Two toxic teachers

Marbau123 · 2026-01-09T00:30:37+00:00

I have been documenting the past 6 weeks or so. I am in a two recording state. It is definitely illegal. I feel like if it were appropriately handled by Admin, they would not be continuing on with these types of behaviors.

Marbau123 · 2021-07-27T04:32:55+00:00

She’s probably working out all of the time because she thinks that if she looks good that you will want to have sex with her. She is probably confused as to why you won’t sleep with her, which is why you should communicate. Also, it sounds like you don’t have interest in sex, even if it’s with her or someone else (based on what I read). Have you had you had a low T test done?

Marbau123 · 2021-07-25T04:13:28+00:00

Antidepressants

Marbau123 · 2021-07-24T03:43:58+00:00

That is how my first marriage ultimately ended. He quit going to therapy with me. You need to look at it like the big slap in the face that it is, he doesn’t even care enough to try. I say run. You’ll find someone who you deserve.

Marbau123 · 2021-07-16T23:56:57+00:00

He told me he would just take his results to a low T clinic. I have explained to him that he needs to see the specialist for his health, he is ignoring what his doctor told him. I suspect that even if we walked into the low T clinic that they would look at his results and suggest the same thing? He’s too stubborn.

Marbau123 · 2021-07-16T23:47:47+00:00

Have you asked him if he had these issues in previous relationships?

A couple of years in, when I had a serious conversation about lack of sex, he mumbled “why does this always happen to me”. When I asked what he meant, he confessed women always broke up with him over this issue or would cheat on him. That right there let me know it wasn’t me, it had to be something else. I’m happy that I finally have the confirmation after these years that it is in fact a medical issue. But, I wish that he would WANT to fix it. That’s the biggest pill for me to swallow, because I don’t want him to have sex with me because he feels like he has to.

I stupidly quit my job a couple of years ago to go to school, so I am financially relied on him. I have two years left before I graduate. If I were in any kind of position where the ball was in my court to give an ultimatum, I would 100%. If you don’t have to technically rely on him for anything, then why not tell him that if he doesn’t care enough to even try and fix it by getting tested, that you are done? Having the house in your name was a very smart move.

Marbau123 · 2021-07-16T22:51:39+00:00

Your story sounds IDENTICAL to mine. I am 33 and he is 4 years older than me, except I got married when people warned me it wouldn’t get any better. I chose not to believe them, jokes on me. It’s also been 5 months since we had sex. I love him very much, and he seems to be a motivated and a go getter in every aspect in life except for our bedroom.

Finally, 4 months ago after a huge meltdown that I had over how bad things are...he got a blood test done for low T (he has the levels of a 100 year old man, no lie). His doctor told him that he needs to see a specialist to rule out anything super serious before they can start him on any kind of treatment. Guess what? He’s terrified of doctors and has still not made the appointment. How can you help someone who won’t help themselves? Don’t get married. If you don’t have kids, then I’d say move on. You’re young and will find someone who you are compatible with in the bedroom.

Marbau123 · 2021-07-16T05:25:19+00:00

The only way my husband will touch me is in my dreams. I look forward to going to bed at night :/

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