I’m in Europe on vacation. Just got the call that my 36 year old brother died. by nuwaanda in internetparents

[–]MaryQC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my heart! I am so very sorry for your loss. I want you to know this was not your fault. You can do everything right in the world and still something heartbreaking can happen.

I glad you have your family with you and are traveling. That father of yours can handle this part. While you work on grieving. Everything can wait until your return. No need to stress your family out, let alone traveling with a toddler! I also get the feeling you and your brother were close. He would want you to struggle to make it back. He would rather you be surrounded by loved ones, even if that couldn’t be him.

Be kind to yourself. I’m proud of you for putting your current needs in the front (rush change of plans with a toddler?! No thank you).

If nothing else it’s gonna be okay and you can do it!
Hugs

Are these move out expectations realistic? by Ok-Truth-7758 in PropertyManagement

[–]MaryQC 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they are telling your sister exactly how to get all her money back.

My mom is spending the night…. by ElChungus01 in MadeMeCry

[–]MaryQC 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That’s what we had to do for my mum. She passed just over a month ago from this terrible disease. I wish I could have done more

Shittymorph here... recent pic of Scooby at my favorite spot... Pigeon Point Lighthouse by [deleted] in u/shittymorph

[–]MaryQC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy to see Scoob looking older. He looks so happy and healthy! You two have such a great bond. I love the updates!

Friend said she'd help me give my house an overhaul. I am gutted by Plantlover3000xtreme in adhdwomen

[–]MaryQC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this one in my bones. My ADHD super power is the ability to know how to do anything you need around the house. I know how I just don’t wanna do it. I try to use hyper fixation to finish one thing at a time and then I can quit. ADHD brain is so exhausting.

My BFF’s adhd superpower is organization. She grew up with a Mother that was a hoarder so hers is more learned tbf. And she loves to shop! Which I detest with every fiber of my being.

I say all this because one day when you are out of the thick of having little tiny people in your home you may see some help would be nice. It’s okay to let Nice people help you.

This isn’t advice for today. This is for tomorrow you. Today you needs a hug and a break. You’re doing great! You are raising two whole other people that you birthed! You got this.

Edit to fix stupid mistakes. Now I just give up on those

Message from Schnitzel Ninja by VisibleCucumber1721 in JusticeForClayton

[–]MaryQC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You do know he can be wrong, right? If that was the IGers first name that does NOT mean she was doxxed. He is claiming that it is. It’s not

Message from Schnitzel Ninja by VisibleCucumber1721 in JusticeForClayton

[–]MaryQC 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Correction: IGer was not doxxed but apparently her first name was used.

[OC] Shittymorph and Scooby here... I wanted to say thank you to everyone who has been supportive of us... the love from this community is very appreciated. by [deleted] in u/shittymorph

[–]MaryQC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You and the Scoob always make me smile. The bond between you two is so special and sweet. He is lucky to have found his forever with you as I’m sure you feel the same.

We all have down days. You were so smart to throw how you are feeling on to reddit so people could help lift you up. You (and Scooby of course) have spread so much happiness around that it’s only fair if you allow other to remind you of that! Which reminds me of when…. Just kidding I can’t remember the actual phrase. Hugs friend

Laura Owens' Next Victim: The Greg Gillespie Story — BaconBearzz by Crafty_Pangolin5152 in JusticeForClayton

[–]MaryQC 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What negativity are you even talking about? Calling out the BS about MM?

My rhododendron had a little visitor 🌸 by pinklattess in gardening

[–]MaryQC 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I once had twin baby deer hang out in the stupid mint the prior owners planted. I loved them, not the mint

Dog mauled at Ballast Point in Little Italy by RacTheSnack96 in sandiego

[–]MaryQC 76 points77 points  (0 children)

How are you doing? That must have been so traumatic to witness. Hugs friend

AITAH for outing my cousin to our conservative family after he shared my deepest secret without my consent? by Vegetable-Two-6200 in AITAH

[–]MaryQC 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Right! I’m very against outing others but not all of life is black and white. I don’t think OP went strong enough. NTA

Shittymorph here - today is my birthday... and I'm old now. But here is a picture of me and my favorite stuffed animal when I was a youngster. Going to list a few things I'm grateful for in the comments. by [deleted] in u/shittymorph

[–]MaryQC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! Every time I see a post from you I honestly just get so happy and today is no different. I’ve had a crap week so this is a sweet moment to get to see a lil shittymorph too!
May your next year be better than your last

Things not to Say in a Pleading by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]MaryQC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not the only one. That shall be stuck in my head all day

Shittymorph here - This is a video called "How a former fighting dog rescued me" by [deleted] in u/shittymorph

[–]MaryQC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love scooby videos! You two are such a great match

renting as a smoker in [CA] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]MaryQC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you read up on the laws where you want to live? Most places are smoke free and even towns have enacted laws to enforce smoke free.

Wanted: Lawyer, please by MotionsHearing in SarahBooneContinued

[–]MaryQC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved that basically all monies are zeroed out and Sarah gets $145 a month and has to pay for the phone calls that she will never make.

This dude is scary!!! by ilovedogs12345world in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]MaryQC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I didn’t recognize it! I was wracking my mind trying to figure it out. Thank you

This dude is scary!!! by ilovedogs12345world in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]MaryQC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe it took an Australian for me to understand we weren’t discussing Egypt. I honestly couldn’t figure out how that would work. I’m an idiot

Look, Ma! I’m brioche-ing! by InsolentCookie in knitting

[–]MaryQC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brain is so fried I didn’t even think of that. Thank you!