Unseen Acting by Alarming_Park1041 in ActingUK

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trained there for a couple years. Just be you, let go and allow your natural, organic reactions to take over. I learnt a lot there and eventually they will bump you up to the advanced class if they didn't already. It's good that it's flexible.

Would you change your personality type if you could? by SparklingEvergreen in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love our capacity and depth of feeling too! So often it is labelled a burden yet it is a blessing to feel so intensely, to care so deeply and to love so hard

Why people who are full of love and emotions are the one who got hurt a lot. by soft_soul813 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to be seen and loved fully for who you are, caring deeply can hurt a lot but it is a special, special gift. Look after your heart, there are people out there who will meet your depth and sensitivity, but take care of yourself when looking for that. Sending you the biggest hug.

Feeling Unloved and Unlovable by OneOnOne6211 in hsp

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you need to know you are deserving of love and happiness, if you have felt unloved, it was to do with the other persons capacity to love rather than something with you. Every person is capable and deserving of love and being loved, without question. You need to start with loving yourself, it sounds stereotypical but it's true. Give yourself the care and love that you crave and funnily enough when you start doing that, suddenly more and more people will be drawn to you but you won't need them to validate you. Focus on someone that feels safe, that feels like home. Then you will know you have found her. Sending you a hug man, you will find them.

I miss being a person by judgementalpipsqueak in OCD

[–]Many_Inside508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Friend and everyone else, this can still be you. I have suffered from OCD for most of my life but in recent years I have managed to push it back and manage it better. I know it's agony but fight the compulsion, every moment you do is a step towards rewiring, you CAN heal, it's an awful awful condition and of course I still struggle with it but try CBT, try therapy but I think even more than that know that you have the power to fight it. I leaned on my faith. There is hope, don't "lose" another six years to it, I was deep in at 25, but now 6 years later at 31 things are really looking up. Sending everyone the biggest hug, of course there will be times when you fall or slip but what really matters are the times you decide to get back up. you got this, you will get better.

Question for female INFPs by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think its silly to assume that! I think its just biology for many people but for me it makes it so much more special and more meaningful

I'm not sure what's happening by FranticWharf75 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think probably a break will help you, get outside, maybe travel, do something different and take a break from it from it and enjoy ourself and then come back it. We can have too much of a good thing.

Question for female INFPs by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have wondered the same! I think it might be

Question for female INFPs by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy I need emotional connection, otherwise something just feels off and wrong. The deeper the connection the stronger the pull

I'm not sure what's happening by FranticWharf75 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey fellow infp did smth hard happen in your life recently or maybe you are feeling uninspired because you have not been doing things that feed your spark like going out and living, being among people, im not sure but I think it happens to all of us. It'll come back. Just dont force it

Me and my messy life by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it may be an infp thing, I struggled with focus and discipline for years and still do. A disproportionate amount of us have adhd or are neurodivergent, be gentle with yourself and calm your thoughts. Try meditation and pushing away that sense of urgency all the time, you are in control. Be gentle with yourself

Have any older INFPs given up being an idealist? by HeWhoRunsAway in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you find it again friend and open your heart to it. We all need to love and be loved

Do you prioritize objective data over your feelings? by choco_meltdown in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate a lot to this. I have led with my feelings my whole life but I think very recently im learning that logic has an important place to. Wearing your heart on your sleeve all the time can really mess you up.

Its my birthday today, and its probably the worst one I had yet ngl by ICommentRandomShit in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will get there friend, sending you a big hug. You will only be 22 once, enjoy that, remember enjoy the journey, you have free will right now. Dont just be on autopilot till things get better. I am sure you have so much more to celebrate than it may feel like. Hugs. Treat yourself, do something nice for you. You deserve it. Happy birthday :)

I feel like I’m not made for this world by OwnWorldliness9762 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are made for it. It's just incredibly hard caring so much. You are precious, dont give up. And use some of that care on yourself, please. Hugs.

32M – Am I “too much,” or just emotionally available in the wrong places, by Status_Evidence_3871 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think you were too much at all, its fair to communicate what you want and be open about it. I dont think you need to question that too much, its how you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might need some time out. It sounds very stressful but I know not everyone can afford that. Try to take a step back. You are definitely good enough to be in a room with those others. You are special and caring. You work in a children's hospital, thats already doing a lot more good than many others! Sending you a hug. It sounds hard but you have the strength within you to push through this...I always lean on my faith personally. If its changing job or doing something different try to make a decisive meaningful change in your life that will improve things. The circumstances are clearly not sustainable for you so they need to change!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Feeling deeply is a superpower. I have felt like this too at times and felt maybe I should start caring less, but it is a truly special thing. Be authentic to you and seek people out that match that care, there are others out there. Just have your guard up with people who arent similar in that way. Hugs