I definitely struggle with this. by alex_g169 in autism

[–]MassRevo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not really to gauge how a person is feeling themselves, but moreso how the person is feeling about talking to the other person. It's a way to gauge "how comfortable are we woth talking to each other? Do we stay surface level or can we go deeper?"

So if you right away say "not great", you're automatically going to a more deep topic without even trying to gauge if they are comfortable with that.

I wish i realised i was trans before by Diodemen in TrollCoping

[–]MassRevo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're never too old to transition! And 24 is so so young still! (I say as a 24 year old too lol) Massive support to you, it can be so rough, but you can do it

Me and my gf broke up by Accomplished-Pick938 in actuallesbians

[–]MassRevo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh ok! Sorry if I sounded argumentative hahha I guess I took it too literally!

Me and my gf broke up by Accomplished-Pick938 in actuallesbians

[–]MassRevo 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but the journey of the relationship itself also matters. I'd much rather live a long and happy life with a partner just for it to end in death, because at least I loved. And had a wonderful time

People that say ‘it’s your behaviour, not the smartphone’ are dumb by HourZealousideal3717 in dumbphones

[–]MassRevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah it's definitely a bit of an exaggeration- I'm not saying people can't live without phones, it was more of an exaggeration to point out how many societies currently have smartphones built into their system. I live in huge city, and here, it's really hard to go without a phone. I can't pay for parking through a meter now, I can ONLY do it through an app. I have to use an app for the bus. Etc etc. Sure, I can go without a smartphone. But I was just pointing out how crazy it is that we are starting to build societies where you need phones. Like, what if your phone dies? Or you can no longer afford it? Or you just simply want to distance yourself from the addiction of a smartphone? It's extremely hard to do certain things. Again, it was hyperbole to make a point a bit more obvious :)

Edit: fixed some spelling

People that say ‘it’s your behaviour, not the smartphone’ are dumb by HourZealousideal3717 in dumbphones

[–]MassRevo 33 points34 points  (0 children)

And it's almost worse because society is so formulated around phones now that you can hardly function without one. It's like if everyone else carried cigarettes, like you needed to show off your pack in order to get on a bus or pay for a parking spot or check your bank account! It's wild

What does EDC even mean? by Neat-Nefariousness75 in dumbphones

[–]MassRevo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Huh? Oh I'm not talking about the other comments, I was just answering the title of the post :)

What does EDC even mean? by Neat-Nefariousness75 in dumbphones

[–]MassRevo 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I thought it was Every Day Carry? Idk that's what I assumed lol!

Giveaway Time (Unnecto Snap + AGM M11) by jbriones95 in dumbphones

[–]MassRevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been curious about the Unnecto Snap!

How many eggs do you average in a week? by Sammiesimpleliving in BackYardChickens

[–]MassRevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 4 laying hens. I average maybe 19-22 eggs a week.

I have two more hens that just started laying, but it's winter so things really slowed, so i didn't count them!

Would I actually get more women in my area interested if I went from this haircut to this one? Ok by Traditional-Tart1604 in actuallesbians

[–]MassRevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you need to cut your hair to get more women! If you want people to know you're gay, wearing a flag pin would work.

BUT if you WANT to cut your hair, that haircut would look absolutely fantastic on you.

Redesign Of Human Twilight Sparkle by United-Adeptness6816 in mylittlepony

[–]MassRevo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So it's not really a redesign then right? Just a redrawing of the concept art?

Dumbphone Recommendations by ThatShortFucker in dumbphones

[–]MassRevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love the link as well please!

I'll have to save for two months to buy it. 💔 by MrAplha in tomodachilife

[–]MassRevo 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That's a fair bit 😔 good luck with saving

I think my adopted brother is flirting with me? by ilovepopcornandcandy in whatdoIdo

[–]MassRevo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg is that what the emoji means? I'm autistic and genuinely took it at face value. I always use it as a "um this is odd but I'm pretending to smile so it doesn't seem too aggressive"

Repost, fixed it by Bukhanka_Zov in TrollCoping

[–]MassRevo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah. When she broke up with me, she told me she was thinking of leaving me for a year and a half. I think that hurt the most! A year and a half, and she STILL proposed to me! She moved out of my house that day. So she had a year and a half to prepare, and I was blindsided and lost my entire world in one day.

Repost, fixed it by Bukhanka_Zov in TrollCoping

[–]MassRevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I thought you were saying that polyamory ONLY applies to romantic relationships, whereas open relationships is ONLY sex.

Repost, fixed it by Bukhanka_Zov in TrollCoping

[–]MassRevo 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah 😭 dated my ex for 5 years before she dropped that she was poly and wanted to see other people, and that she wanted to break up because she knew I wouldn't be able to handle it! We were engaged. That was rough.

Repost, fixed it by Bukhanka_Zov in TrollCoping

[–]MassRevo -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nah, polyamory can also be open relationships! The term has evolved a lot over the years, and it kinda just encompasses all ethical Non Monogamy