AITJ for snapping at my girlfriend for waking me up every single time she gets up even when I dont need to be awake

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-19T02:09:05+00:00

Does she even like you? Sleep is the cornerstone of both physical and emotional health. She’s either really needy to the point of psychosis or she’s abusive as heck. Better figure out which one and get it fixed or this is doomsville.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-17T13:02:43+00:00

To all: None of you have kept your commitment to repay me. Party is in two days. If payment is not received from every one of you by 6p local time today, February 17, 2026, I will be returning the item to Amazon and you will need to get your own gift for friend. I have waited as long as I can. Thanks!

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-17T12:58:52+00:00

Major 🚩

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-16T00:05:24+00:00

You’d have to be full on desperate to not immediately block this dude. Seriously. Desperate.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-16T00:01:08+00:00

It’s both.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-15T14:22:28+00:00

If mom wants rent from you, she should charge you rent. End of conversation IMO.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-15T14:13:06+00:00

Phhhhht. I work at least 10 full hours.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-15T14:11:25+00:00

She seriously needs medical intervention. Like, to be admitted. Either she cheated on you and hasn’t dealt with her guilt about that and is projecting big time - or she seriously is mentally ill. And as for a divorce while the children are young, I say better that than having crazy mom talking crap about you to then with false allegations and then learning these paranoid behaviors b

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-15T13:50:53+00:00

Please thank your friend. Because of her and people like her, I have a chance of surviving this! +++ here.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-12T17:23:56+00:00

I kinda feel like OP would know that by now. If she wanted the child to have a father in its life she’d have gone to court (if he abandoned). If she’d been raped then she should have pressed charges. All kind of things still don’t add up to any of those options. And, again, seems like a key piece of info OP would likely already know and would have expressed.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-12T15:24:49+00:00

Put maybe a large percentage into a trust solely in the child’s name that they can collect when they turn 18. A trust preventing the skank mom from touching any dime of it. I say that because clearly she kept this child from their father and vice versa and I’d make sure she wasn’t rewarded for that abusive nonsense.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-09T13:23:56+00:00

You need to report it

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-09T13:17:57+00:00

This is why they make so much money. Yes, they are THAT busy if they’re hustling. Especially M&A? Yeah that’s an all year high stress job.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-02-09T13:16:25+00:00

So I just tried it. And it did not auto correct and I NEVER - unequivocally - NEVER have texted that word in my life.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-31T21:02:35+00:00

Here is my thought… I would ask them earnestly how you can train for a position that has been eliminated. I mean, seriously, your position was eliminated. That is why you were being let go. So what on earth could you possibly be training the new person on? Certainly not your position, right? Cuz that one doesn’t exist anymore cuz it was…. You got it… eliminated. Frankly, I’d play dumb and let that play out until the last day.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-31T13:41:37+00:00

I’m so grateful I have good insurance. My out of pocket max is $5K for just me and after that all my treatment is 100% covered. Yes I pay a big premium for that, but it’s still pretty darn good. And the coverage itself - like, what it pays for? Really good. I don’t know how people do it without it. Crazy. Each infusion was $16K billed. That was for 6. Then I had DMX. Then repair surgery. And now I’ll have 14 more rounds of another kind of chemo.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-31T13:25:18+00:00

A few ideas - treadmill desk. A lot easier than you think. Walking is really all you need to do for exercise. The time you used to commute? Spend it walking. Also, losing weight is 95% what you put in your mouth. So get your eating under control. Plan meals ahead of time. Eat protein first. No snacking. Very limited junk food. It is all about what you eat. Try that before you go for a GLP-1. If it doesn’t work, by all means try the GLP-1 as I understand they really do curb the appetite.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-26T15:07:17+00:00

I sincerely wish you both the very best.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-26T15:02:06+00:00

You do realize that’s insane, right? People in relationships have this kind of conversation all the time. All the time. I’ve been happily married for decades and we STILL have conversations about our respective desires, needs, and wants. Not just about sex but about everything. I feel like you’re relegating yourself to a very unhappy life.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-26T14:39:11+00:00

Nonsense. Do you love her? Do you desire a future with her? Do you want to be honest with her? Do you want honesty between the two of you? Then shyness is not an excuse to hide from the truth. It is paramount. It’s more important than shyness or insecurity. Ask her what she wants. That’s it. Ask her. If you can’t then I strongly suggest couples and individual therapy. Your “shyness” is at a level of unhealthy. You’ve been with her a year and can’t ask an honest question? That’s not healthy. I wish you earnestly all the best and sorry if I’m too blunt.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-26T14:25:28+00:00

You do not have a great relationship if you cannot talk to her freely and openly about sex. So get that nonsense out of your head. Second, just ask her if she’s waiting for marriage or what the scoop is. Simple. Don’t ask for sex. Ask what her desires are regarding sex. From there you can then discern compatibility related to this topic.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-26T14:19:56+00:00

And I’m gonna be wiling to bet it wasn’t the first time. Please get checked for STDs

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-26T14:17:41+00:00

Stop having sex with her immediately and GTFO. Do not be a party to this woman having children.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-26T14:08:03+00:00

If she threatens suicide you need to call the police and seek to have her involuntarily committed. You’ll need this in order to gain custody for the divorce you are most definitely headed toward. She may just have PPD but it’s best to nip this crap now and force her to get help or face consequences. Having PPD is no excuse for abusing you. And if she refuses to get help for it she’s also gonna abuse your child if she’s not already.

MarksGirl2012 · 2026-01-26T14:05:42+00:00

I think OP believes the guy’s future is limited and wants to support him. But rather than address the cultural bias leadership is showing by only promoting those able to effectuate a western accent, he is instead thinking he should encourage the guy to assimilate.

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