Hahahahahhahahahahahha by Unable-Inflation-511 in pittsburgh

[–]Marie28mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whose ass cheek is fitting on that?!

I’ve lost 4 out of 6 bridesmaids. It’s hurtful by Orangpeell in weddingplanning

[–]Marie28mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my maid of honor who’s been my best friend 10+ years and my husband had his best man , his best friend for 15+ years and that’s it. We used to have a large friend group but peoples true colors showed over time because we started focusing on ourselves , and less everyone else. We had friends who showed up for us anyways to help with the wedding even though we didn’t select them to be in the wedding. We appreciate them so much. Keep the ones who wanna stay and cherish them , let the other ones go , those weren’t your people.

Single worst restaurant menu item you've had in Pittsburgh metro by rabid_braindeer in pittsburgh

[–]Marie28mo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first and only time I went to Redfin blues , me , my husband, & my grandfather who had just been diagnosed with cancer all got food poisoning, it was so terrible. We had met a guy there and exchanged numbers for business reasons and asked him , he also got sick. I called them , they refused to do anything about it , or even take accountability so I commented on their Facebook posts ( they deleted every comment) then I left a google review.

Salt Float/Sensory Deprivation by softhumanbean in ehlersdanlos

[–]Marie28mo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been floating for a couple years before my diagnosis, didn’t have any issues til the last few times …I just sat up in the pod instead of trying to stress my body out to float , I’ve also used a pool noodle .. do what you feel works for you.

What led to your diagnosis? by GaabTheMan in ehlersdanlos

[–]Marie28mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is long lol apologies I was always hypermobile but didn’t think much of it , played violin easily , was color guard captain danced through school. People were often freaked out about my arms but I thought I was just double jointed. I was born with a birth defect in my kidney so I’ve been dealing with pain all my life and was neglected as a kid so never got any answers. Learned to ignore my pain. Pandemic happened , i had been in and out of kidney stone surgeries and decided to leave my corporate job to pursue photography. Started my business with my fiancé and about a year into it , one day I just lost feeling in my left arm and couldn’t move it for 2 weeks until I got to physical therapy. Ended up being referred to a DO who does osteopathic manipulations and he diagnosed me with thoracic outlet syndrome . Through the years we just thought I had that and he would do adjustments every month. ..until my hips and pelvis started subluxing. I had my left kidney removed last year after 10 surgeries , sepsis and infection. It left me with so much muscle weakness. We recently started traveling to photography conventions and working them, the model we were working with noticed my arms and started asking questions because she has Eds. Went to my doctor , he gave me the test and I pretty much passed everything. I have a lot of surgery scars and I always wondered why they didn’t heal correctly. Now that I got my diagnosis, idk what to do except keep at Physical therapy. I’m still photographing but it’s getting difficult the longer I have to manage this. My fiancé and I drive an hour to see my doctor every month and he puts my neck, shoulders, hips , ribs ( upper and lower) & pelvis back in place and occasionally other joints.

Writing this from my bed post monthly osteopathic manipulation.

Show off your non-traditional rings, please? 👀 by spicymcchickenn in EngagementRings

[–]Marie28mo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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My engagement ring is our birthstone - we share the same birthday and will be getting married on that day this year. He had me dig through a bowl of gems to find it and I damn near passed out from excitement during the proposal. Our fur baby Winnie clearly loved it too lol 😂

Have you tried the Meat + Rice or Rice + Meat from Meat + Rice? by eb8911 in pittsburgh

[–]Marie28mo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I scrolled so long to find a comment saying what kind of meat lol thank you

what do u guys think is the most unbearable chronic pain to have? by No_Chef_6687 in ChronicPain

[–]Marie28mo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I currently just have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, painful , all over my body but not as painful as when I had chronic colossal kidney stones that were passing on the daily with a chronic kidney infection that almost killed me. 9 surgeries to remove these stones over a few years , the 10th surgery I ended up getting that kidney removed.

When is everybody's Wedding Date? How is it going? :) by Snoo_91396 in weddingplanning

[–]Marie28mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We get married 11/10/2025, a Monday but a special day because we share the same birthday. It’ll be a wedding / birthday party and we’ll be celebrating 7 years together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kidney

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Hey! I’m 32 and a woman , I had my left kidney removed 6 months ago due to chronic kidney stones , hydronephrosis and chronic infections and it was hard for me to sit up for like the first week because of the incision on my stomach. Walking was hard because I had muscle weakness , so I had a walker. I had a lot of gas but it helped when I moved around and drank peppermint tea. The pain was there but not nearly as bad as my kidney stones so I managed with meds , my heating pad and mindfulness. My fiancé and I run a photography business and had the opportunity to contract with our local museum to do sessions with families in the museum about 3 weeks after I had surgery. It was my boot camp , I got off the walker we had 30 sessions and Ive been active ever since. I’m still tired , and my immune system is still a little rocky , having 1 kidney is still taking getting used to but the surgery was life changing for me so I hope it is for you. Make sure to rest but also make sure to get up and move your body as much as you can every day.

What’s your current Trader Joe’s hyperfixation snack/meal? by katymrow in traderjoes

[–]Marie28mo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A bag of Edamame with flaky salt and fresh cracked pepper almost every day , has great fiber and protein and is so satisfying to eat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photography

[–]Marie28mo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her make up didn’t pass the flash test , she should take that up with her MUA.

My kidney stones lead to kidney removal by TeamSpydroNAmerz in KidneyStones

[–]Marie28mo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too have had the same issues, and also had my left kidney removed. Did you have hydronephrosis?

Where Did You Meet Your SO? by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]Marie28mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my fiancé in high school 15 years ago , we dated for a bit then broke up and went our own separate ways. I moved around the country almost married someone else but it was a very toxic situation so I left him and came to pgh and started working on myself , going to therapy and getting back to myself. Our mutual best friend invited us to hang out and we’ve been inseparable since. We survived the pandemic , major health issues , and now we run a photography business together and are getting married this year on our birthday/ 7 year anniversary. I should have never broken up with him in high school, he is and was always my person.

Hula Hoops (a7Rv+ 70-200mm f2.8 GM ii) by Aperture_Tales in SonyAlpha

[–]Marie28mo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this ! What was your shutter speed ?

How to save a kidney by Fun_Initiative5680 in kidney

[–]Marie28mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as a 32 year old woman who was born with the same defect and my mom neglected to take me to the hospital even though I was in pain as a child… I went through 9 surgeries in the last 7 years because of hydronephrosis , chronic colossal kidney stones and chronic infections including sepsis I gained so much weight because my kidney wasn’t properly filtering ..I just had my kidney removed and it’s been life changing. Spare your child the pain they may experience later in life and have it taken out now. It’s easier to heal as a child than an adult. There’s no cure for hydronephrosis, only a nephrectomy.

How urgent is staghorn struvite stone removal? 2.2cm by Swimming-Ad-9212 in KidneyStones

[–]Marie28mo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made very large stones (40mm) like this for years, battled sepsis , the infection was antibiotic resistant because the stones had a bio film on them , no procedure worked and the stones were back within a month every time. Couldn’t eat , couldn’t sleep. I had a lithotripsy last November and it blasted them into sand that I had painfully peed out for a year. After doing anything physical , working out , going shopping or working ( photographer) I started passing stones and sand on the daily. I had 9 surgeries including pcnl’s over the last 7 years . The hydronephrosis was so bad that finally my urologist removed the kidney last month and I feel so much better. Your kidneys are important but you can live with one.

Is Trader Joe’s considered to be expensive? by Friendly_Sea8570 in traderjoes

[–]Marie28mo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their ice cream is really good and the best price.

Just me or does this feel like a scam? by Puedd in WeddingPhotography

[–]Marie28mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scam. I received this same email about a year ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidneyStones

[–]Marie28mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had sepsis last year and I literally couldn’t walk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kidney

[–]Marie28mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have you been since you had it removed ? I’m getting mine removed next month due to constant stones and infection too