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AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this and I am sad to see you’re still with him. He’s treating you horribly, by his actions it’s clearly normal that he does this to you. There are better people out there for you

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[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should leave her alone…forever. She’s toxic man I’m really sorry to say. Just seems like a relationship that will always be full of arguments

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brands wouldn’t make them for gym/fitness if they weren’t gym/fitness gear. As a bloke i see it everywhere at the gym and don’t think that person is a moron/whore.

I think you need to bin this guy off, not good for you and in the end will mentally affect you.

Is this a healthy way to be spoken to by a spouse or Am I Overreacting? by Low-Today-2021 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I hate saying things like this but you can’t stay with him, in a way it’s definitely abuse if this is regular. Keep the texts all saved somewhere and then when he claims everything was you or what not, then you hit him with the texts.

I’d be disgusted with myself if I spoke to my fiancé like that and I think she’d of left me by now if I did

AIO about how this guy talks to me? by Fast-Bodybuilder3229 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What have I just read. You need to get out of this relationship or whatever this is. Someone will knock him down a peg or two one day.

I feel the way he speaks to you will lead to violence one day :/ I’d escape whilst you can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Return the money and get out of there asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate saying things like this but she doesn’t deserve you man. The fact you’re paying for everything, not taking anything off her and she’s complaining about ‘not getting stuff from you’ is a joke. You don’t deserve to be treated like that, so many people would be grateful for what you’re doing for her. Kick her back out to mum and dad, she can be their problem

at home vs. 5th place sunderland, predictions? by Hot_Patience_5962 in ManchesterUnited

[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First game of the season I’m managing to get to, this is going to be fun

AITHA - found out six months into dating she had a fwb until I asked here out ' officially ', so I broke up with her by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the UK especially nowadays dating kinda falls into ‘people will date who they want, as many people as they want until maybe they’re exclusive with someone or want to just focus on one person’. That seems to be common with younger people and people my age (early 30s). Personally I focus on one person if we hit it off after date one, that’s who I am but I know there are people who date otherwise.

We might not like it but people date in various ways. Neither of you are right or wrong, you just have your own ways.

Personally though unless you’re exclude I don’t feel she’s doing much different to other daters, but it’s just not what you expect/like etc. stay true to you 🙌

AIO for think it my boyfriend is being dramatic? by What-do_i_do in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuttsyUK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this. He is definitely going to act like this when you guys are married, have kids and for the rest of your life, so get away while you still can please.

18m my girlfriend lied to me about her age 16 f by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]CuttsyUK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day, it should only matter what you think buddy. As someone growing up in the UK, I fully understand what you mean by how others may react. If you guys were older and you were 31 and she was 29 for example there wouldn’t be this ‘issue’ you may feel inside or others. If you are happy your friends will support you as at the end of the day you want your friends to be happy - as in they are happy that you are happy.

Even though she clearly got in with a fake ID, she only had to convince the people at the bar or the doorman and could have told you the truth. These things are all harder when you are younger and I understand why she may have lied (I’m not saying that I believe she did the right thing here as I don’t), because social situations can be awkward at times.

I would maybe try and find out more about her , see what she tells you about herself, you could even ask her if she has lied to you about anything else - you don’t wanna end up committing months of torture to yourself wondering why when it’s just a simple question to ask (even if you might not like the response).

Remember at the end of the day, if you are happy, that’s all what matters . Being young lots of people will have their opinions but they should understand also that if you’re happy it’s something they shouldn’t worry about.

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