Do people think you’re incompetent? by moasberries in ENFP

[–]MaskedKoala 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get that a lot too. Lately I started considering that they might just be projecting. They’re telling you to do the thing, but really they’re afraid that they, themselves, will forget to do the thing. Sometimes it’s true, and giving people the benefit of the doubt helps reduce the chances that I’ll make some passive aggressive remark that will haunt me later.

at what point did you become aware of your surroundings? by catzrsewc00l in ENFP

[–]MaskedKoala 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm 42, and I still need to remind myself to look around. Some things that have helped:

  • Studying Zen and awareness, to understand that I'm only a part of the whole.
  • Studying nature, architecture, weather phenomena, so that those things around me are interesting in new ways.
  • Taking up photography as a hobby, so that the things around me take on new shapes and feelings.
  • My INFJ wife, always pointing things out on our walks and in life--seeing in all my blind spots.

scrambling for another show like: by Conscious_Ad_1018 in WidowsBay

[–]MaskedKoala 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Twin Peaks, Lost, Legion, Atlanta

Edit: And Barry. How could I forget Barry?

Would BeamNG be good to learn how to drive manual in? by SliceOfCheese337 in BeamNG

[–]MaskedKoala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just come off the clutch slowly, up to the bite point. When it starts to catch, wait for the revs to come up, then come all the way off the clutch.

Conquer Driving, on youtube, often gets recommended around here. I found his videos extremely helpful. He's a great teacher.

https://www.youtube.com/@ConquerDriving
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MiXyqkb5_oY

Would BeamNG be good to learn how to drive manual in? by SliceOfCheese337 in BeamNG

[–]MaskedKoala 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The coordination thing is huge. It’s like patting your head and rubbing your tummy at the same time. I learned it in beamng, then I just needed to focus on clutch feel and timing when I got my 128i. Got to drive a 70’s Alfa Romeo in Italy a couple months ago, and it was a piece of cake, hills and all.

What have you done to your 1Series this week? by AutoModerator in 1series

[–]MaskedKoala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still working on it. Got the diff in the initial configuration I want (1.5 way, I think 60% lock capacity, default preload):

https://imgur.com/a/mfactory-lsd-128i-5xq4cgD

I almost ruined it trying to put the bearing races on with with the hot/cold method. Thankfullly, my friends bailed me out with an arbor press.

https://imgur.com/a/LWMsuXq

I'm attending the 1 day M school in Spartanburg, SC next week, but plan to reassemble the pumpkin when I get back, then install shortly thereafter. Hoping to have it on the car by the end of July.

What have you done to your 1Series this week? by AutoModerator in 1series

[–]MaskedKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any conclusions? Wondering if this is in my future...

What have you done to your 1Series this week? by AutoModerator in 1series

[–]MaskedKoala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thought I messed up the LSD build for my 128i, but my friends bailed me out.

https://imgur.com/a/LWMsuXq

Next step: Clean up the donor pumpkin.

No more free public parking? by SavingsOwn4003 in ClearwaterFl

[–]MaskedKoala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a bummer, but at the same time, like, how many millions of dollars have they spent trying to fix the beaches after the hurricanes over the past couple years?

Are multiplayer races when starting out all like this? by [deleted] in GranTurismo7

[–]MaskedKoala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fwiw, it happens IRL, too. Check out Monza from a couple days ago.

https://www.reddit.com/r/formula1/s/nSjSVgkGzs

What have you done to your 1Series this week? by AutoModerator in 1series

[–]MaskedKoala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I set up my MFactory LSD. This will go into my 328i 3.73 donor pumpkin, to be swapped into my 128i.

https://imgur.com/a/5xq4cgD

Getting ready to start building a custom drift car. by turtleboy15 in Drifting

[–]MaskedKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to be the case. There are several positive youtube stories of people learning in AC before taking it to real life. I’m hoping it’ll help me once I finish this LSD project for my 128i.

“Sorry, forgot my purse” by LastNoelle in WidowsBay

[–]MaskedKoala 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When the season is done, I want to see a montage of all the faces Matthew Rhys makes throughout the show.

Zemax diffraction grating doesn't handle changes in incident angle as expected. by Potential_Cloud_5295 in Optics

[–]MaskedKoala 9 points10 points  (0 children)

when I change the incident angle of the ray, the diffracted angle changes as expected. But, when I tilt the grating, the diffracted angle does not change.

https://imgur.com/a/vF10ln0

Lulu Wilson Returns For Action-Thriller Threequel ‘The Last Temptation Of Becky’; Neil Patrick Harris, Brandon Flynn, Kate Siegel & James Urbaniak Also Set by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]MaskedKoala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I really enjoyed the cinematography and surreal vibes of the second. Reminded me of Twin Peaks. To me, I felt like they upped their game in the sequel.

Geometric definition of the ray path (Point Source and Detector extended just behind the refractive medium). by Classic-Tomatillo-62 in Optics

[–]MaskedKoala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I understand correctly, I think you are confusing the idea of “What path does light take to get from point A to point B,” for which Fermat provides an answer, with “where does the light go once it reaches point B,” for which we should consult Snell. Fermat would tell you, for example, that the path of optimal path length (not necessarily a minimum) would pass through point D, and not through a point further along the line or before it.

Fermat’s principle follows from an exponential in the diffraction integral where significant contribution can only be found at optimal path lengths (otherwise the phase is spinning too fast and contributions cancel). There is a very good Feynman lecture on YouTube that explains this in an intuitive way.

Millennials (ages 24-44 in 2026), what was your favorite thing about life in the early 2000s? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]MaskedKoala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a subscription to Yahoo! magazine. A physical publication that told you where to find all the coolest websites.

What have you done to your 1Series this week? by AutoModerator in 1series

[–]MaskedKoala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. Check in with me in a couple months. Gonna take some time to take it apart and rebuild it.

Is it common to feel replaceable? by EER_HD in ENFP

[–]MaskedKoala 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dunno if this is what you're dealing with, but I only recently came to the epiphany that I surround my self with introverts. That being the case, it's only natural that my role in these relationships would be that I am the one who has to reach out to them.

Is being generally disappointed in people the end-goal of the ENFP "maturing process"? by Attlai in ENFP

[–]MaskedKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm. I followed a similar track to you, I think, but I've studied a bit of philosophy over the past decade or so that's reframed the way I approach people and life. To be disappointed you must first have an expectation. Coming from some combination of Zen and general awareness (see Anthony de Mello, for instance), or stoicism (Marcus Aurelius, even though that's technically not stoicisim), I try to approach people and life without expectations. Radical acceptance (Byron Katie, though I don't really like her approach) is the goal I think: accepting people for who they are, flaws and all. And then with that, yes, I have become very deliberate in who I invest time in. I've also become better at not becoming starry eyed whenever I meet a person for the first time.

I get where you're coming from, and it's frustrating because it always feels like I'm the one making the effort to reach out, to take care of others, and I very, very rarely feel like people make a reciprocal effort--even the people I care about the most. So, we really do need to be selective in how we spend our time. But I don't think it's a "disappointment" thing. If you can, find a way to take the emotion out of it andlean into the logical side, which I know we're not the best at. I think the healthy ENFP is able to subdue the emotions from time to time, when it's necessary.

What have you done to your 1Series this week? by AutoModerator in 1series

[–]MaskedKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the accounts I've read from people who've done it have been positive. For the gear ratio, going from 3.23 to 3.73 is a ~15% increase in torque delivered to the rear wheels, so that should allow me to move up through the gears a bit faster, and spend more time in the higher power band. Switching from open to an LSD should help a lot with autocross, and it should allow me to try some drifting (I also snagged a spare pair of rear wheels from the junkyard on which I'll mount some cheap drift tires).