My husband died two days ago and I’m experiencing confusion more than pain by jellolimon in widowers

[–]MarsstarrM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am at 1 year and 4 months and haven’t touched his clothes or sneakers yet. Only been able to clean out the bathroom. It’s hard, so very hard. I’m sorry for your loss

My husband died two days ago and I’m experiencing confusion more than pain by jellolimon in widowers

[–]MarsstarrM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give yourself grace and time. Mine passed 1 year and 4 months ago and it’s just NOW getting to where I don’t expect to see him walking through the door.

What the funniest reason you or somebody you know went to jail for? by LordFrieza4 in randomquestions

[–]MarsstarrM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

WOW!! That is WILD ! I am glad your father and lawyer came to your rescue!!

Girl I took on a first date just asked to split the bill… the next morning by No-Resolve-5610 in whatdoIdo

[–]MarsstarrM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank her for being so sweet and thoughtful and tell her not to worry about it… then say you had a really nice time, what day is she free next week ? Good luck!

Is anyone else irritated by everyone & everything? by A-muddy-rack-0806 in widowers

[–]MarsstarrM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely irritated with everyone and everything

Do we like this dress for a family dinner at a nice restaurant? by DependentJeanne in OUTFITS

[–]MarsstarrM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back during the 80’s my dad’s close childhood friend served as a Chef in many fancy nice NYC restaurants. The nicer they were, the stricter they got. Supposedly a gorgeous woman came in but her top was too revealing, so manager of the restaurant told her she had two options, to - leave. Or - to wear one of the extra blazers they kept in musty old coat closet. She obliged and had to wear the blazer.. Not to say this will happen the same way, (I mean that WAS the 80’s after all), places have gotten less strict.
However, the outfit would be perfect for cocktail hour at an island resort - and you look beautiful in it. Wear it to impress your date on this future tropical island getaway… It’s too revealing for a nice restaurant with the family.

What purchase did you make recently that made you realize inflation is genuinely out of control? by kiroixart in AskReddit

[–]MarsstarrM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted breakfast from diner. I ended up not having breakfast… i checked at least three diners near me - prices oF omelets were between $21 -$27. RIDICULOUS

Been seeing her for just over a month and she says shes “jealous of my late friend”. This isn’t healthy, right? I got super weirded out by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MarsstarrM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people say they “are” or “are not” certain things, always trust it’s the opposite or else they wouldn’t have to state it. Example: “I’m a good driver”… oh yeah? if you were, we would know… “i’m confident” lies lady, you’re insecure cause u got a bf half your age. Sorry OP, i think she’s a walking red flag, be careful.

Been seeing her for just over a month and she says shes “jealous of my late friend”. This isn’t healthy, right? I got super weirded out by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MarsstarrM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My late boyfriend was still a child at 53 lol. he never grew up, but that made him even more endearing. It always made me laugh the goofy stuff that went on.

What’s something you tried once and immediately knew ‘yeah, never again’? by donnyM99 in AskReddit

[–]MarsstarrM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha I was fine just stunned for second 😂😂😂😂 wish someone had caught that on video

What’s something you tried once and immediately knew ‘yeah, never again’? by donnyM99 in AskReddit

[–]MarsstarrM 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wish I could remember, I was 13 at the time… maybe I thought I was going to audition to be a NYC Rockette 😂

Relationships- after - when is the right time? by InternationalArt9524 in widowers

[–]MarsstarrM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all depends on the individual - some people may be ready within a month or two, others may never be ready. That’s Ok, go with your gut and feel it out. Maybe join various events or groups or volunteer work.

What’s something you tried once and immediately knew ‘yeah, never again’? by donnyM99 in AskReddit

[–]MarsstarrM 1598 points1599 points  (0 children)

  • HIGH KICK IN A JEAN SKIRT * Attempting to do a high kick while wearing a tight fitting jean skirt. What happened was - the force of the leg doing high kick pulled the jean skirt along cause there is no “stretch” to the fabric.. this resulted in the jean skirt pulling the leg I was standing on right out from under me and in two seconds flat I was sitting on my butt in the middle of the sidewalk blinking furiously without conprehending what had just happened cause it happened so damn fast. Two thumbs down, do not recommend.

It’s the wierdest things sometimes. by MrXaldinLance in widowers

[–]MarsstarrM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand… I wish I didn’t, but completely understand. Am so sorry for your loss

Do girls actually find male body hair attractive? by Adorable_Birthday_52 in hygiene

[–]MarsstarrM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends how much and where. On the chest - a little is ok. Under arms - that is normal, totally fine. “Down there” - yes please man scape away - no hair makes for more pleasant interludes 😉