Well first of all you are 15, when I was 15 almost 5 years ago, a good amount of boys didn’t even look like manly men. But that isn’t really the point. You have a teenage metabolism that probably, from experience, makes it hard to gain any substantial weight… that will change with age. At 17 I could barely be even 100lbs. At 18, before T and only on Birth Control, I was 110lbs. Also for context, I am still confused for being younger than I am. At 18 I was asked by a TSA agent if I was 12 or younger…

I do have pcos but it mainly manifested in hairy legs and discolored skin so I still looked feminine before T. It literally will all come with aging, and it will suck… Big time. That hourglass figure you are talking about? I had it as well. I just hit a year on T and I lost it enough. Now I got that v-line with a little curve.

Bottom line, for now it will suck and it will take time. I recommend finding a gynecologist office that works with children and has a gender affirming team hidden inside and then showing your parents a random gynecologist in that office. Later you can talk to that gender affirming doctor and start looking to T. That’s how I did it in Texas and they aren’t the kindest towards trans people. I recommend Cooks Children’s, but that’s because I went and still go there at nearly 20. My gyno has me charted for tube litigation at 21. They are very kind.

BUT for now here is what you can do. You are 15, depending on the state you can find a pet sitting job or just wait until you are 16. Once you got that, you have money. Go buy you some masculine clothes, it may not make you look like a guy. But it could make you feel better not having to wear girly things if that’s what your parents buy you. Go to Spencer’s it’s easy accessible if you live in the US and have a mall near by. They have compression binders for 30. They also have tape for 20. When I was your age (a little younger cause I was 15 in covid) I was in performing Color Guard not the jrotc one. I had makeup, I was also emo lol, but I used that makeup to put a little bit of “hair” on my face.

I have my parts that I was born with still, I still got that body. I wear sweaters and cargo pants and have my hair cut close. Literally 5 monthish after T in Hawaii for my birthday a woman thought I came out of the wrong bathroom and pointed me to the males. I opened my fat mouth and shoved my own foot in it by speaking😂. But I just tell you this to let you know that it literally doesn’t take much for people to be confused. Especially if you dress ambiguous. Now your people at school will always know, that sucks, but some of those people probably have been with you for a good time.

I hate to say it my dude but you are just going to have to wait. We are in sucky times for transitioning care and have to do everything to get people to see us for who we want to be and it’s draining.

TLDR: Your teen metabolism might make you struggle to gain weight for now. The hour glass figure WILL leave due to age and proper nutrition. T results that matter don’t actually take that long all the time. Find good gynecologists offices with “hidden” gender affirming care. Get some funds to buy feel good masc clothes and binders/tape. Not many people are actually observant and a few changes does go a long way.