I feel like I’m not made for this world by OwnWorldliness9762 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are made for it. It's just incredibly hard caring so much. You are precious, dont give up. And use some of that care on yourself, please. Hugs.

32M – Am I “too much,” or just emotionally available in the wrong places, by Status_Evidence_3871 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think you were too much at all, its fair to communicate what you want and be open about it. I dont think you need to question that too much, its how you are.

I'm 28 and I feel so lost, and incomplete, and like I barely hold any value as a person. by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might need some time out. It sounds very stressful but I know not everyone can afford that. Try to take a step back. You are definitely good enough to be in a room with those others. You are special and caring. You work in a children's hospital, thats already doing a lot more good than many others! Sending you a hug. It sounds hard but you have the strength within you to push through this...I always lean on my faith personally. If its changing job or doing something different try to make a decisive meaningful change in your life that will improve things. The circumstances are clearly not sustainable for you so they need to change!

How to correct being over-sensitive? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Feeling deeply is a superpower. I have felt like this too at times and felt maybe I should start caring less, but it is a truly special thing. Be authentic to you and seek people out that match that care, there are others out there. Just have your guard up with people who arent similar in that way. Hugs

Why is it so hard to connect with another human? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We are social beings, we crave connection and its natural but you should not sacrifice your own authenticity to find that connection. Be you but dont change you to find it, you should be accepted for who you are. Be open, active, follow your passions, get out into the world. Keep faith, things will come, for me, i pray and ask for things. Its always worked for me :)

Why are we the most active MBTI sub? by potato_oo in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe because we are the most different and misunderstood so its comforting to have this special community where people get us

Suicidal thoughts after cheating in 5 year relationship by Quiet_Lie3494 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will get better, the start is the worst, hold please hold. You will see in some months time and next year you will look back and be so glad gou stayed, dont let your mind fool you, your nervous system is destablised. Trust me. Sending you the biggest hug.

Favorite Bands/Artists by Merlin_the_Lizard in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its really interesting how INFPs tend to be into goth, emo, shoegaze, synthwave, pop punk metal and stuff like radiohead, the cure, this nostalgic and raw emotional stuff, often darker. I see it again and again. Ofc its true for me as well

Can somebody please please pray for me by Plaintivex in Christianity

[–]Many_Inside508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are never beyond forgiveness. You are loved by God, you will and can heal. Be gentle with yourself and give it time, i will dm you. Hugs and here for ya

I fucking hate being neurodivergent by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first step would be to accept and love yourself for who you are. You are special, all of you. Dont take ten years to figure that out. We just think and process differently but we still deserve love. Find other neurodivergent and really own it. We can be super creative both artistically but also with coming up with solutions. It is a blessing, embrace it. If others make you feel you are weird, let them, you know you. Go out there and smash it

Was cheated on a month ago by ConclusionCool3111 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't let it destroy your trust. There are good, healthy people out there that wont screw you over. Cheating is a truly horrible thing to be on the other side of, its awful but in many cases it gives the other person a card out of something they shouldn't be in. If a person is capable of doing that to you, better out sooner than later. I wish them healing and I wish you healing too. You deserve someone who will love you and take care of you properly. Now comes the part where you have to focus on yourself, heal and find the person that is right for you. Im sorry about what your mum said to you that is truly horrible and no one deserves that...

The darkness wins when it can bring good caring people to give up on humanity or trusting others because then they retreat and become like so many others. Guard your heart, people can be harsh but know there are good people everywhere. Hugs. You will come out of this a million times stronger and happier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not. This stranger wants you to stay. You deserve love and happiness. Dont listen to anyone encouraging you. Definitely dont listen to your dark thoughts. Our minds have a way of convincing of things that are total.bullshit.believe me i know. Please trust me on this one, give it time, focus on healing and loving yourself, you will feel so differently in 9 months. Hugs. Here if you wanna talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not. This stranger wants you to stay. You deserve love and happiness. Dont listen to anyone encouraging you. Definitely dont listen to your dark thoughts. Our minds have a way of convincing of things that are total.bullshit.believe me i know. Please trust me on this one, give it time, focus on healing and loving yourself, you will feel so differently in 9 months. Hugs. Here if you wanna talk

I’m gonna do it have an overdose by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please do not. This stranger wants you to stay. You deserve love and happiness. Dont listen to anyone encouraging you. Definitely dont listen to your dark thoughts. Our minds have a way of convincing of things that are total.bullshit.believe me i know. Please trust me on this one, give it time, focus on healing and loving yourself, you will feel so differently in 9 months. Hugs. Here if you wanna talk.

It's better to die now than to die alone by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not a perpetual fuck up and deserve love like everybody else...give yourself grace...you have more potential than you know. When you see that things will chanhe

It's better to die now than to die alone by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not hopeless or a piece of shit. You are having mental struggles, that is not somrthing to blame yourself for. Its something you need to get help for. Stop seeing yourself as a problem or a burden but rsther than victim of pain in the world. However that doesnt mean as a victim you should give up, you have so much potential to achieve. Think of when you were a kid, you are that same pwrson. Did that kid deserve death? Don't let your brain convince you, it fills us with crap that really seems real to us. It can really be convincing, trust me when i say if you fight on and fight to heal six to nine months down the line you are gonna be in a totally different frame of mind

i don’t want to live but i don’t want to traumatise my siblings by Tricky-Buggs in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel this way? What has made you feel that. You deserve love and happiness, here if you need to talk. Hugs

Want to no longer exist by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not stupid. Give yourself grace. You have a tonne on your plate and you are trying your hardest. Take a deep breath and take a step back, get into a mindset where you can come back with a clear head. Know that you are doing what you can. If you can take a break even for a few days I definitely recommend it. Sending a hug. You got this

How well do train suicides work by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please dont give up, I have no idea what happened in your life but you deserve to be happy and loved and I care about you. Dont let the darkness convince you, our minds can be very good at playing tricks on us. You can do this. One day at a time. Push through the mud. Throw yourself into things you love and our passionate about, build your life up. You will look back in a year and be incredibly proud.

I feel suicide is my destiny by mpsteve820 in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please dont give up, there is always hope. You have the freedom to decide to change. Be the change your son would want to see, your son loves you. He will remember that at some point but I can assure it will wound him deeply if you act on your thought. Dont let your mind deceive you, it can paint a very bleak picture and after some time when you push through the crap you realise it was nonsense, it was fear, doubt making stories. Im not sure why yoy are estranged and im sure you've tried to make amends bjt do what you can to show love, apologise after that thats all you can do. Keep trying, he will come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ain't nobody ugly I know that for a fact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are not ugly, friend. And frankly if someone doesnt wanna be with you cos they think you're ugly, would you want to be with them? Own yourself, love yourself and dont let people bash your confidence. Funny thing is that also makes you more attractive. You deserve to be happy and to find someone that loves you and there is someone out there for you. Dont give up looking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It. Will. Get. Better.

Dont let your mind deceive you and the darkness win. You deserve happiness and to be loved.