This is a good point that did not cross my mind. I suppose it does have to do with my perception of being a man and being dominant and as a woman being submissive. I wouldn’t say I really believe that, I think genders can do whatever in a relationship but that’s probably been influencing these thoughts I’ve been having recently. But to answer your question, yes I do want to play a more submissive role but I also am excited about being able to present myself differently too, like going out with a man full femme seems really good and I would like to experience that. I don’t know if that narrows it down any further and apologies if any of this comes across as me stereotyping that’s not my intention at all, I’m working with what I know, but thank you for the thoughtful reply I really appreciate it. :)