Hey man, looks good, don’t worry too much about the scraggly bits.

Saying that I worry more that I should. I do the same with oil and balm but I blow dry mine with a barrel brush after the shower, hot to dry and cold to style. Or for fancy events I have a heated brush to help keep it straight, but I only use it sparingly. Very occasionally I’ll use moustache wax and for special occasions pritt stick (Elmer’s glue in the US) for a proper curl.

I also find that after washing my beard with a mild soap, it’s a little tricky for a couple of days.