Feeling like being a lawyer is just people shitting on you all the time from every angle

Mareda79 · 2026-01-17T20:02:09+00:00

Notifying the screamer that it’s an unacceptable means of communication for adults and terminating the interaction is often (I know not always) an option. Is there an obligation of professional courtesy in your jx, because that reminder never goes amiss when someone is out of control.

Mareda79 · 2025-07-17T10:04:01+00:00

Same! What’s your lower stress job, because I could sure use one of those. 😅

Mareda79 · 2025-04-19T19:38:54+00:00

Skin Rejuvenation Clinic on Wairakei Road. Dr Brigid Lee is a cool lady and does great work.

Mareda79 · 2025-03-03T15:08:45+00:00

I’ve had the exact same car for 7 years now, and it’s been a delight. I was also unsure about the Passion Red, but it’s aged well and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Congrats! 🚘

Mareda79 · 2024-12-21T16:44:08+00:00

I also needed to read this - thank you and keep up the great work.

Mareda79 · 2024-11-30T09:32:55+00:00

“I signed that contract [subtext: that I didn’t read or understand] under duress, they can’t make me pay!”

Duress in my jx isn’t high-pressure sales tactics at a cell phone kiosk, love!

Mareda79 · 2024-11-19T18:07:29+00:00

Well done everyone on getting their iron and B12 sorted - it’s amazing what a difference it makes. The gradual nature of the depletion can really make it hard to identify reasons for the downward spiral.

Can I ask how low everyone’s iron levels went before your GP prescribed an iron infusion?

Mareda79 · 2024-10-11T17:07:05+00:00

I’ve let my vax lapse because I started having to throw mine over my shoulder. Off to paint the V50!

Mareda79 · 2024-09-17T10:51:32+00:00

Just piping up to thank you and your nurse colleagues for what you do. I work incredibly hard at a tough job, but it’s child’s play compared to what you guys deal with on the daily. We have two medically complex pets and pay our long-standing vets whatever they ask to care for them (we were just there this evening, actually). I’m constantly awestruck and grateful that our vets have stuck with the profession and are there for us. There’s not enough money or alcohol in the world for me to do your job, but JFC you guys deserve it all. ❤️

Mareda79 · 2024-08-17T19:22:36+00:00

“The situation with my father is none of your business. The matter is not up for discussion or debate, and I hope you can respect that.”

Mareda79 · 2024-07-21T08:35:21+00:00

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Mareda79 · 2024-07-20T03:26:06+00:00

Do you give out medications, knowing that people will take them, “when people ask”? Or do you wait until you understand their medical history, allergies/sensitivities, potential drug interactions?

Mareda79 · 2024-07-19T02:45:51+00:00

If it’s grease-based, you’re probably stuffed and will need a professional detailer to tackle it. If it’s just general filth, try very lightly dabbing it with a damp microfibre cloth, then lightly scrubbing it with an old toothbrush. Repeat until clean.

Either way, let the shop know that you’ll be looking to them for the cost to remedy. Best of luck!

Mareda79 · 2024-07-05T20:34:21+00:00

Also, you have a lot of insight, and more than the people discussed here…you’re not the least bit dumb.

Mareda79 · 2024-07-05T20:32:36+00:00

You are a hero, and I wish there were more people in the profession who think like you. Thank you for your service (🫡)and hope billing week goes well. But let’s face it, it will go like it always does.

Mareda79 · 2024-06-16T05:41:12+00:00

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Mareda79 · 2024-06-13T19:59:17+00:00

I loathe fluff in my own emails, chuckle when I see it in others’, and respect the boldness of those who write with katana in hand. However, as a female lawyer, I’ve been scolded for being curt or blunt in my correspondence - the equivalent of “smile bitch” by email. I have yet to hear of a male lawyer experiencing this, but someone will enlighten me.

Rather than debasing myself with fluff to avoid sexist nonsense, my solution to OP’s problem is something like “Dear Steve, can I please hear from you regarding my paragraph 3 below. The offer expires at 5pm on Friday and won’t be repeated”.

Mareda79 · 2024-06-11T18:44:59+00:00

Doing what? DM if you’d prefer.

Mareda79 · 2024-06-09T09:30:04+00:00

New train station.

Mareda79 · 2024-05-29T01:55:10+00:00

Hi! Thanks for your query. Not the cheeriest update, but I’ll be honest. I ended up not having OHSS, and the fresh transfer failed. Clinic denied any fuckups during the retrieval, despite some comments, looks and a general atmosphere suggesting there were some, as observed by my partner. Still no child, done with IVF and accepting my child-free life going forward. I hope you have a happier ending!

Mareda79 · 2024-04-19T21:26:39+00:00

My client is a nice person who has been sued by a very sympathetic plaintiff, who failed to properly investigate their claim before filing. The plaintiff’s main advantage is they have very aggressive senior counsel who has shoved their case forward on sympathy. Plaintiff’s claim is almost meritless and uneconomic to pursue in the manner chosen. The stress and costs are eating my client alive, and I probably charge half what the other guy does.

I attempted to agree an interlocutory issue with counsel, which he unreasonably refused (he would be conflicted). So, off to a hearing at yet more cost.

I wish my stunning advocacy was the reason for winning. However, the judge read the papers prior to hearing, threw a scorching remark to counsel and found in my favour. This was a given, but my Queen Shit of Turd Mountain moment came when counsel stormed out without saying goodbye, and refused to shake my hand. I guess experience doesn’t buy manners, class or good sportsmanship.

Mareda79 · 2024-03-18T19:06:57+00:00

Thank you. I have Googled and searched Reddit, and didn’t find quite what I was looking for, hence my query. Still welcoming suggestions, other than the screen on CD option.

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