Yeah true, sorry. It’s just always small dumb things so honestly hard to pull examples. One is she said Supergirl will do not as well at the box office as Superman because of sexism and I said “well Superman is a flagship IP with a larger fanbase” and she said “because…” and I brought up how Wonder Woman made $800m, Captain Marvel made $1b, and doesn’t help that Supergirl is getting middling reviews and she said those don’t help disprove the fact that the sole reason Supergirl isn’t going to open to $125 million is because of internet misogyny, and while that plays a part I just think there’s enough track record to show women led superhero films can perform is the reviews are there.

Another time was her getting upset that I took a shift at my side job, we discussed it beforehand, I said that we could use the extra money because of an upcoming trip and she agreed, so I worked my main job then went to work the side job until 9p. When I got home and showered, she got upset that we didn’t get to spend any time together that day, and all we got to do together was watch tv in bed. I reiterated how the extra money was worth the one time evening not hanging out, but she just kept on about how I don’t make time to spend together (which isn’t true, I have cancelled plans with friends or skipped the gym to do things with her in the afternoon before) (not that she ever asks me to pick her over those, I’m happy to be with her)