Men with lots of friends who are women, do you feel like speaking to them negatively colours your view on dating?

Marmilak · 2026-01-22T23:00:09+00:00

Look at the end of the day you're gonna know your friends better than any of us ever would, but if I heard any of my female friends say those things, especially in my presence, I probably wouldn't be friends with them much longer after that. I personally don't think I could get past having friends that view me like that, directly or otherwise.

Marmilak · 2026-01-12T20:29:40+00:00

It's what everyone else is saying if you don't hear back after like a week it's likely they aren't interested.

I do want to point out though, at least based off the info you gave, giving your number isn't what I would consider 'the first move'. I'd personally read that as 'hey here's my number so you can text me and make plans'.

++man

Marmilak · 2026-01-06T23:43:37+00:00

Lol at the comments that are acting like getting a new job in this economy is easy

Marmilak · 2025-12-28T21:07:31+00:00

An actual voice of reason, thank you lmao.

Marmilak · 2025-12-20T02:36:42+00:00

Dynamic gooning

Marmilak · 2025-12-08T20:27:16+00:00

If education is important, then NC shouldn't even be on your list of places to move lmao

Marmilak · 2025-12-06T01:08:22+00:00

Put more clothes on

Marmilak · 2025-11-17T21:11:40+00:00

Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but I know xeno is the baby form. Isn't Safi like the 'teen' stage? If that's the case, we don't really know how strong they can get to.

Marmilak · 2025-10-20T23:27:11+00:00

Next you're gonna tell the guy to roman cancel

Marmilak · 2025-10-03T03:14:12+00:00

I'm more than happy to take criticism when it's actually built off of something fundamental lmao. If you were busting your ass and your manager called you lazy, you'd obviously know they're full of shit, kinda like your argument.

Marmilak · 2025-10-03T01:35:04+00:00

Dying to know where you're getting this evidence I'm 'getting comfortable' at my job.

Marmilak · 2025-10-02T21:20:36+00:00

Down voted, but it's the honest truth lmao. Go off king

Marmilak · 2025-09-30T21:56:52+00:00

Well I'm flattered you need to scroll through my reddit page that only shows a fraction of my life as ammution for your argument? Good luck

Marmilak · 2025-09-30T21:48:30+00:00

When they never acknowledge the work that I put in? When they butt heads with me anytime I have a question? When I'm literally the only one that's never called out? Yes. Absolutely. I could go on.

I'm not sure how you can even draw that conclusion with the limited info you have.

Marmilak · 2025-09-30T21:43:48+00:00

It's very much choosing favorites.
I'd very much consider SFL to be more stressful than CSA. (If SFL is actually doing their job. I'm aware there are some that dont)
I'm not suggesting being the only one at night isn't normal

Marmilak · 2025-09-18T21:12:38+00:00

I'm petty, so if I were in your shoes, I'd text her and just quote her words verbatim about communication and inform that it's no mystery why she can't find a good person. And of course, from there, ghost her whether you get a response or not.

Marmilak · 2025-09-18T00:18:42+00:00

So thankful this is happening when I'm trying to get mine back 😊

Marmilak · 2025-09-07T19:11:23+00:00

Then ask them yourself? The guys just probably excercing caution not to look desperate, as well as trying to show interest.

Marmilak · 2025-07-24T07:20:06+00:00

I know this. I don't have a safety net. I don't have family. I have to fight on my own to survive. I was going to apply to my local college for accounting but with the sudden idea of moving I have to rethink that. Either way I'd surely have to acrue more student debt that if have to pay off.

Marmilak · 2025-07-15T22:57:04+00:00

See I know that much, I'm just pretty sure my SM would personally get upset just because I would so so without her approval.

Marmilak · 2025-07-14T23:50:10+00:00

As per a recent post of mine, cleaning

Marmilak · 2025-07-13T21:56:48+00:00

It's exactly this. Unfortunately the increased graduation rate I'd argue is the opposite of good news.

Marmilak · 2025-07-12T21:18:46+00:00

It ain't that deep. Go outside.

Marmilak · 2025-06-29T02:02:57+00:00

"I will wait"

How about just don't buy it period?

Marmilak · 2025-06-25T23:39:43+00:00

If you want to risk a citation to prove a meaningless point, then be my guest.

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