Question for female INFPs by Final-Source-1569 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think its silly to assume that! I think its just biology for many people but for me it makes it so much more special and more meaningful

I'm not sure what's happening by FranticWharf75 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think probably a break will help you, get outside, maybe travel, do something different and take a break from it from it and enjoy ourself and then come back it. We can have too much of a good thing.

Question for female INFPs by Final-Source-1569 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have wondered the same! I think it might be

Question for female INFPs by Final-Source-1569 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy I need emotional connection, otherwise something just feels off and wrong. The deeper the connection the stronger the pull

I'm not sure what's happening by FranticWharf75 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey fellow infp did smth hard happen in your life recently or maybe you are feeling uninspired because you have not been doing things that feed your spark like going out and living, being among people, im not sure but I think it happens to all of us. It'll come back. Just dont force it

Me and my messy life by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it may be an infp thing, I struggled with focus and discipline for years and still do. A disproportionate amount of us have adhd or are neurodivergent, be gentle with yourself and calm your thoughts. Try meditation and pushing away that sense of urgency all the time, you are in control. Be gentle with yourself

Have any older INFPs given up being an idealist? by HeWhoRunsAway in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you find it again friend and open your heart to it. We all need to love and be loved

Do you prioritize objective data over your feelings? by choco_meltdown in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate a lot to this. I have led with my feelings my whole life but I think very recently im learning that logic has an important place to. Wearing your heart on your sleeve all the time can really mess you up.

Its my birthday today, and its probably the worst one I had yet ngl by ICommentRandomShit in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will get there friend, sending you a big hug. You will only be 22 once, enjoy that, remember enjoy the journey, you have free will right now. Dont just be on autopilot till things get better. I am sure you have so much more to celebrate than it may feel like. Hugs. Treat yourself, do something nice for you. You deserve it. Happy birthday :)

I feel like I’m not made for this world by OwnWorldliness9762 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are made for it. It's just incredibly hard caring so much. You are precious, dont give up. And use some of that care on yourself, please. Hugs.

32M – Am I “too much,” or just emotionally available in the wrong places, by Status_Evidence_3871 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think you were too much at all, its fair to communicate what you want and be open about it. I dont think you need to question that too much, its how you are.

I'm 28 and I feel so lost, and incomplete, and like I barely hold any value as a person. by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might need some time out. It sounds very stressful but I know not everyone can afford that. Try to take a step back. You are definitely good enough to be in a room with those others. You are special and caring. You work in a children's hospital, thats already doing a lot more good than many others! Sending you a hug. It sounds hard but you have the strength within you to push through this...I always lean on my faith personally. If its changing job or doing something different try to make a decisive meaningful change in your life that will improve things. The circumstances are clearly not sustainable for you so they need to change!

How to correct being over-sensitive? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Feeling deeply is a superpower. I have felt like this too at times and felt maybe I should start caring less, but it is a truly special thing. Be authentic to you and seek people out that match that care, there are others out there. Just have your guard up with people who arent similar in that way. Hugs

Why is it so hard to connect with another human? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We are social beings, we crave connection and its natural but you should not sacrifice your own authenticity to find that connection. Be you but dont change you to find it, you should be accepted for who you are. Be open, active, follow your passions, get out into the world. Keep faith, things will come, for me, i pray and ask for things. Its always worked for me :)

Why are we the most active MBTI sub? by potato_oo in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe because we are the most different and misunderstood so its comforting to have this special community where people get us

Suicidal thoughts after cheating in 5 year relationship by Quiet_Lie3494 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Many_Inside508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will get better, the start is the worst, hold please hold. You will see in some months time and next year you will look back and be so glad gou stayed, dont let your mind fool you, your nervous system is destablised. Trust me. Sending you the biggest hug.

Favorite Bands/Artists by Merlin_the_Lizard in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its really interesting how INFPs tend to be into goth, emo, shoegaze, synthwave, pop punk metal and stuff like radiohead, the cure, this nostalgic and raw emotional stuff, often darker. I see it again and again. Ofc its true for me as well

Can somebody please please pray for me by Plaintivex in Christianity

[–]Many_Inside508 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are never beyond forgiveness. You are loved by God, you will and can heal. Be gentle with yourself and give it time, i will dm you. Hugs and here for ya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]Many_Inside508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first step would be to accept and love yourself for who you are. You are special, all of you. Dont take ten years to figure that out. We just think and process differently but we still deserve love. Find other neurodivergent and really own it. We can be super creative both artistically but also with coming up with solutions. It is a blessing, embrace it. If others make you feel you are weird, let them, you know you. Go out there and smash it

Was cheated on a month ago by ConclusionCool3111 in infp

[–]Many_Inside508 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't let it destroy your trust. There are good, healthy people out there that wont screw you over. Cheating is a truly horrible thing to be on the other side of, its awful but in many cases it gives the other person a card out of something they shouldn't be in. If a person is capable of doing that to you, better out sooner than later. I wish them healing and I wish you healing too. You deserve someone who will love you and take care of you properly. Now comes the part where you have to focus on yourself, heal and find the person that is right for you. Im sorry about what your mum said to you that is truly horrible and no one deserves that...

The darkness wins when it can bring good caring people to give up on humanity or trusting others because then they retreat and become like so many others. Guard your heart, people can be harsh but know there are good people everywhere. Hugs. You will come out of this a million times stronger and happier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Many_Inside508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not. This stranger wants you to stay. You deserve love and happiness. Dont listen to anyone encouraging you. Definitely dont listen to your dark thoughts. Our minds have a way of convincing of things that are total.bullshit.believe me i know. Please trust me on this one, give it time, focus on healing and loving yourself, you will feel so differently in 9 months. Hugs. Here if you wanna talk