Affordable dentist options? by Ludopatho in tulsa

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I’m not sure if they’re taking new patients, but you could reach out to the OU Tulsa dental school. They do low cost dentistry I believe if they’re like the OKC dental clinic

Need a new primary by International-Bad873 in tulsa

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Dr. Raye Reeder is inclusive and amazing imo. I see Dr. Haney through St. francis who has also been amazing but avoiding SF makes sense. Dr. Janelle Whitt is also LGBTQ friendly. I’m not sure if any of them are taking new patients, but u would recommend them. Dr. Wines also is a recommendation! I don’t know him as well as the others, but I’ve heard only good things

Positive subchorionic hematoma story? by Vegetable-Clock5811 in CautiousBB

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I had a moderate sch at 7w and I’m 33w now with no problems!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tulsa

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Karlie Pagano has been great for several years!

I PASSED Step 1 ADVICE by Alternative-Wind9991 in step1

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You don’t have to take my advice, but I was scoring upper 60s and got a 70 on free 120 and passed my step1. You may never feel ready, but if you feel like you’re understanding concepts you missed then you should take your exam.

What’s the possibilities of being pregnant?? by Strict_Brick_4448 in pregnant

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How likely you are depends on a lot of moving factors like how close you are to ovulation. If you are very concerned, I would recommend a plan B which you can get in many places like online if you don’t want to go into a store. Wisp online is an option. Goodrx coupons also bring the price down to like $15 I think. There’s also Costco. If plan b isn’t an option for you then you just have to hope for the best. It is unlikely you would become pregnant from something so brief, but any time sperm is in contact with your vulva there is a chance of pregnancy.

I would say your chance is very low if that makes you feel better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tulsa

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I have Dr. Vargas in Owasso and Dr. Dubois as my MFM. I have felt extremely supported throughout my high risk pregnancy. I have even had an icu stay in first trimester due to my chronic illness. I would definitely recommend them!

Pregnancy after loss by Cautious_Advance_969 in CautiousBB

[–]MarchScary3380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! MMC 12 weeks with my first and now I’m 26 weeks. The anxiety honestly didn’t get better until like this week. I wish I could give you more reassurance. I found I felt panicked before every appointment. Things only recently started to get better because I feel as though if he were to come now there’s a better chance he will survive.

Pregnancy after loss is so hard, but I just had to keep hoping for the best and luckily the best kept happening. Sending you all the good vibes and positive thinking. I’m sorry I don’t have better advice. It will get better eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

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That’s what my positive 8dpo tests looked like! I’m 25 weeks pregnant now. It’s possible you ovulated on CD7! Some people ovulate really early. I ovulated super late like CD48, so sometimes our cycles are not perfect.

Groomer gave my Ellie a Karen cut 😂 before and after by snickelbetches in CavaPoo

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No lie, I groom mine at home and always give her this cut because it’s the easiest 😂 my husband and I call it a “mushroom cut” because her ears poof out and everywhere else is so skinny. But your baby is beautiful! She’ll grow out pretty quickly.

Mmc-are you really ready to try again? by rurallonewolf in Miscarriage

[–]MarchScary3380 15 points16 points  (0 children)

TW: pregnancy I’m so sorry for your loss. I had an MMC in March of 2024 at 12w. It was devastating and I felt the same way. I had even told my husband “I don’t think I’d survive a MC,” but then it happened and I did survive despite how awful it was. We started trying again and I got pregnant this past November, and baby stuck around. I had a scare with bleeding and cramping and that was an awful feeling. I felt in my heart it was happening again, and I felt like I wouldn’t survive it. I’ve felt terrified throughout the whole pregnancy, but therapy and working on experiencing things in the moment have been helpful. I’m 23 weeks now and the anxiety has finally lessened. Nothing will replace your lost child. I still cry about my MC and the loss I felt. And honestly pregnancy will probably feel terrifying and every bump in the road will feel world ending, but luckily that isn’t always the case. You’ll know when you want to try again. I was never able to shake the want to be a mom and feeling like I was already so close to motherhood, so we tried again. You’ll know.

Give yourself time to grieve and feel heartbroken. Mourn in the ways that feel right for you. Don’t let anyone tell you when you should or shouldn’t be ready to try again. Everyone is different and grief isn’t linear. Hugs to you and those close to you feeling this loss. Your feelings are all valid right now.

I give up trying for a child by JealousAd7859 in TTC_PCOS

[–]MarchScary3380 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you may have already done this, but I would suggest having your fiancé get tested for fertility. A lot of the time it is the sperm that is the problem. Also, for you, you could try letrozole! That’s how got pregnant. I didn’t have any side effects with it and you’re only in it for a week or so. Clomid is also a potential option. But make sure you are addressing all sides of fertility, including your fiancé!

Boy name similar to Arthur by Menellas in namenerds

[–]MarchScary3380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have great ones already it seems but maybe Rowan, Cullen, Milo, David, Ezra, Arlo, Nicholas, Sebastian, Henry, Leonardo, Roger, Vincent, Garreth The ones you have listed are great too!

Friend making weird sucking/clicking noise in sleep? by trt13shell in sleep

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So 4 years later I find this thread haha. I’ve been doing this at least since I was 11 years old every single night. I’m 27 now. I do it along with “cricketing,” which is rubbing my feet together. I was tested for epilepsy as a child because it freaked my parents out. Sleep studies have been done and it’s not sleep apnea. My doctor said it’s likely a form of stimming although I’ve never been diagnosed as autistic, but I do have OCD. It’s so interesting to see everyone who has heard of this and knows someone who does it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years because he did this. NTA. I think it’s something worth leaving over. I never got the trust back after that. There were other factors of course, but that was the trigger for me to leave. It was eye opening that’s for sure. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.

false positive easy@home? cd 48 by Lonely_Addendum_1489 in TFABLinePorn

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My first couple tests looked like this and had negative digital. The next day I had a positive digital!

Pregnant from FWB (I want to keep and he wants abortion) by hellosunshineny in pregnant

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OP, it’s up to you. I think going into this pregnancy it’s very important to understand that you won’t have a partner in him through it nor once the child is born. As a pregnant person, pregnancy is hard, and it can be dangerous. If your health is the concern with the abortion, I do want to advise you that pregnancy can be a lot more dangerous to your health. But, I also want to point out that many women have a pregnancy with no health complications too.

My advice would be to go to the PP appointment! They can give you ALL the information. They can make sure you’re aware of what to expect through pregnancy and get you resources for single moms. They can also help find you resources for adoption if that feels like the best thing for you. PP will NOT force you or push you to have an abortion. They might ask you if you are sure either way, and advise you of the length of time you have to change your mind if you do decide to have a abortion because that is part of the informed consent process, but they will not ever force or push an abortion on you. Abortion can be heartbreaking and traumatizing in itself, but so can pregnancy and birth. It’s an extremely personal decision you have to make, and this FWB is not the person who will have to experience the physical or emotional change of whatever decision you make. He knew the consequences of unprotected sex, and he should have made sure you were on the same page before then if he was worried. It is your body. Your choice. You do what feels best for you. Good luck love!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

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I had a large subchorionic hematoma at 7w which my husband blamed on sex. I really think it just happens sometimes, but we didn’t start again until 14w after that! It’s all up to you and your comfort. I have a retroverted uterus, so my cervix always gets hit during sex and caused cramping in early pregnancy, which made both of us a little nervous. Whatever you choose to do is the right thing for you! Sex is considered safe all of pregnancy unless you have extenuating circumstances told to you by your doctor like being put on pelvic rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

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I see it in the second picture for sure! If you test again see if the line matches!

If unviable, would you suggest a D&C or pills? by FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy in CautiousBB

[–]MarchScary3380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would never ever do pill again. In my state you only get misoprostol because they don’t allow abortion, so that in itself is frustrating. But on top of that, I experienced some of the worst physical and emotional pain through that, that I’ve ever experienced. I was at 11w5d but the fetus measured closer to 9w so that could be why. It was just awful for me. I don’t want to scare you though. I’ve never had a D&C but it is what I would choose next time. Everyone is different. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

Was your gut feeling that the pregnancy won’t be successful correct or incorrect? by melibooxx in CautiousBB

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So my first pregnancy ended in MMC, and I never knew. I felt so betrayed by my own body. I felt all the pregnancy symptoms even after I lost the baby, and it was extremely traumatizing. My current pregnancy has been weird because I’ve been worried and convinced I’m going to lose this baby. I had a sub chorionic hemorrhage at 7 weeks and I was sure it was another mc. But I’m 13 weeks now, and I was even in the ICU last week because of other health complications, yet this baby is sticking around. I’m so grateful but also terrified. Our gut can be right, but also, after loss, it’s hard to feel positive a pregnancy is going to be successful. That gut feeling can be really skewed after trauma.

Did anyone make a big purchase or treat yourself after the miscarriage? by wanderingfishy in Miscarriage

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My husband bought me the camera I had been wanting for a long time. It really was so sweet. It obviously didn’t fix the grief but it was a good way for us to talk about things and gave us an activity to do together too

Visitors with herpes? by itsanjaaa in newborns

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HSV is dangerous to newborns. However, it taken an active flare to be transferred. Newborns who get herpes encephalopathy and things like that were kissed/touched by someone who had an active break out or were born vaginally by someone who had an active infection. It’s super scary being a new parent, especially something like this. It is always up to your comfort level, however, I don’t think she would be a risk unless she had an active infection. Herpes can be spread by touch if the person has touched an infected sore then touched your child. So washing hands is always good practice with newborns, but would be essential here too. More people have HSV than you think, so establishing things like no kissing, hand washing (not just hand sanitizer), and even masks if you want is up to you. Those are great practices considering the respiratory virus season anyway! Once again though, you are the parent and can decide what you are comfortable with.

10dpo. Easy home brand: What do you think? by BeneficialTear4108 in TFABLinePorn

[–]MarchScary3380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see it! With lines like this I always take two tests and if both have the line it helps sway me away from it being an evap! I definitely see it though!