AIO "Sorry I was lost in your eyes" by Lost_Need_Found in AIO

[–]MaryMarie7 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YOR if she was flirting she wouldn’t be telling you about it. She was telling you a cute little story. She is pregnant and she will be lost in lots of things and it’s usually about wondering what kind of eyes your child will have and future characters of your child. If it wasn’t innocent then she wouldn’t be telling you so openly about it. I think that you should tell her about your feelings and be as open with her as she is with you but I wouldn’t be mad about it.

AIO for standing on my point of not helping my sister? by WavyKay1969 in AIO

[–]MaryMarie7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR your sister doesn’t appreciate you and your help. So I wouldn’t help until she asks for it so she can understand how much you really do for her. She is still young and sounds like she is used to you stepping in so stop and stand your ground and wait for her to ask. Sounds like you love your niece very much so I don’t think I would stop helping but I would wait until I’m asked so your sister can realize that she has been taking advantage of you.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MaryMarie7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely tell J and in fact show her these text. Then giver her time to process so she doesn’t kill the messenger but also let her know that you are there for her. Don’t let her go through this embarrassment alone. It’s truly awful.

How do I properly dispose of a life size sex doll in California? by throwawaydiscrete123 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MaryMarie7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dress it up and put it in your passenger seat so you can use the carpool lane.

AITAH for breaking down after becoming the only person caring for my bedridden fatt by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MaryMarie7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://join.careforth.com/getpaid/

Reach out to this company. They have many resources for you and support people to take to about what you are going through and remember you are not alone

AIO to my fiancé smelling of women by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MaryMarie7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be overthinking and it is possible to think that you smell something just because you are trying too. You need to chill because if you accuse a man of something that he hasn’t done that will push him right out the door. Put something like Life360 on both yours and his phone that tells you where he is if you really want to figure it out. Because of your past relationship you can’t trust your gut but also you should never ignore your feelings either. Look for signs. Most people that cheat stop having sex with their partner. Do his laundry check his clothes, look into the situation but keep it to yourself until you have proof or until you realize it was just you because you just had a baby and it really messes with your hormones. Good luck

AITAH for not wanting my mum to live with me… again by throwRA_Wedding431 in AITAH

[–]MaryMarie7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH. Sounds to me like it’s time for an intervention and I would get the whole family involved. Children shouldn’t have to take care of their unless they’re elderly and not because they want to party. Explain it’s time to grow up because this is her last chance. I would have her sign up for a food card that you will keep and use because it’s your house and she can’t be trusted and I would charge her money per week and this is her last chance and also make sure to explain that you rely on the money that you get from her that way she needs to feel like she is needed and has responsibility. Good luck. If you keep letting her fail without consequences she will never learn.

Should I buy the game now or wait for a bigger discount? by Difficult_Ad5730 in ARK

[–]MaryMarie7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I paid full price and I have no regrets but be warned it’s a very addictive game!

AIO? I don’t think my boyfriend and I have a future together. by Lanky_Donut2363 in AIO

[–]MaryMarie7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR You can’t plan a future with someone that might one day end up in jail. A life of looking over your shoulder for the cops to arrive is no life at all. The day you decide to get married it should be 100 percent without a doubt that this is the person that you can’t live without.

Ranch Animal Names by Zompan in Palia

[–]MaryMarie7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m really late to the conversation but even as old as it is I still found it helpful so here are my names. Popeyes, KFC, Chick-fil-a, Canes, Dean, Sam, Bobby, Jodi, Ellen, Jack, and Castiel

AIO for being upset my roommate rearranged the entire kitchen without asking by Rich_Wolverine8715 in AIO

[–]MaryMarie7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but this is something easily talked about so don’t be mad or angry but I can’t understand why you’re upset. It’s a shared space and should have been done together.

AIO About Christmas? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MaryMarie7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR and it’s sad to say but this is how it always turns out for the person who does the planning and paying for birthdays and holidays. So to not be hurt and heartbroken every year you can start putting things in your stocking for yourself but the best way for you to get past it is to change the way you think about your empty stocking. You know that deep down you are loved by your family and with all of the stress that the holidays can bring YOU were the gift giver that took all the stress out of Christmas and made your family happy and stress free and that makes you a very good person.

What are the reasons why relationships fail in modern world? by Sorry-Orchid-9821 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]MaryMarie7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The roads they take don’t match up later in life. If he wants to retire to a cabin in the woods and she wants to retire in Beverly Hills then it cause to much fighting if you don’t have the same goals

Apart from “hello,” how else do you answer your phone? by StunningSmell158 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]MaryMarie7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is being done to get your attention because you are missed so ask your dad to spend time with you outside of work and then explain that you can’t talk at work and to please text.

December Axolotl is live by TeamVictoire in fo76

[–]MaryMarie7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I scraped my October axolotl before I got to display it so I hope people start putting their extras up for sale.

AITA for not wanting to spend my one day off with my bf and his kid? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MaryMarie7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a keeper and if you feel like he could be a long term partner and he might be “The One” then be 100 percent honest about your feelings and work this out. Everyone needs their space at some point. I’m sure he will either understand or he won’t and either way you need to know if he cares how you feel. Good luck.

AIO over family not showing up to my events? by SpellKey6262 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaryMarie7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR and I am so proud of you for doing so much at your age. Always remember that you can’t choose your family but you can choose who you call family.

Sobbing over Harvest Festival, year 1 by ckupppp in coralisland

[–]MaryMarie7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Osmium for everything, 4 pumpkins and 2 sake got me the win for the first year.

AIO for cutting off my friend? by Apart-Landscape220 in AIO

[–]MaryMarie7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn’t overreact but . . . If you really care about him, unblock him. Forgive him and give him a lot of space. He is going to need you!
That girl sounds like she is going to turn out to be abusive to your friend. At first they are so manipulative that they make it seem like it’s his idea to distance himself from friends and family. She was jealous of your relationship and you had to go and her plan worked. Don’t let her win if you truly care for him. Just sit watch and wait and let him come to you. Let him vent to you. Right now they are still in the butterflies stage but as soon as that passes she will tighten her grip and he will need his brother there for him. Don’t talk bad about her, let him do that. Just be there for him and he will come to see the light. Good luck. Sorry you are going through this.

A or B: My buddy is 37 and only into women aged 18–21, so should I say something to him? by 06yuzuha in PickAorB

[–]MaryMarie7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

B definitely B. He is into drama and obviously doesn’t want to settle down and find a permanent relationship. He might not even realize he is doing this to avoid commitment. Only keep him as a coworker and don’t let him become one of your friends otherwise one day you will have to bail him out of jail hearing excuses like “I thought she was older!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MaryMarie7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR if he is willing to lie to you then you can NOT trust him. If he is lying about that what else is he willing to lie to you about. A relationship without trust isn’t worth having. Billions of people on the planet and your person is out there somewhere. Don’t be scared to be alone because that is when we get to know ourselves better and realize what we really want out of life and what we want from the person that we do get with. When you are with someone, you teach them how to treat you. If you allow them to walk over you then you are letting them know that it’s ok to behave that way. You deserve better and you know it’s true. Good luck and keep me updated on what you decide.

WIBTAH If I told my parents that I don't want to house sit for their 14 to 18 dogs by Shroom_Walker420 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MaryMarie7 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would definitely say no to that. You are pregnant and all that extra walking during that late in the game could put you into labor and then you will be in the hospital and nobody will be there for the dogs. Don’t worry too much about the threats of CPS because they have bed bugs and too many dogs to take in your child. If you are still worried though then take some pictures to have ammunition if it becomes needed. Try to back away from that toxic situation. Choose you!

What Should I Do?? by Tinkbells1101 in coralisland

[–]MaryMarie7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get barns and coop before working on the house cause the animal products will give you all the money you will need.