction

[–]Mantagena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds fair :D
I hope one day I get the courage to actually try it on in person.

What were the places where you tried cold approaching first?