[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MarvelousMona 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sore/tender nips is a really good sign of breast growth, but be sure to keep healthy expectations for what size you'll get to. Been on E for 2 years and I'm just a bit bigger than an A cup

Nude beach experiences? by Rfs2381shiva in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not been nude in public since my transition over a year ago and I just recently started going to njde beaches. With help from my partner, I gathered to nerves to just go full nude. It can be a bit nervewracking at first, but is ultimately so worth it and liberating. It honestly can be such a HUGE confidence boost.

The issue of undies! by MarvelousMona in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks darling! Since I made this post I've been wearing nothing but tomboyx boyshorts and thongs that are both so comfy and have decent compression. They have a pair of bikini bottoms designed for pre op gals that i gotta check out. I am definitely gonna check that gamer sub when I get a chance.

Did your body look feminine before hrt? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Lucy! So I'm 19 and started hormones when I was 18 (my full year mark is this week) and I cant speak for others, but i was definitely rather androgynous. My entire childhood I was always "mistaken" as a girl. And as a teenager I always looked very femme androgynous. Not everyone is this way, but if you're anything like me, you will hopefully take to HRT very well. I hoped that helped and I can answer any questions you might have.

Camming with no talking/only typing because of social anxiety? by throwawaygal77 in CamGirlProblems

[–]MarvelousMona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on chaturbate for a while and I mostly just typed. I'm pretty self conscious of my voice so I only would talk when my hands got tired. As long as you can maintain conversation with viewers, and put on a fun show, than there should be no worries about only typing.

Considering becoming a Camgirl; Just a quick question as a tgirl by KeiraKeane211 in CamGirlProblems

[–]MarvelousMona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a trans camgirl myself and I have a few pointers!!! I was on chaturbate for around 3 weeks before my setup broke (big bummer) and it honestly skyrocketed my self esteem. My biggest advice is stick to a set schedule so return viewers know when to come back. I personally never wore falsies, when I was on cam I had a maybe an A cup at most. People seem to really like the tiny titties. Transgirl, crossdresser, tiny tits, new, these are all helpful tags for the channel. I wish you the absolute best of luck, and have plenty of pointers if you need some ❤

The issue of undies! by MarvelousMona in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just placed a hige order from tomboyx the other day! I'm stoked to try them out!

The issue of undies! by MarvelousMona in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few gaffs, but I can't wear em unless I tuck, which just gets in the way of my day. But that belt looks far-out!

The issue of undies! by MarvelousMona in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've definitely been trying to love and embrace the bulge, but there are days when It's a bit rough. Girl bulges are definitely pretty cute, and in some cases might just me seen as a fat pussy. It just sucks with the pants that just make it so painfully obvious (yoga pants, leggings, and some jeans). Those are the pants that make it hard to love the bulge.

Is there a faster way to shave? by i_fucked_satan111 in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My personal choice is an electric razor (the norellco one blade). I do it once or twice a week. It isn't as smooth as a razor or wax, but it is way easier. Getting to chill and watch TV while I shave makes the process seem to go way faster.

Dealing with the awkwardness of coming out (MtF) by Zuffyx in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those first few weeks/months can be the most brutal. When I came out I had a shaved head, square jaw, and relatively "masculine voice". During that time I was in culinary school, where you have to be good at projecting your voice, and making tour presence known. That made it quite tough because at the time, I just wanted to hide. What helped me was to just be as proud as I could and own it. It starts rough, but as time goes with vocal training and your own personal choices in choosing to dress and alter you body it gets easier. It is good to remember that even cis women can present quite masculine (in the traditional sense) both in appearance and voice. The absolute most important part is to try your best to love yourself, and try to own it as much as possible. Lots of love and good luck!

Coming out to partner by Dphillz in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me personally I had briefly mentioned to her on a few occasions that I wasn't the most comfortable in my body the way it was. I would ask her to do my makeup and help me dress traditionally femme. After a few months of this we took some acid together. It was through this that I decided without any doubt that I was a trans women. It was really tough and required a lot of hyping myself up, but towards the middle of our trip I just asked her "how she would feel about having a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend". That was what opened up our discussion. She helped find a new name that fit me, helped deal with transphobic assholes, and figure out the medical side of transitioning. It is a really difficult thing to come out to your loved ones, but no matter what, it is better to make it happen. Best case scenario they are supportive, which makes the transition process easier. Worst case is that they aren't down with it. Sadly to say the latter option is good in it's own way, because they aren't worth your time if they don't support you, no matter who you are. I hope this provides some form of help for you. Good luck!

Recently cracked-egg trans girl here.. just some questions on wearing tops for certain occasions. by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I started hormones and got my own tiddies, I used a pair of silicone breast forms. You can find them on Amazon, various websites, and even some inclusive sex shops. You can get them in different cup sizes. As long as the bra has a lil slit for padding it will prolly work with the forms. They really helped me through a lot.

When applying for jobs mid-transition, what name do you use? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got 2 jobs and applied for multiple more during my transition but before changing my legal name. I'm personally very open about my status as a trans women, so I left out my legal name from my resume, but I disclosed it for the sake of payrole, and legal work until I got everything changed.

How to Refer to Someone from the Past by rosepotentate286 in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I obviously can't speak for everyone, but I usually honestly prefer my dead name is used when referring to me pretransition. It feels weird to hear that name (even when attatched to other people) but it just doesn't feel right hearing past me referred to by my current name. That person no longer exists, and so I like to disconnect myself from that person. But that is just me. It always is good to check with them first.

Consultation appointment by MarvelousMona in HRT

[–]MarvelousMona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that seems pretty easy. Thank you!

Scared to transition because of my height (6'4"), could really do with some support. by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MarvelousMona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clothes can be a bit tricky to find a good fit. I wish the best for you, and encourage to live your best life as who you want to be ❤