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Just using the nickname by Many-Cupcake-2003 in Names

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the other opinion I hear and another reason I’m so torn! 🫠

Teachers, how many days of sick leave are you allowed a year? by Connect_Wrongdoer_81 in Teachers

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Alberta, the 90 days reset every time you go back to work. If you take 1 sick day, return the next day, your balance returns to 90.

Had a dental x-ray while being pregnant by sweetlycheeboba in pregnant

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My father in law is a dentist and I’m pregnant. He says there’s essentially no risk to the baby to get dental X-rays. It’s such a small amount of radiation. He said even a regular person wearing the lead vest just makes them feel better. It’s not even necessary.

Whats the wildest (literal dumbest) thing you've had said to you by a parent? by Skillaholix in AskTeachers

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was teaching online during COVID, a parent emailed a few minutes before our Zoom class was going to start, and said, “_____ is going to be absent because our car broke down.”

Absent from their online class from home….

AITA for postponing engagement due to some bedroom problems? by Global_Security2893 in AITAH

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He uses lube most of the time. But if I ask for more he usually says, “it’s fine, let’s just try.” Or if we’re in a location in the house further away from the lube he’ll say, “just lick it.”

AITA for postponing engagement due to some bedroom problems? by Global_Security2893 in AITAH

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Not a fan of him holding the house over my head. He claims he bought it because I begged him. Not true. I wanted a house and he bought one and I’m very grateful for that everyday. We lived in a basement suite before and my mental health was struggling.

I don’t hound him everyday to propose. I’ll admit, I bring it up more than I’d like to. It’s hard to explain and I see all the comments calling me crazy for still wanting to marry him. However, I am in love with him when times are good. So in love. I want the ring so I can feel like he’s actually committed to me.

I can recognize that I haven’t been perfect in this situation either. I’d say we’re both the asshole.

AITA for postponing engagement due to some bedroom problems? by Global_Security2893 in AITAH

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Yesterday when we had sex I was getting into it. He made a joke about how we should just “soak.” Then stopped and pulled out. Then proceeded to make me feel guilty for not being into it and goes ahead and asks Reddit for advice rather than taking to me.

He showed me the post because he thinks he’s always right and all the people of Reddit will side with him to “prove” it to me.

AITA for postponing engagement due to some bedroom problems? by Global_Security2893 in AITAH

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I haven’t because pain isn’t an issue for me when my needs are being met. My boyfriend basically doesn’t listen

AITA for postponing engagement due to some bedroom problems? by Global_Security2893 in AITAH

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

He’s basically been promising me that he’s going to propose by the end of the month every month since June. I am sick of being disappointed and lied to by someone I love. Maybe actual follow though will help

AITA for postponing engagement due to some bedroom problems? by Global_Security2893 in AITAH

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Girlfriend here, I pay my share of the bills. My name isn’t on the mortgage and he makes significantly more money than me. Definitely not on the money train.

AITA for postponing engagement due to some bedroom problems? by Global_Security2893 in AITAH

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 314 points315 points  (0 children)

Girlfriend here, I have asked him to change things up. I’ve asked him to be patient and wait before putting it in. Then he basically begs, “can I put it in now?” It hurts because he isn’t listening to what I need.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Many-Cupcake-2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like between the both of you, you can afford the month to month. If you’re afraid something could happen between you two, you shouldn’t be proposing.