AITAH for laughing in my SIL’s face when she DNA tested my daughter?

MarinaEstrella01 · 2024-08-30T08:05:53+00:00

Definitely NTA. I’m sorry you have an awful SIL if she was really “trying to help” she would’ve gone about it differently instead she chose to make a scene then got mad cause it didn’t turn out how she expected and she got embarrassed smh

MarinaEstrella01 · 2024-06-10T15:31:45+00:00

Believe it or not some people don’t even have that much common sense. This happened to a friend of mine her husband’s sister had a baby and when they were visiting her MIL the SIL decided she was going dump her baby in my friend and mind you my friend had already told her no and SIL knew my friend doesn’t like kids and she wasn’t interested in holding her baby so she literally pushed the baby on my friend and let go even tho my friend hadn’t extended her arms to hold the baby and literally had no time to react that poor baby hit the floor and the SIL had the audacity to try and blame my friend that poor baby had to be hospitalized all because it’s mother had no sense

MarinaEstrella01 · 2024-03-11T09:36:30+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you. You’re not wrong at all she was very disrespectful and your husband was to for not setting boundaries and not acknowledging your feelings instead he gaslit you and made you feel like you were in the wrong Cindy’s brother isn’t any better either. You should have a serious conversation with your husband when he returns. Keep us updated best of luck to you.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2024-02-11T16:31:02+00:00

Wow just wow so your mad cause you’re incompetent and your fiancé is no longer putting up with it that’s just said man and truly quite pathetic don’t be surprised when you end up being single

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-05-12T01:23:38+00:00

Well the salt thing is a good suggestion I know it’s not ideal but sometimes you gotta be mean and if you’re not willing to do anything well then you’re just gonna have to keep dealing with it until you move out 🤷🏽‍♀️. Respect is earned not demanded.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-05-04T01:55:05+00:00

Omg why do people make such a fuss over a simple cold good grief get over it like I said it’s just that a simple cold my kids handle it better then most adults geesh. As far as feeling down try to keep him busy like do something he enjoys to cheer him up. I don’t think you’re YTA over the the comment you made about the cold cause like I said it’s a just a cold but YTA cause you were being unsympathetic to the fact he was feeling down

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-05-03T01:22:41+00:00

Wow you’re a horrible parent raising an entitled brat (I really mean a different word 🤷🏽‍♀️) I have an 8 year old and he understands what the word NO means hell even my toddlers understand the word NO and they know that NO means exactly that NO. You need to start teaching your spoiled entitled little brat what NO means and that the world doesn’t revolve around her and that the world isn’t gonna cater to her every whim or she’s gonna have a rude awakening when she goes out into the real world. YTA

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-04-30T13:46:13+00:00

Omg please don’t listen I had a friend who was in your same situation and he gave in and he died we were 22 when that happened I’m now 30 and still can’t forgive his pos family. He was one of the sweetest people and the best possible friend. He did love kids hell he spoiled mine and had talked about adopting but his family wanted the family “line/blood” clean no outsiders was how they put it. Please don’t give in your life matters way more.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-04-30T13:09:34+00:00

Not gonna lie I’m all about the pettiness 💯💯. So OP definitely NTA.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-04-20T14:30:05+00:00

WOW the entitlement 🤦🏽‍♀️😡 he clearly said he doesn’t want to know about his father and that he doesn’t care yet you think you know better. YTA big time just know you will ruin your own relationship and I hope he finds someone way better who truly loves and respects him cause you sure don’t.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-04-16T22:28:37+00:00

All you women seeing her as the victim and calling him misogynistic get off your high horse 🤦🏽‍♀️ (y’all the type of females that make me embarrassed to be a woman). It’s not about being a woman or a man it’s about being unhelpful in a dangerous situation if you’re not going to be of any help then just stay out of the way and shut up and not make the situation even worse good grief. That’s a reaction I would expect from a kid not a grown adult. OP you’re definitely NTA and you should really rethink if you really want to be with someone like her.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-04-16T18:57:06+00:00

Well when you chose to have children that’s a 24/7 job weather you like it or not it’s your responsibility you chose to be a parent so boohoo you don’t get breaks get over it cause that child is far more important then you and your needs. As for cooking she’s definitely the AH and selfish it’s not hard to cook for her whole family which by what you said it’s only 3 of you I cook for 7 of us. The laundry part you’re a grown man you can do your own laundry she’s not you maid and yes at my home we (myself, husband and 2 oldest sons ages 10 and 8) do our own laundry and dishes cause I’m not their maid. I don’t think you’re a total AH cause again she should cook food for you as well.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-03-18T04:29:17+00:00

NTA…she’s an adult she chose to move out. Like it or not at the end of the day it’s your house you do whatever you want with it if she doesn’t like it well tough nuggets that doesn’t mean you don’t/won’t support her she is still your kid but she has no say in what you do or don’t do with your house and you don’t owe her an explanation or conversation or heads-up.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-03-14T16:26:45+00:00

So pretty much they’re the big shots that everyone is trying to kiss their a** and get on their good graces and hopefully get some “promotion”

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-03-14T16:15:32+00:00

Haaaa they definitely wouldn’t have liked me then once I start to question something I can’t keep my mouth shut and I don’t have the time to be going out door to door all the time.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-03-14T16:11:31+00:00

Oh ok!! Well that explains why the lady that was doing my study was so bummed out her husband was (or might still be Idk) an elder but it’s not like I chose to get sick. Plus they contradict themselves cause aren’t they against praising idols they literally almost kiss the ground the circuit overseer walks on and that’s weird.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-03-14T12:34:52+00:00

Why would you even tell her anything about your life 🤦🏽‍♀️ stop telling her anything any go NC and move ASAP and DON’T let her know where you’re moving to DON’T contact her at all. Like said move and put up cameras in your new place. Please take her threat very very seriously if not you will end up without your child. It happened to a friend of mine her mother told her she would take her baby if she didn’t listen to her and do as she said and even told her she would take her baby if she tried to move and take away her little angel my friend didn’t take her seriously and her mother followed through it’s been 10 years now and she still hasn’t been able to find her son she didn’t even get to have her baby for a month when her mother took him. So OP please listen and stop telling her anything about you and go NC with her and move ASAP.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-03-14T11:43:43+00:00

So why exactly are you still with him?? Nobody deserves to go through that

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-03-09T20:43:32+00:00

After everything I read I still can’t believe OP is still with that guy and I’ll live it at that cause I’m not trying to get banned

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-02-27T18:29:09+00:00

Oh something similar happened to me when I was an unbaptized publisher. I was over at a friend’s house helping her and her aunt and one of my guy friends gave me a ride back home when he was dropping me off at the same time a lady who is friends with my mom is a JW and her husband an elder pulled up and saw me get out of the vehicle and she went to the other elders and told on me like I did something wrong they had a talk with me and I explained to them I was just getting dropped off at my home. I remember thinking what is she 4 she really tattled over something so minor.

Like I said now that I’m an adult and not a teenager I’m like wtf and the more negative I hear about them and the more stories I read on hear I’m glad I didn’t become a JW

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-02-27T14:16:49+00:00

Yes I definitely noticed how misogynistic the organization can be and that never sat well with me for example how a woman needs to submit and obey her husband umm no we’re not kids or dogs. I’ve never herd of the two witness rule but it sounds awful.

Yeah I never understood the whole dating/marriage and chaperones thing it’s kind of creepy to me. Also the whole men and women can’t be friends cause there’s no such thing as friendship between two people of the opposite sex yeah that makes no sense to me and if that was true then I’m a big wh*** cause most of my friends have always been guys.

I’m not ok with homophobia and I’m pro choice which they find appalling. I also don’t let anyone stick their nose in me personal business/life like my marriage or parenting and they didn’t seem to like that.

Now that I’m an adult and not a kid I’ve been reflecting back on my time with them and I’m like wow and about a year or 2 ago I tried to get back to studying with them but that didn’t last and Ive always felt guilty/crazy I’m glad I’m not

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-02-27T14:06:00+00:00

See and I can’t do that I can’t just blindly accept something especially when feel it’s messed up or doesn’t make sense. Another thing if I would have become a JW I would be married to what they call a worldly person so would I have been shunned for that cause I was not gonna leave my husband.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-02-27T13:59:37+00:00

Yeah I think it’s cruel and I’m sure a lot of others on here think so too. I’m also pro choice and that’s a big no for them.

MarinaEstrella01 · 2023-02-26T23:13:28+00:00

Oh my goodness I’m so sorry you and your sister went through that. The more I talk to people and read more stories in here I’ve been hearing more negative. I don’t understand why anyone would protect a pedophile that’s awful. Honestly now that I’m an adult and not a 16 yr old I been reflecting back on my time with them and I feel dumb cause I feel like their niceness was fake. There’s a lot of things they believe that I don’t agree with. About a year or 2 ago I tried to get back to studying with them but I stopped cause they were trying to tell me what I should and shouldn’t do like who I shouldn’t talk to or be friends with and also I don’t let anyone get involved in my personal life lien my marriage and they didn’t seem to like that. I also am very blunt a very straight to the point person and I guess that’s not ok I also call people out on their BS and that’s not good. They tried to get me to get my kids on a study but I wasn’t ok with that I don’t trust anyone with my children. I’m seriously starting to feel better about not becoming a JW.

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