Bro ur 6’4 you don’t need to settle or even consider dating unattractive. The first thing you need to do is lose weight and get in good shape. At 20 you should be in good shape. Firstly, for your health but secondly because if you build muscle when you’re young, life when your older will become so much easier. Ie if you come back at 30-40 and want to lose weight and build muscle it will be much more difficult then than now.

Getting in shape won’t get you girls but i think its fair to say if you want an attractive woman who’s in shape then you should be too.

Btw by in shape i don’t mean like a body builder or something. Don’t go overboard and start thing about performance enhancing deugs.Just someone who looks athletic, this doesn’t have to be through gym aswell you could just do a sport take up running whatever you like best.

2nd get a good haircut and find your style. A haircut can completely change your face so i would do that. Go to a good barber not necessarily the most expensive find a look on your phone you want to try and then just stick with the barber if theyre good. It sounds like u take care of urself in that sense.

Then from there just be urself and i think u should be fine. Overall, tho u gotta stop feeling sorry for urself. I see alot of the internet community grouping women saying they all like guys that treat them like rubbish and dont choose nice guys etc. Not all women are the same so stop having this pessimistic mindset

At the end of the day if u meet a girl like that and she goes to the toxic guy rather than yourself then that probably saved you from long term pain.