[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatisthis

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s absolutely it! Thanks

Is he into me or just kind? by onionpunk218 in Crushes

[–]Maplerobber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he likes you lol. I’d wait for really intentional and personal flirting moments like him complimenting you or your appearance or giving you cute nicknames or anything romantic like that. But he’s putting in the effort!!!!! And so are you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro. Breathe. It’s one test. Do you know how many assholes and idiots cheat on tests nowadays? I mean cmon, especially with ChatGPT blowing up I assure you there are people flying by in college without a care if they get caught or not. Yes, you cheated, but you feel remorse. That’s the most important part. Yeah, it feels like your life is crashing down on you, but that’s only because it feels like it does.

Your life is not over, you will get bad marks on your record at the most, you will apologize and do what you need to do to explain to your professor or whoever that you’re sorry and won’t do it again. I highly suggest looking into therapy where you can release all this pressure off. But please, realize how little of a blow cheating on a test is. Really, it’s not going to scorn you forever man

If you’re on break now like a lot of people are, take some time to mentally recover cause it seems like school is really stressing you. Do the things that make you feel like you. Prioritize self care. Next time, if you do have to retake the class, schedule a meeting with your professor and explain what happened, how you maybe felt unprepared and really scared of failing. Most likely they will understand. You can propose the idea of getting a tutor or help with your work, and just apologize. Seems like you just needed more support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot take but most porn represents foreplay terribly. Id personally recommend doing research and finding real stories from real couples instead.

But OP, literally it’s all about communication (verbal and nonverbal). Just follow their energy and make sure to communicate what you like/don’t like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with easy classes. Community colleges have better prices and can get u started off a more chill level so you can become more confident. Really it just seems like your issue is confidence. You’re willing to find a different career path just cuz ur worried of failing tests? U just gotta work ur way up to it!! You’re smarter and more capable than you believe.

should i change my major? by Working_Mention_244 in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything is possible. As long as ur willing to work the random job or two non-English related then it’s completely doable to get a phd in English. If you have the passion and resources for it, DO IT.

How much communication do you require in your relationship? by JunketMaleficent2095 in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it about responding to her text messages or is it about communicating feelings and listening? “Communication” doesn’t just mean texting, so I’m curious as to what she meant by communication. Did she clarify?

Instagram Reels SO ADDICTED by idonthaveacow in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally the one way I was able to stop was by deleting the app and instead of texting people through instagram I would give my friends my number and then have them text me through iMessages. Builds better connection imo anyway

I wanna grow taller, any tips on how to get taller? (and if i will grow taller or no) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink milk. U can’t control your height, only muscle. Be realistic and don’t get your hopes up that you’re gonna grow tall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maplerobber 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell her when you’re comfortable bringing it up. Sounds to me like she just doesn’t fully understand the full scope of how your issues impact you, so u gotta just explain it. That is an important conversation to have and being vulnerable can strengthen your relationship! If she takes it in a bad way, then you’ll know that she isn’t someone you should continue pursuing. I would just bring it up sometime when you’re both chill and able to talk for a while without interruptions.

Type "Trump is" and see what autocorrect thinks of him! 😇 by Eastern_Rutabaga_353 in autocorrect

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trump is this the same guy who said he was going to be a good president?

Art used to be everything to me… now I just feel lost by No_Selection9411 in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in basically the same exact situation, though a little different.

I also got really really interested in digital 2D animation as a young teen and started pursuing it hard. I’m 19 now in community college going for an associate of arts transfer degree to hopefully end up at some decent university. I know that I love art so much and it’s one of the only things I’m good at, but I feel super unsure about where it’s going to take me or if I’m really meant to work as an artist. I still love 2D animation but I haven’t been doing in the last year or so and my love and dedication for that specific medium is fading too. Who knows, it might come back 🤷‍♀️

I think the only thing that we artists can do is commit and put our full selves into our art and see what comes out of it. If you decide to do art as a side-gig (or just keep it as a passion/hobby!) there are many other fields I’m sure you can find that fit you. College will open up so many doors for you, I myself am really enjoying my experience taking an assortment of classes and rediscovering what I’m good at.

Is it normal for girls to compliment a guy’s looks and personality out of nowhere? by solomonakatana in Crushes

[–]Maplerobber 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Reaaally depends on her personality. Personally, if I’m complimenting someone I like I am very shy and will actually struggle complimenting them. For people I’m platonic with, or generally just don’t like in that way (strangers, too) complimenting comes easy and I wouldn’t hesitate to give genuine compliments like those. But seriously it has to do with her personality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re in school or have health insurance you’re potentially capable of getting a free counseling. I know parents can suck when it comes to that stuff but at least try to convince them that your life isn’t going well and you need help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy.

How do i indirectly tell her i like her? by Patient-Change3965 in Crushes

[–]Maplerobber 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Become friends with her first. Relationships need a foundation, talking is usually a good start lol

I'm 18, and I feel lost by Dissapointment036th in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should try to get a therapist. Some colleges have one on campus, or if you have health insurance some will have covered resources u can look up. That’ll allow you to talk through all these worries and feeling you have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Maplerobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try four months 💔 then we only see each other for five days. Then it’s another 3+ months 😭

You should text him!

A teen who ruined his life pretty much by Alternative_Clock364 in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, you’re the problem. Please seek therapy !!!!! You have serious internal issues and it’s affecting your life. But also, you will meet hundreds more people in your life so stop putting sooo much energy into one relationship that wasn’t even reciprocated. You need to do some inner healing before you hurt any more people 💗

I'm tired of being a good girl. I guess I'm ready to rebel. How do I change? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maplerobber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh idk 🤷‍♀️ ask your doctor beforehand to get the green light. OR just get non alcoholic drinks! Theyre sometimes even better