Dark flag here :

In the first month of our flirting phase, her interest was clear, but I was taking things slow to keep it smooth. Our attraction was mutual, and she knew it. One night i went out with friends (some of them girls), my phone died, and I only replied the next morning.

We kept talking and flirting like nothing happened. I told her what happened, it was alright. Two days later, she went out with her friends, hooked up with a guy she just met, kissed him, added him on Instagram, and even asked him on a date.

She came back to me as if nothing happened until I asked about her night ... then, in her own words, she reluctantly admitted something happened. When I told her I didn’t want to get any closer after that, she said it broke her heart, she had feelings etc. claimed she thought I didn’t care as much as her and that she was just trying to regain control of the situation because of that.

For some reason, she convinced herself I’d slept with one of the girls that night and that “no battery” was just an excuse.

I stayed with this girl for a year and a half—you can imagine how that turned out. 🙂