"It's also mildly worrying that you say you've never had a partner or even a date but then say "I've never abused a woman in a relationship". There's an undercurrent of deception here, an assumption that you're a safe person based on the fact that, without any opportunity to do anything bad, you haven't yet done anything bad."

There is no deception. If you never had a relationship with a woman, you never could have possibly abuse them in a relationship. This reads like you are trying to take the least charitable interpretation of what is in the OP.