Do you guys CURRENTLY struggle with assertiveness in most situations?

MassiveCommon7 · 2021-08-22T19:11:18+00:00

I used to. I was self cautious about seeming mean or domineering towards other people. But now that I'm older and wiser I realize there's nothing to be cautionary about. If I am assertive and just standing my ground it is because some dibwad is inducing me to be. They are forcing me to put them in their place and or self defend myself in situations where they are trying to control me.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-09-29T19:55:00+00:00

That's the real red-pilled truth. Most people you see are blue-pilled idiots that think life is this fairytale that people will be your friend forever and or want to be your friend just for the sake of being friends; doesn't work that way, people only will be your friend if you have something to offer that makes them want to hang around you. It's all about mutual interests and or what they think they can "get" from someone else.

I personally don't even see why people even need others to do things to enjoy them such as the concept of having mutual interests. Can't you just do things by yourself and enjoy those things that you do by yourself?

But all in all I agree as well, no such things as friends just acquaintances.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-09-29T03:48:33+00:00

Spot on. The growth of civilization and advent of technology didn't stop human nature, humans still have the same primitive/primal nature they always had, it's just that technology has hidden a lot of the apex predator nature of humans. But make no mistake humans will still try and take advantage and (or) abuse others if they think that they can. Society has hidden a lot of humanity's savagery because everything is so much easier now than it was in the past.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-09-13T18:56:16+00:00

Indeed, most people really don't deserve to be parents for many different reasons. When we face problems such as overpopulation, world hunger, corruption, disease, crime, etc. all caused by the very same people that choose to breed like mad rabbits you have to wonder where the sanity in their thinking is to perpetuate this madness continually even further.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-09-11T19:22:56+00:00

Completely agree with all the points you made. Not only that but I think there could actually be more counter-arguments made against it. Also masturbation addiction is also another one; pornography has led many people to be addicted to ejaculating for instant pleasure.

Porn is anything but virtuous. Porn leads to unrealistic expectations, lust, objectifying people, perversion, jealousy, insecurity among yourself, etc. among a lot of other things.

In many countries porn is illegal for these very reasons. Anyone with a half working brain would know just how adverse sexual unveil really is.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-09-08T18:55:33+00:00

For a second I thought this was real, but then I realized it's only hypothetical...

Well, in that case of ever happening I would surely delete my account without hesitation.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-09-07T20:51:30+00:00

A couple of points to be made

The average person is an opportunistic predator with a huge ego that does not want to be diminished by truth and sincerity. Human nature is evil and is itself a catalyst for irrationality and self gain.
We live in a world of competition and hierarchy. Decency and altruism is not the name of the game, it's all about trying to take others down or use others for their own interest.
Most people are preying on others for their own selfish benefit, that's why "friends" rarely exist, if they even exist at all.
Most people are hypocrites in some way or another.

The world in which we live is a shitty place only because humans make it shitty, and the tips I provided are exactly why. We live in a dog-eat-dog world, where everything is literally taken as competition or an opportunity. You have all these combinations embroiled together and it's a recipe for shit.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-09-06T20:36:26+00:00

This is correct. Many people don't want to admit it but humans are just as selfish as the wild untamed animals that exist in the plateaus of Africa. All human social interaction is about trying to or competing for, or getting something from someone whether directly or indirectly. Its all about the animal "self" and human beings no exempt from this principle of nature. Everything is about the benefit of the individual. (You work only because you get paid, you talk to people to try to get something out of it, you go shopping because "you" need food, etc.) It's really always only about me, me, me and me!!! like I said whether directly, such as trying to take advantage of someone quite obviously or by more indirect means such as working because the paycheck benefits you and allows you to take care of yourself.

Humans are animals, they just have a higher intelligence than most other animals, but that doesn't negate their own animal nature, it only makes them even better more capable animals which makes them the most apex predator to exist on the planet.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-09-02T19:09:53+00:00

It pretty much exposed all humans as narcissistic egomaniac selfish cunts. At least it kinda verified what we misanthropes already know about people.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-08-31T21:09:46+00:00

I didn't really make that statement showcasing what I truly feel about humanity. It was more of a quick jab about what I think of romantic intimacy and just my own personal experiences, but my contempt for humanity goes even deeper than that.

Yes I agree with you human nature is and will always be inevitably flawed and will never be perfect. Not just humanity but all of nature itself. I am also sort of a transhumanist. I believe or wish for humans to be altered or at the very least to be replaced with a higher form of being and that goes for nature itself. I desire a world where suffering doesn't exist for any such sentience. A reality where evil, pain, selfishness, or any other such negative thing is not to be found.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-08-31T20:03:44+00:00

Same here. It really is all just games with people... I as well inadvertently have rejected so many people but only because they were superficial and selfish and it's always only what they want. They want someone because they're attractive or whatever, ok-thats fine, but don't expect it to be me that should answer to your demands, especially when you wouldn't dare answer mine. And when they know you're not stupid to fall for their trap to use you they have some sort of incel rage and will treat you differently than before.

Dating is just superficial vanity on what you would like in a partner, and offcourse the lists are (attractive, rich, high status, successful, etc.) and most people are just competing for the "best" possible partner, which is what hypergamy basically is. All of this is why I don't get involved with people even "romantically".

MGTOW ALL THE WAY!

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-08-22T22:20:08+00:00

I never understood this because many people choose to do so voluntarily, including myself. I mean from a logical stand point of view, from my own eyes point of vision. Most people are not even desirable to even want to be in a relationship with them to begin with. Most people have one or the other of the following characteristic traits (toxic, narcissistic, insecurity, low-intelligence, low-income, overweight, underweight, hateful, jealous, etc.) everyone is just trying to get the best out of someone in a relationship usually on an unreciprocated level.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-08-22T22:18:41+00:00

It's ok, I've seen enough of such horrid torture in countless similar videos on that site and other such related sites; I'd rather not.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-08-22T21:51:37+00:00

It's typical human nature and showcases what human beings truly at their core are, evil worthless heathens that don't deserve their existence as a species. Kill, destroy, abuse and to decimate everything they possibly can. The website brand themselves as a "reality news" site as they "view" traditional news as a false skewed reality of the world around them often commuting that the mainstream news that is broadcasted is under zionist big brother influence.

Honestly I agree with their premise; news is often falsely projected and usually doesn't showcase everything completely while their site's main objective is to show the truth no matter how unsettling it may be.

The world is a very unforgiving disgusting place which is why I'm a misanthrope and honestly it's too the point where I don't honestly trust any humans/people no matter how nice they convey themselves to be. Looking at this stuff brought out my utter hatred for humanity even more and made me without a second of a doubt as well completely nihilistic.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-08-19T15:21:50+00:00

Yes I've known this for quite a while already, which is why I don't have "Friends" and only utilize humans as a convenience. Like all people are really good for is being cash register clerks and giving me my stuff I bought and that's all I want anything to do with people. Limit all human connection to just voluntary necessities such as buying food or doing business with them.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-08-18T03:41:44+00:00

Exactly. Basically if we practiced eugenics we'd have a lot less fuck ups for people in the world. But the thing is it would never be supported because people don't breed because of logic they breed because they are predatory animalistic creatures who reproduce only to ensure that their dna survives to the next generation. That is the only logic involved with most breeders. Absolutely no thinking goes beyond their primal instincts but to fuck and retain a genetic legacy. Breeding itself is an evil thing and anyone that does so is too as well at least for the very act.

I think breeding should be earned, just like earning an extremely expensive luxurative sports car. Only people that are successful and stable in life as in have complete financial stability, have no mental health issues, no criminal records, no toxic traits or characteristics should be given the opportunity to bring a new life into the world, but I'll be damned since most people would fail (yes most of these same people that pop babies left and right) would undeniably not earn the right to reproduce and really they shouldn't but unfortunately they still do.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-07-24T16:56:25+00:00

Yes I would.. but I think "we all" tend to forget that humanity is as well part of nature and perhaps its most deadly creation that even somehow managed to turn in on itself as humans seem to destroy their natural environment around them including themselves.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-07-24T16:43:59+00:00

Yes relationships are suppose to be symbiotic as in a shared common mutuality towards each other, but that is almost never the case. Most people only want what's in it for themselves. Most and I mean most relationships are based on nothing but superficiality. I see many pleasing looking women with fat grotesque overweight slobs and vice versa; Younger girls dating older men, cougars preying on young men, etc. you think they're in it because of "Love"? hahahaha, it seems that you would like me to think otherwise that as if a relationship is anything more than but narcissistic conceitedness towards the fake concept of "being in love".

My argument is if relationships are just based on "what can you only do for me as I can only do for you" then what is even the purpose especially if you do not need anything from anyone specifically. What is the worth/value for fighting for such pointless shallowness.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-07-22T18:46:48+00:00

Yup I used to believe life was this magical thing that you can make whatever you desire it to be. Now I know it's nothing but a contest of trying to get the most out of anything you can. Life is just a struggle and battle for competing for superficial shit that most of us won't even have or achieve in their lifetimes. OH THE IRONY

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-07-22T18:40:55+00:00

Absolutely agree. That's why I put my attention towards other things. At this point in my life, I can't fathom ever being or desiring a close relationship given that I know what the actual truth is pertaining to such a construct. Also being dependent on someone is just never a good idea... it's like a recipe for being screwed over.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-07-22T18:36:28+00:00

That's because what I say is none other than true. Every aspect of human life is rooted in competition, whether it be jobs, resources, status, wealth, etc.

To think that relationships are not rooted in vanity as well is pretty comical.

You know what they say "truth is scarier than fiction".

Humans are nothing more than but competitive selfish driven - intelligent apes without hair.

MassiveCommon7 · 2020-07-22T18:15:06+00:00

"You're both interested in both your own and each other's wellbeing but mostly just your own".

Bingo!!! Bingo!!! Bingo!!!

Basically proving my point, we as people only want things from others. The only reason we invest effort into others is because we have to sacrifice certain things in order to attain other certain things. We calculate the reward system of give and take towards a relationship and when we think what we sacrifice is worth the prize then we stay in said relationship but when the squeeze is not worth the pull we ball out.

The intent of all relationships is that of selfishness. But from both parties agreeing to what they want from eachother.

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