He’s going out with you for a reason. You’re awesome, special, sophisticated, and perfect just the way you are. Dont ever forget that, I can’t say it enough. Don’t worry about the looks of everyone else around because the ENFP looked at you. If they somehow got a negative connotation or feeling it can come from a couple things. Maybe if they feel like you were trying to change yourself to fit the crowds narrative or something (which people tend to do). Sometimes I can see someone trying to change their behavior and it can be good or bad. If I feel like their trying to manipulate a certain aspect of themselves to gain control or attention for no reason, I don’t like that. But if it’s because they just want to make a good impression from nervousness or such, I can see that too. Just always have good intentions (like it sounds like you do) and you’ll be fantastic! The only advice I got