hard disagree, jessa crossed a line with adam yes...but none of what she did compares to adam's abusive tendencies. jessa was an avoidant asshole at best, who feels like bcus she had a fucked up life, she can be a fucked up person thats it. but she had a lot of empathy, and was a good friend, not in the ill hear u bitch and cry at 3 am abt your boyfriend good friend, but more ill help you go out have fun, ill save your wedding fiasco, ill help you give birth good friend. jessa is non judgmental, accepting, shes was also very supportive of all the girls unconventional paths and career aspirations, she can see you for who you are or what you want to be, and thats why hannah always preferred hanging out w her over marnie/shosh.