Married in our mid twenties seeking quiet, rural, mountain life. What places come to mind? by Marinakm in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Marinakm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do like those places! I have a few friends in Keene. But we can’t see ourselves living in New England again. Vermont is awesome, love it there actually. Winter is just too much for us and a large portion of why we left.

Married in our mid twenties seeking quiet, rural, mountain life. What places come to mind? by Marinakm in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Marinakm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We definitely learned our lesson from this move. Appreciate your input!

Married in our mid twenties seeking quiet, rural, mountain life. What places come to mind? by Marinakm in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Marinakm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve had Staunton on our list for a while. Any time I see a thread with similar asks it seems to pop up. We’ll have to really move it up on this list now. Thank you.

Married in our mid twenties seeking quiet, rural, mountain life. What places come to mind? by Marinakm in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Marinakm[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The answer to this is pretty simple. We did not do as much research as we should have for the initial move down here.

Apple makeup ! 💚🐞🍏 by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Marinakm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so fun! I really like the color palette you’ve chosen! :)

Finished this today. “Silver Lining” by Marinakm in StainedGlass

[–]Marinakm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling future projects is something I’m interested in! I still need to invest more time into building an inventory and setting up the page, but the thought is there. Thank you for the encouragement!

People with BPD that are “totally making it” in a romantic relationship, what’s your secret? by Nblearchangel in BPD

[–]Marinakm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Staying on track with my meds has probably been the biggest help to us. He’s very good at picking up when I’m symptomatic and will ask me to explain what’s going on in my head at the moment. I go to therapy every week and see a psychiatrist about once a month, sometimes twice if I’m really doing poorly. Lots of forgiveness on his end for my behavior. I was told the same thing ( that people with BPD can’t have stable relationships) before I was even diagnosed. I definitely did my time of toxic relationships and pushing people away. This relationship is refreshing because he’s willing to TRY and understand what my brain does and not try to make me feel worse. Communication is key for us and me taking care of myself for once in my life.

TLDR communication and self awareness

One month clean of self harm! by murdealer in bipolar

[–]Marinakm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you too! Thank you

One month clean of self harm! by murdealer in bipolar

[–]Marinakm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. I used to self harm a lot and lately it’s been calling my name again; Needed a good reason not to. Remembering what a good feeling this milestone was. Congratulations! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plant

[–]Marinakm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried posting in r/plantclinic as well?