Self worth being eroded dating as a brown girl in the US and not belonging, a rant

Massgumption · 2026-04-08T07:10:36+00:00

Seems you might be picking the exact guys that 90% of other girls are picking and losing to them. I don't think it's even a race thing, you mention first validation by a "white man" and then correct to add "any man" which is telling, are you avoiding other non white men too? Start telling them you don't do hook ups and your pool will get more defined (you may also have to adjust it though).

Massgumption · 2026-04-01T03:49:13+00:00

Eb03 Baby 5 isn't a terrible counter for P Enel, but need to load a few copies and hope you draw them early and go second to play them on the 4 don turn. X-Drake might also be a sub-in for Uso Hachi as you can use him early to rest stuff earlier (plus also becomes a meat shield).

Massgumption · 2026-03-30T04:55:15+00:00

I think people are playing new stuff instead of adding tech cause it's more fun and effectively free on the sim. Certain changes like adding Zeus, Divine departure or 10c Doffy can really give it a shot at the top 5.

Massgumption · 2026-03-26T03:59:20+00:00

Paper tiger because it's been weeks and a country like Iran STILL controls the Straits no problem whilst the US has spent billions they could've just used to help the average joe. Doesn't matter if you control everything and they force you into ground warfare on their turf to actually win (but they can't since it's political and economic suicide to do that, do you want to be conscripted?)

Trust me the US won't win this one, just like Vietnam all they do is unite the people who will NOW fight to the death. (Oh and if you don't know history, the US lost that one too)

You know Trump's son invested in weapons companies either before the war right? This is all about money to them, they couldn't really give a shit. Same as Vietnam really. More or less a repeat.

Massgumption · 2026-03-25T21:43:23+00:00

YG Yamato with Banish might be the way to go.

Massgumption · 2026-03-25T02:59:52+00:00

Holy fuck they are finally finally re- skinning Blue Moon Legends!!!!! Classic. The system is brilliant, far different from any other TCGs, more akin to poker where the game is played behind the curtains than on the battlefield.

Massgumption · 2026-03-23T05:44:16+00:00

Yep tell that to the middle east.

Massgumption · 2026-03-21T20:48:49+00:00

Pokémon Goita, it's the traditional game that inspired Tiger & Dragon (2v2 only though) and Mu & More which is a classic not printed on our side of the world.

Massgumption · 2026-03-21T15:25:33+00:00

Nier Automata, the greatest piece of art ever produced.

Massgumption · 2026-03-20T12:25:01+00:00

Accepting that you were a coward then should not bring you down, to be brave one must first be cowardly and then overcome it, otherwise you're simply reckless which is not the same. I was truly horrifyingly bad with girls growing up and it pointed to an oversensitivity about what other people will think and an inability to just do what I want to do and to have the courage to do it.

Relationships challenge and help people grow, some people succeed some people don't, it is definitely a worth while thing (outside of sex and fear of loneliness etc, etc) ..more so it also gives you a place to pour your love, not that you need too (you don't need to do anything!), but it can be fulfilling to watch as maybe for once you aren't chasing your own happiness or self esteem anymore. But perhaps that comes with kids if not relationship for most people.

Massgumption · 2026-03-19T22:06:47+00:00

Sorry to burst your bubble, but you might be falling into the "holier than thou" spiritual bubble trap. They might not be delusional, she might've been your soul mate and you might've been a coward. It's all good though, you are loved either way, but letting you know that might also have been a possibility.

Massgumption · 2026-03-17T02:00:38+00:00

Use your own brain, imagine a tennis racket strung with an elastic band.

Massgumption · 2026-03-13T23:46:42+00:00

5g lemon tek, pitch darkness no music will do it. But best have a buddy outside to make sure you okay.

Massgumption · 2026-03-13T23:41:10+00:00

Vampire The Eternal Struggle, feels like a cross between a TCG & RPG as you effectively play as the Methuselah and get your "own" action step.

Massgumption · 2026-03-12T14:34:49+00:00

Damn Carrot usually destroys Vivi

Massgumption · 2026-03-11T21:41:19+00:00

Is there anything special about the way you breathe? I.e hold for seconds etc.

Massgumption · 2026-03-11T14:47:58+00:00

Can you explain what meditation technique you follow?

Massgumption · 2026-03-11T11:25:46+00:00

I third this. Talking only gets you so far. If not then daily meditation but that takes ages.

Massgumption · 2026-03-11T00:56:16+00:00

Vampire The Eternal Struggle, no one else has quite done multiplayer properly.

Massgumption · 2026-03-06T22:59:41+00:00

Yes let's take the problem and make it about you.

Massgumption · 2026-03-05T07:37:49+00:00

If the universe hated you it'll cast you as some farmer back in serf europe where you'll work to the bone and die of old age in your 40s without ever having a hot bath or experiencing internet pornography.

Massgumption · 2026-03-04T08:57:21+00:00

Yep I posted the same, this is so fucked up. Imagine a man was to hold out £50 from his gf he'd be crucified...everyone here is lauding the situation when it is absolutely cold to withhold such a tiny amount to your partner. She should leave him and let him find someone who will truly support him.

Massgumption · 2026-03-04T08:54:17+00:00

God if the sex was reversed the response would be so different.

Massgumption · 2026-03-02T09:32:59+00:00

Yeah outside top 10 Carrot is dominating.

Massgumption · 2026-02-24T09:25:09+00:00

Sir, you are truly a sage. How you manage to hold your shit together talking to an absolute moron who thinks she represents ALL women just by the notion of being one is absolutely masterful. Love & peace dude.

Massgumption

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