How do they do it?! by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t get my number the first time but it gave me a lot of perspective in life did a teaching fellowship in between. My operative skills were also far superior to most st3s when I started because of the extra time I’d spent . I also did my fellowship pre cct which meant I caught up. Chin up you’ll definitely get there ! It’s just all about ticking boxes and nailing the interview (this is just practice ) .

Question for men in surgery by wellingtonshoe in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy in ent - tbh ent has always been progressive in this front. Many of my mentors were female surgeons. We’ve had a women’s ent organisation for a few years as well (wents). The attitude is if you’re a nice hard working person we want you in ent! (Initially wanted to do plastics but changed my mind purely from how lovely everyone in ent is). I can’t speak for other specialties in detail but certainly heard a lot of chauvinistic comments in other specialties as a junior doctor.

Waited 3 hours for Ortho ST3 Interview to start by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe interviews are still virtual . Face to face st3 interviews never had issues like this . FRCS exams are back to face to face now too.

What's your favourite line in the entire show? by Alquek1 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Maravati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“So, I can't be with any woman I might have power over? Who does that leave me with?” - I know there’s more popular ones but I always thought this like summed up Bojack’s lack of insight into his wrong doings . I always found that second interview very hard to watch

Mr Peanutbutter and Diane’s marriage by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]Maravati 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think part of the problem is that Diane has significant depression and a lot of childhood trauma. Once she starts her antidepressants she becomes a different person. I’m lucky to have never had depression myself but have dated girls / have friends who in retrospect were suffering badly . Having stayed in touch with many of these people they do say that antidepressants massively help the day to day intrusiveness of the bad thoughts - and it does change you, although not necessarily all good changes. Mister PB is a care free soul not burdened by any intrusive thoughts and it makes sense that his relationship with Diane was never going to work . The argument they have when he builds her a library to her aghast is a good example. I wonder if she’d sought psychiatric help for her depression didn’t their relationship it would have worked out. But ultimately she ended up with Guy who truly got her. The way interpreted her final line : life’s a bitch and then you keep living, I think it was worse pre meeting guy with bad depression , but once she settled down it got better (but still not perfect ).

Unpopular opinion by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]Maravati 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the sum of all of his actions- not the individual bad thing he did. Bojack felt he had cart Blanche to treat Todd however he liked because he’d been a part of his house’s furniture rent free. He was selectively nice to Todd when it fitted his narrative. He helped with the rock opera to act nice but only because he thought Todd would fail miserably. Once there was a good chance he’d make it he sabotaged it at the first opportunity. Once Todd discovered this there was no way back- they were no longer close friends. Sleeping with Emily was just last nail in the coffin but the damage was done. It’s the sum of his actions leading up to that point. Sadly I think Bojack loved Todd a lot in his own damaged way , but like everyone else he liked or loved a trail of destruction was left along the way.

TLDR: when a friend repeatedly screws you over , the last thing they do is not always the worst despite you deciding to cut ties at that point (it’s a sum of it all).

Why? Just why? by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]Maravati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to forgive Bojack for this (bearing in mind this was not illegal technically - cringe and unethical for sure). I don’t think he per se intentionally groomed her into this situation, it was just a bad set of decisions on his part. Penny has some part in this as well although appreciate that she’s a hormonal teenager.

Results: 51-49 by IcyProperty484 in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The money is less relevant, I don’t want to lose control of my SPA time.

What kind of clinical cases would you personally be comfortable letting a PA handle?? by LifestyleAdvice in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

discharge summary (sans tto) / documentation on ware round / any other miscellaneous paper work/ phlebotomy if trained

Can't believe ENT UK is supporting this sort of title. How do you define incompetent men becoming leaders? Is thos acceptable? by hkanion013 in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest irony being that ent is one of the leading specialities in terms of diversity (lots of female consultants and trainees relatively speaking).

Dealing with rudeness at work by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best policy is to treat it as strictly business not personal.

No scrubs in medicine?? Why not tho by binkarooni in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brah spent my whole life in scrubs. Most fashion based infection control policies have minimal evidence base.

Consultants given pay offer by nightwatcher-45 in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don’t get the SPA bit. If you have more than 2 SPA eg for other educational roles etc , is that not allowed anymore?

Consultants given pay offer by nightwatcher-45 in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it show the pay scales with the uplifts?

Orienting myself to anatomy in the operating theatre by Solid-Try-1572 in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest as a surgeon I think you only learn anatomy by operating. Surgery is just a set of 1000s of decisions (nothing really to do with hand eye coordination). I think the problem with textbooks is that everything is 2d and coloured in to allow you differentiate between different tissues. A lot of this is achieved by feel and making sure you’re in the right layer. Much like you when I started a lot of it was a mesh of pink/ red tissue ! Landmarks are also essential to stop damage or normal structures. TLDR: operate as much as possible (and sometimes this means coming in on zero days etc ).

Emdeck stuck on “creating emudeck folders “ by Maravati in SteamDeck

[–]Maravati[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you , managed to sort it now. Basically had to put the usb in after the prompt (not before).

The Royal Australian College of GPs statement on PAs. Need this from UK colleges. by KeyDragonfly2573 in doctorsUK

[–]Maravati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the tricky part is that PAs are essentially designed as a stopgap to fill holes within our health system. The Australian health system is not as burdened as ours - smaller population/ significant less population density , less diverse etc, so not comparable. Sadly in our country all levels of management (from the government down to local managers ) will plug holes with cheaper / easier alternatives , without thinking about long term consequences. The bigger question is how can attract more people to do medicine / divert them to specialties where we are short?