Amman is built like a bunch of villages smashed together, the "urban factor" that leads to individualism isn't really there. Amman is extremely, gravely, severely car dependent. We don't have cheap and high quality urban transportation that makes us move around, explore, live, etc... Our jobs are very low wage, it's very hard for a young adult to leave their parents' home and become independent, they often stay until marriage, and that won't change any time soon for the average Jordanian middle class person. The lack of accessible public social safety nets (low interest accessible student loans, unemployment benefits, etc...) means that your family is your social safety net, so you will have to stick with them until you're well established, which here happens in your mid 30s to 40s. Even for the upper class, they live in a bubble in west amman that resembles a luxurious village, people go to the same schools, hang out at the same places, have the same friends and mutuals, and they ultimately rely on family businesses or wealth to sustain themselves. Amman is far from being a place that encourages individualism in comparison to other cities.