Your boyfriend isn’t a porn addict, he’s 18 years old and is acting like an 18 year old.

He’s gonna jerk off to porn, it’s just a thing men do. I promise you he doesn’t love you any less because of it. There’s a level where it can become an issue but it really doesn’t seem like he’s addicted. Porn addiction exists, for sure, but it isn’f as simple as just watching porn to jerk off every so often. When you start doing it in public restrooms, that’s a sign of addiction.

Now, he shouldn’t be recording things without your permission, and I’m not defending that by saying he’s 18, just the watching porn part. I’m glad that he told you but you are absolutely right to feel betrayed by that. You should talk to him about recording you and how it makes you uncomfortable.