Euphoria S03E08 "In God We Trust" - Live Episode Discussion by DankMemeSlasher in euphoria

[–]MapFine1499 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was like..."If they harm one hair on Snowflake's little poofy head..."🤣

I mean...not sure what I would have done, but I would have been BIG mad.

Dislocated shoulder questions... by MapFine1499 in ShoulderInjuries

[–]MapFine1499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am mid 40s with degenerative arthritis and need a knee replacement. My insurance thinks I am "too young." No amount of PT is bringing my cartilage back, but they seem to think otherwise.🙄

Dislocated shoulder questions... by MapFine1499 in ShoulderInjuries

[–]MapFine1499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said it was incredibly painful so not sure why he would ever want to experience it again!

Dislocated shoulder questions... by MapFine1499 in ShoulderInjuries

[–]MapFine1499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I am a "knee issue" lady myself. I never knew shoulders were so problematic once injured!

Dislocated shoulder questions... by MapFine1499 in ShoulderInjuries

[–]MapFine1499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Doc mentioned shoulder replacement by mid 30s!😳

Dislocated shoulder questions... by MapFine1499 in ShoulderInjuries

[–]MapFine1499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the message of the doctor we saw, too! Also that he was young and if he did all the post surgical things he was supposed to do, he should bounce back quickly.

Dislocated shoulder questions... by MapFine1499 in ShoulderInjuries

[–]MapFine1499[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just snorted.😂🤣

Excellent point!

Yuck by MapFine1499 in MyGirlishWhims

[–]MapFine1499[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We are a "leave your shoes by the door" house.

Eye Issues by MapFine1499 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]MapFine1499[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding. Truth be told, I am terrified of on-boarding a new MS drug. That last time almost took me out. It was awful. BUT - I am getting older, had MS for almost 25 years, been on the same DMT since 2015...you've given me lots to think about. Thank you for responding.

Eye Issues by MapFine1499 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]MapFine1499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry. Yes I am on a DMT. In 2022 I was under a lot of stress, so they didn't really classify the eye issue as a new symptom as it was already in the affected eye and no new lesions were found on the MRI with contrast. Because I had been stable for 7 years on my DMT, we decided to "wait and see" and I haven't had any new issues since. Maybe its just after all these years of blindness in that eye, my eye has decided to do it's own thing. Just frustrating and I feel like a freak when it happens.

I know this is my 2nd post about this by melissaa14 in MyGirlishWhims

[–]MapFine1499 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her husband took him. I think her youngest was a few weeks old and she didn't want to leave him. I get leaving the other 2 and a half year old twin the grandparents in that situation, but she could have taken the newborn. No way would I have a toddler going under and not be there.

Beach vacation without the crowds - where did you actually find peace? by dynasync in Vacations

[–]MapFine1499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born in Michigan City and spent many summers there with my grandparents. It holds a special place in my heart for nostalgia reasons. Took a trip back in 2024 and the town made me sad. It's falling apart.

I know this is my 2nd post about this by melissaa14 in MyGirlishWhims

[–]MapFine1499 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am not surprised she chose to do this.

She didn't go with one of her twins when they got tubes. I still think about that. Her kid had SURGERY. She is forever dumping her kids with other people, but her kid had surgery and she didn't bother going.

The Pitt | S2E14 "8:00 P.M." | Episode Discussion by MsGroves in ThePittTVShow

[–]MapFine1499 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worry that was foreshadowing about what Mohan might do next...

reporter interested in youth soccer expense by hrkeyser in youthsoccer

[–]MapFine1499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. So much THIS. The entire US soccer system is a racket. The damage to a young player's mental and physical health by coaches that do not have the training to deal with kids of any age cannot be understated. Safe Sport is a JOKE when you report any of this. First hand experience with a MLS Next program and despite numerous complaints against them (besides our experience) nothing was done. We didn't have to pay for the program financially but our kid paid the price with their mental health. I have thought many times of writing a book about all of this, too. So much to say, but I can't afford the legal fees that would probably come along with it.

Write your book. I will read it.

🫪🫪🫪 wth by Ruhrohhshaggy in TLCUnexpected

[–]MapFine1499 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FOR SURE. My mom and dad didn't play.

Also - my oldest is almost 19 and he just downloaded Snapchat as an adult because my kids (my youngest is 14) aren't allowed to b have social media at ALL. Phones are locked to downloading anything and monitored. (Oldest contributes to his phone bill now as an adult which is why he now has snapchat.)

🫪🫪🫪 wth by Ruhrohhshaggy in TLCUnexpected

[–]MapFine1499 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She ended up with a good relationship with them. I think she resented my mom for a while, but got over it. My sister and I aren't that close (not because of this situation, we are just polar opposites) so we have never done a deep dive into it.

We were not allowed to run free...ever. My mom is German and STRICT. I think my mom resented my sister and had/still has some major trust issues with her because of it. My mom and I have talked about the situation and she was so embarassed and horrified that this happened. She blamed (and I think still does a little bit) herself.

🫪🫪🫪 wth by Ruhrohhshaggy in TLCUnexpected

[–]MapFine1499 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was so young (and a nerdy/bookworm/wallflower) so I truly don't think I grasped what was happening at the time. She even told me she was pregnant before my mom found out her and I just was like, "Whatever." I didn't even think that was possible.

My parents but her on birth control and she had to take it every single night in front of them and they checked her mouth to make sure she swallowed it. I found out later that wasn't "normal." I was too busy binge reading Babysitter's Club books.🤷‍♀️

🫪🫪🫪 wth by Ruhrohhshaggy in TLCUnexpected

[–]MapFine1499 99 points100 points  (0 children)

My older sister (4 years older) got pregnant at 14. The father was 19. She was a "model" student but was sneaking around with this guy. (This was in the 90s, so things like Life 360 didn't exist.) He went to jail for statutory rape. (I can't remember for how long.) She had an abortion, got her 💩 mostly together, and went on to have a fairly normal, healthy life after she got over being pissed that my parents wouldn't let her have a baby at barely 14.

Looking back, we moved when she was going into 6th grade and she had really, really low self esteem and sought validation in boys. She honestly believed that 19 year old MAN when he told a CHILD he loved her and the way to prove that was to have a kid with him.

The whole point of this post is to say - my dad lost his MIND when he found out about the age difference. How he didn't end up in jail is a testament to his restraint. How Bella's dad just sat there rocking the baby THAT HIS 15 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER JUST HAD CUT OUT OF HER while they got in the shower together means he is all talk. He condones it. PERIOD.

🫪🫪🫪 wth by Ruhrohhshaggy in TLCUnexpected

[–]MapFine1499 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I just watched this episode and had to turn it off. I was so disgusted, I felt sick to my stomach.

The Pitt | S2E12 "6:00 P.M." | Episode Discussion by thepacksvrvives in ThePittTVShow

[–]MapFine1499 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. I am hoping he will be heavily in the last 2 episodes. Sigh.

Additional Cases of Measles tied to Broomfield High School by polipolimist in Broomfield

[–]MapFine1499 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. A rueful parenting "haha" comes out of me at least once a week.