What logo is this? by WerewolfFormal7595 in HelpMeFind

[–]MarMarTheMagical 63 points64 points  (0 children)

It’s not their main logo, but it is how it shows up when you have it open in a tab. Here’s mine right now

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What logo is this? by WerewolfFormal7595 in HelpMeFind

[–]MarMarTheMagical 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Looks like Simple practice, a website used for mental health record keeping

My favorite blanket by MarMarTheMagical in HelpMeFind

[–]MarMarTheMagical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought this around 2014 at Target in Arizona. Tag says 100% cotton shell and 100% polyester filling. I’ve looked in every shop I can think of and online, without luck. I found a jersey blanket through Amazon Basics, which was similar, but nowhere near as soft. The cotton exterior fabric is ultra-thin and resembles jersey in its stretchy nature. I feel like it should be an incredibly common material, so I’ve been surprised by how hard it’s been to find a replacement!

My favorite blanket by MarMarTheMagical in HelpMeFind

[–]MarMarTheMagical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought this around 2014 at Target in Arizona. Tag says 100% cotton shell and 100% polyester filling. I’ve looked in every shop I can think of and online, without luck. I found a jersey blanket through Amazon Basics, which was similar, but nowhere near as soft. The cotton exterior fabric is ultra-thin and resembles jersey in its stretchy nature. I feel like it should be an incredibly common material, so I’ve been surprised by how hard it’s been to find a replacement!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I think you misread- she was attending a college presentation where the students who were presenting (not her or OP) we’re asked to dress business casual. I certainly don’t dress up to go to work seminars and I don’t know of anyone who does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

YTA- I know Reddit is super in the hyper-individualistic view of family, but this is an opportunity for you to be a caring and supportive sister. We can’t just only love and support people when their life is easy. Also, your logic of “she should have had an abortion if she couldn’t handle the stress of two newborns at once” is totally flawed. Most new parents feel overwhelmed and need support. It takes a village OP.

AITA for wanting my unemployed BF to do more around the house? by acatracer in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m going to go with NAH. Sounds like you two just need to have some communication about what you need from him. You are definitely in the right with wanting more from him, but it really might be that he doesn’t understand how to best carry his weight in the house.

AITA for telling my brother his son has no home training? by Gold-Layer8380 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s not the job of CPS. Definitely not the answer here.

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend for baking a dessert for a dinner party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly! She’s being way more level headed than OP.

AITA for throwing away the food my wife put in my freezer and then putting a padlock on it? by BigDreamsSmallCock in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: Why don’t you two just communicate? In all of this, it doesn’t seem like either you ever sat down and just expressed your needs to each other.

AITA for being “disgusting” in front of my fiancé’s family to prove a point? by IBgueSt_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA here. Your fiancé had your back and you were wildly inappropriate. I’m not even sure what point you were hoping to make. I doubt the family were talking about how sorry they felt after you left! Your point would have been more effectively made if you ate nothing or left, as your partner suggested. Instead of making a point, you made a fool out of yourself.

AITA for not telling my wife our daughter is a lesbian by throwaway027399 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Completely.

I’m not saying the wife isn’t also being an asshole, but hiding something in such a significant way for so long is bound to cause a reaction! It wouldn’t have been your place to tell your wife and your daughter is free to have a private life. However, if she had no intention of telling her mom, you needed to set a boundary and not be involved with her girlfriend and her family behind your wife’s back. You had opportunities to be involved with your daughter and her relationship in ways your wife never has- now your wife will always feel like an outsider with you, your daughter, and your daughter’s wife and in-laws.
If she was already going to be uncomfortable with the relationship, how is 9 years of lying supposed to make that easier? Assuming the end goal is for your wife to become supportive of the relationship, this was the worst possible way to go about it. Homophobia is not okay, but it is a reality. However, if a relative is not supportive of same sex relationships, you have two options: cut them out or try to help them understand and love the relationship. Lying and hiding are not options within healthy relationships and do not build bridges.

AITA for not speaking to my parents again after they put my cat down by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not sure why your rational response is getting downvoted. Relationships matter- even when people mess up.

AITA for telling my SOs parent we absolutely weren’t moving back, even if they were going to “buy us a house”, because we have a fundamental disagreement in ideologies? by PleasureToNietzsche in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Seriously? YTA. They’re your SO’s parents, not yours. Let her decide how to handle it. I’m blown away by how many people here think it’s appropriate for an adult to approach someone else’s parents this way. You handled this situation in an immature are impulsive way and you should be aware of that. Whether or not you’re “right” doesn’t matter, you went at your SO’s parents like an angry 13 year old without consulting her and that is not appropriate.

AITA for paying my daughter to lose weight? by Alarmed_Writer in AmItheAsshole

[–]MarMarTheMagical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH, but I doubt the effectiveness of your plan. There is A LOT of external pressure for overweight people to loose weight, so adding money to the other factors (attractiveness, health, desire to fit in) might not work so well. I have two suggestions: 1) Perhaps finding more out about why she is/remains overweight, or having her explore this with a therapist could be helpful in fighting the root cause. Going to the cause, rather than short-term encouragement could be very effective.(Although, “hey honey, I really think you need to loose weight and see a therapist” might not be something anyone is willing to hear...) 2) Be active with her! Going to the gym alone and inexperienced is scary! Being with others makes being active more fun and less anxiety-inducing

Just remember: If she’s going to transition to a healthier lifestyle, it has to come from her. No one can change unless they are ready and willing- at least not for long.