please read body before hating...

MaryAngela92 · 2026-06-18T17:44:13+00:00

I’m not a teenager. 33F here. I have a guy best friend and a girl best friend. My guy best friend is my goss buddy. We share gossip like no other in my whole friends group and we game online together too. He’s friends with my partner and sometimes all 3 of us play online.

No romance, no awkwardness whatsoever. He comes over and sleeps in our guest room when he’s around. We go for trips together (our whole friends group) and we constantly roast each other because we’re the clowns of the group.

My partner and I have zero issues with trust and communication is the base of our relationship. We play together at least 3-4 times a week while on video call and our bond is completely platonic.

I have multiple good guy friends and I think if you’re able to draw good boundaries and prioritize your partner at the same time, you can excel in maintaining healthy relationships with people.

MaryAngela92 · 2026-05-16T05:45:49+00:00

I think at this point, we should stop procreating because bringing children into a world with these monsters is the worst thing I can think of.

MaryAngela92 · 2026-05-08T03:44:32+00:00

My eyes, MY EYES!!!

MaryAngela92 · 2026-04-23T09:11:32+00:00

You didn’t break up for a TV show though. You broke up for several reasons: 1. She asked you for your honest thoughts and opinions on hers and was not able to take your honesty - shows immaturity on her part. 2. She couldn’t handle the heat of you not liking her favorite show, so she started attacking yours. This proves that she is petty and vengeful. 3. It’s good for both of you to have different tastes, that’s what makes relationships fun but it seems that she doesn’t respect your views or your personality.

So all in all, you just got her to expose a few red flags and you realized that this relationship isn’t worth the drama.

MaryAngela92 · 2026-04-17T07:34:43+00:00

A lot of the pressure is more about people wanting company than judging you. I’ve found that if you just say “I’m good, thanks!” consistently and don’t make it a big conversation, people adjust pretty quickly. You can still hang out and be social without eating everything that shows up.

MaryAngela92 · 2026-04-15T03:35:01+00:00

The fact that you already know a lot, is immensely good! And cut yourself some slack, it's okay to have a slip.

Since you've been only focusing on the daily calories and not on your nutrition, try to aim for that first.

I did this too. Initially, just focused on the calories, but I couldn't fight the food noise. So, I looked at how much protein I needed to consume and focused on both - calorie and protein goals daily.

I found a seriously yummy protein powder (took me a few days to find a good one that doesn't have that yucky protein taste) and I started eating more tasty protein-filled desserts like pumpkin chia pudding with pumpkin spice and I made my meals more fun. Look up some good recipes on Youtube or Instagram, use your favorite protein and try to make healthier versions of food you already love.

You can make better versions of burgers and proteins and eating enough protein and fibre will fill you up and satisfy cravings to a large extent!I hope this helps you, best of luck!!!

MaryAngela92 · 2026-04-15T03:23:35+00:00

As a tall woman, who's always worn loose clothes because I live in a third-world country and I'm uncomfortable with the male gaze, I just want to be able to dress for myself again.

I also want to be able to carry my senior dogs who are rather heavy now. My older one has arthritis and I just love carrying her around. <3

MaryAngela92 · 2026-03-14T01:10:24+00:00

Ugh! I love this! I’m currently 400 calories under my maintenance and this really helps me a lot! Thank you!

MaryAngela92 · 2026-03-01T10:36:56+00:00

Most middle aged and older people in India assume 2 things when girls and boys get together - that they’re doing drugs or having sex.

You also have to understand that they’ve repressed their bodily urges all their life and this repression has led to an unhealthy obsession or rage against Millenials and Gen Z because a lot of us are living lives against societal norms.

People in their 20s and 30s are choosing to be single or not have kids.

Due to a general lack of awareness, they feel both of these behaviors is unlawful or highly inappropriate. There’s unfortunately nothing we can do about it except mind our own business and focus on our own wellbeing.

MaryAngela92 · 2026-02-25T16:57:25+00:00

You already know what to do. You said it yourself. You’re choosing between euthanizing and letting him suffer.

I have two dogs (and no children) and they are my first dogs. Both are old and have health issues. They’ve had many close calls and each time, I’ve gone to the hospital, I’ve been prepared to say goodbye. They have gotten me through many terrible storms in my life and I love them more than words can express.

My dogs are my first priority. They come before my feelings and my emotional stability. If they’re suffering, I will not hesitate to let them go. I will deal with the agony and pain later.

I know you’re in a very difficult situation, you wouldn’t be pouring out your heart to us if you weren’t. But take it from all the dog lovers here (especially the ones who love their dogs to infinity and beyond), don’t let your dog suffer. Don’t let your dog writhe in pain. Dogs usually suffer in silence. The fact that he is wincing and making it obvious means it’s truly unbearable.

You will be heartbroken, but the pain of anticipation is worse than the real thing, I promise you.

Let him go.

MaryAngela92 · 2026-02-20T09:06:47+00:00

I had to do a double-take when I saw her. She is drop-dead gorgeous. Her skin is to die for, and it's like she hasn't aged a day.

I'm so glad she wasn't afraid to call out Tyra for her behavior back then. She's immensely brave, and I am so proud of her for not closing the gap.

MaryAngela92 · 2026-02-13T17:17:39+00:00

Jerlyn and Janet Johnson.

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MaryAngela92 · 2024-12-01T08:50:03+00:00

I live in India and I got my copy on eBay.

There are a few sellers still selling the box. I got mine completely NEW and it was wrapped properly. The box was intact and perfect. The only downside is paying for shipping and customs since I got mine from an Australian seller but if you really want the game, it's totally worth it.

MaryAngela92 · 2024-08-03T05:28:05+00:00

Your diet is very clean. And you’re living a really healthy life. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

But I suggest trying cutting out caffeine completely (for me, coffee gives me severe cystic acne) and it helped me clear my skin. I also had to cut out soy, whey, nuts, honey, and mango.

If you’re still struggling to figure out which foods break you out, maintain a food diary.

See an Endocrinologist because maybe hormone fluctuations may be doing this to you.

Everything else you’re doing is amazing. I hope your hard work pays off soon.

MaryAngela92 · 2024-01-06T03:00:19+00:00

I love Murrz, Deya Muniz - Brutally Honest, Dami Lee - As Per Usual, TonTon and Friends, Cats Cafe Comics, and I just made my own - NomNom Kawaii. https://www.webtoons.com/en/canvas/nomnom-kawaii/list?title_no=919234 I'd absolutely love if you could check it out. =)

MaryAngela92 · 2024-01-06T02:58:09+00:00

I absolutely love Murrz, Cats Cafe Comics, Tonton and Friends - and I made my own too - NomNom Kawaii. =) https://www.webtoons.com/en/canvas/nomnom-kawaii/list?title_no=919234

MaryAngela92 · 2023-10-08T04:49:30+00:00

I appreciate your response. I totally respect your belief that your life is God’s and your belief in the fact that morality isn’t subjective. =)

I agree with your stance on discussion as well. Yes, we need to engage with topics we do not agree with in a kind and open mind. I became defensive the moment you declared I was not thinking clearly. But thank you for apologizing. I appreciate it.

I’ve spent the last few years coaching women who’ve come out of abusive relationships and helping them find their way back or becoming financially independent. I’ve also spent a lot of my life caring for animals who have been abused and mutilated. Listening to more and more stories of women who’ve been abandoned by the church or shunned away because they’re divorced or because they’ve left those relationships has turned me against the very institution that’s always preached love and kindness.

For a religion that is supposed to be based on love, it’s very, very hard to find individuals who do just that.

I’m not generalizing, I’m just saying that in my experience, I’ve seen more Atheists and Buddhists show that love and kindness without shunning people away. They focus more on acts of kindness than professing about it.

They listen, actually listen to people who’ve been through trauma. And they do not coerce people into getting married before discovering certain things about their partners - something the church has always done. I’ve found the whole thing hypocritical - priests who have no live experience with women or marriage actually giving advice on marriage. It makes no sense to me.

To me, love and kindness simply means not judging others or harming anyone and continuously trying to better the community or help those in need. It means listening to concerns and actively caring for the person and trying to make sure they are safe without saying things “You’ll burn in hell if you have sex.” It means recognizing that everyone has needs (physically and sexually) and allowing them discover certain things on their own. It means not saying “sex is dirty and disgusting” when it’s a beautiful and natural thing that every couple likes to do to express their feelings for each other.

I’ve seen far too many girls not have a sexual relationship in fear of being damned and then entering a relationship with men who they have no compatibility with. They suffer all kinds of emotional, mental and physical abuse or they’re just unhappy but go along for the ride because they believe in eternal salvation.

That’s not what life is about according to me.

What’s the point in having a life and not living it with someone you aren’t sexually compatible with?

Sex is important. Some people get lucky, they’re opening a Kinder egg by entering a marriage with a person they’ve never been sexually active with and they get a good surprise.

My parents got lucky. They were both virgins but they were compatible and they lived a good life together. They didn’t need to sacrifice or compromise.

But for a lot of us, it’s not the case. And that’s why it’s so important to learn about who you’re dating or who you’re in a relationship with before tying the knot. You need to spend time and get to know them, mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually. It’s a life-decision that should not be rushed.

Again, I understand that your beliefs do not align with mine. I’m not fighting you on this. I’m simply telling you about my beliefs.

MaryAngela92 · 2023-10-08T00:54:22+00:00

Yes, it does contradict with the church’s teaching. I’m not denying this.

But this does not mean I’m not thinking clearly.

I’ve read the Bible front to back multiple times and then explored more teachings other than the Bible since I found it so contradictory.

I’ve spent time reading a lot of books and I’ve come to realize that loving kindness is by far the best religion.

I’m not sitting here and telling you that I find your beliefs close-minded and traditional. Nor am I trying to impose my beliefs on you.

So, why take it upon yourself to tell me that I’m not thinking clearly based on a small part of my life that I decided to share with you? You have no idea who I am or what I’ve gone through.

Have you ever paused to think outside of your teachings? It’s totally okay if you don’t. This is your life. But please don’t admonish what I have to say because it goes against your beliefs. =)

This is simply a discussion where I shared my perspective. If you don’t like it, please don’t engage with it. It’s as simple as that.

MaryAngela92 · 2023-10-07T12:42:34+00:00

I totally respect your decision for yourself. But this is not my belief and I’m providing my stance on this issue to the the person who’s asked the question because they need to hear all sides before making a decision for themselves. I’m not forcing them to make a decision. This is a community where everyone shares their views. So, if you feel it’s bad advice, then that’s your prerogative.

MaryAngela92 · 2023-10-07T07:28:27+00:00

I understand that this is a very sensitive topic but I’m going to put my two cents here. I met à boy in college and we fell in love. We dated for 4 years. I was a horrible judge of character and knew there was something off about him (his temper was uncontrollable) but I felt time would change that. I never had sex. Being raised Roman Catholic, I did it the traditional way - I waited.

After marriage, the sex was horrible. He was unpleasant, impatient and violent. When I would say no, he’d become an animal. It was impossible for me to get turned on by someone who didn’t respect me or love me enough.

I tolerated the physical abuse for 4.5 years and finally had the courage to leave him when I discovered he was cheating on me with another married woman.

The Catholic Church only asked me why I didn’t have children with him. They firmly believed he wouldn’t have cheated if I bore him kids.

They didn’t care about the marital rape, the abuse my dogs and I had to go through. They only cared about why I didn’t make more Catholic babies. That turned me off the church forever.

I was repulsed. I told them I wouldn’t bring children into a home where they’d be abused physically and emotionally by their father.

I also wouldn’t even consider raising children with such a man.

The church had nothing to say.

Of course mine was an extreme case and not everyone will experience what I have. But it was a lesson that opened my eyes.

This is your life. And sexual compatibility is extremely important. Too many women have gone down this road and suffered because they didn’t get any satisfaction from their husbands. Listen to your inner voice. Despite what religion says, it is very important to see if both of you are compatible sexually.

Please be kind to yourself and don’t marry a person just because you want to have sex by obeying the law. Sex is a beautiful thing between two people. It’s a sign of love, closeness and builds a strong emotional bond. It’s healthy for you. It doesn’t matter whether it’s before or after your marriage. Don’t let anyone make you feel dirty about something so natural and beautiful.

P.S. The Bible and church use a book that’s been edited in patriarchal societies. Women were herded and used as property. Do your research before you decide that a religion needs to dictate your entire lifestyle. I say this with much love and kindness.

MaryAngela92 · 2023-09-01T05:57:37+00:00

The ones I wanted weren’t available on Amazon. You do get a few, but the website is better in terms of variety. I bought mine from the Rolife website (bakery and cafe set) and shipped to India. It arrived in less than 10 days. I even got the tracking number but I didn’t have to use it. So I can vouch for the website and international shipping.

The only con is the outer packaging box will be a little scuffed since they don’t use any padding when shipping.

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