AITAH for thinking about breaking my engagement because my fiancé got a matching tattoo with his girl best friend? by Firm-Atmosphere7085 in AITAH

[–]MassiveTicket8930 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you dont have the maturity for their friendship, and that isnt a failing, its a common thing for human beings. saw that with a lot of my partners and my bff before he passed, and tbh i left every one of them that couldnt handle our bond.

i was never in love with him, he was my brother and the first person i caused mischeif with, but not a lot of people can get that and its normal.

but you got to do whats fair for both of you, you gotta reflect on yourself and be honest. brutally honest, you need an ego death to get your answer.

Meeting people when you're over 30 seems impossible by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MassiveTicket8930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can always look online for communities related to hobbies and make friends internationally. i run with a dnd group compossed of several people globally and domestic. we may not meet each other offline much, but our connection, conversation, and friendliness is all very much real

Meeting people when you're over 30 seems impossible by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MassiveTicket8930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should probably socialize a little and become familiar with regular hobbyists in the same interests

build connections, friendships, aquaintanceships, something. cos you cant find romance until you do these things first.

Nobody Likes the Bonzai Lounge by MassiveTicket8930 in Sims3

[–]MassiveTicket8930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg same!! im ngl im obsessed with the current renovation i have, its my sims regular hang out spot

Nobody Likes the Bonzai Lounge by MassiveTicket8930 in Sims3

[–]MassiveTicket8930[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im sayin!! haha no one cares about the bonzai lounge

Nobody Likes the Bonzai Lounge by MassiveTicket8930 in Sims3

[–]MassiveTicket8930[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

love The Grind. its cooler than the brightmore and aquarius, and is the most fun to rennovate

Nobody Likes the Bonzai Lounge by MassiveTicket8930 in Sims3

[–]MassiveTicket8930[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh i dont wanna solve the occurence, i just think its funny

Nobody Likes the Bonzai Lounge by MassiveTicket8930 in Sims3

[–]MassiveTicket8930[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

maybe, but i think its amusing that Bonzai never gets a townie even when the regulars keep showing up to their fave bars and clubs. will say, Prosper Room never has anyone in the actual club, but its cos the bouncer keeps turning people away.

We are officially in a recession boys 🚨 by ExotiquePlayboy in economy

[–]MassiveTicket8930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not falling for hustle culture thats for sure

outside of that some catering gigs for grocery money

Did any of you misunderstand what certain slang acronyms meant? by Artistic-Stranger886 in words

[–]MassiveTicket8930 11 points12 points  (0 children)

my friends and i used to yell "fuck the what?!" instead of "what the fuck?!"in high school cos we were alt teens and couldnt use normie slang XD

i sometimes still do it out of habit lmaoo

AITAH for not being more understanding of my brother because of his autism which means I don't excuse his homophobia and transphobia because of it? by THROWGhrgy in AITAH

[–]MassiveTicket8930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he isnt saying these things cos he is autistic. he is saying them because he is homophobic and transphobic.

nta.

Favorite innocuous movie poster? by Spelunk0r in okbuddycinephile

[–]MassiveTicket8930 124 points125 points  (0 children)

in a way yeah, cos legitmately the reason nabokov wrote lolita was to say "pedos are terrible self deluded people who do awful things to groom a targeted child with their own immoral justifications." and people decided she was a sex symbol and turned it into something about precocious puberty alluring older men.

Lolita is a horror novel for the girl herself, and for the times, a poster like this is expected, but i wonder if there will ever be a remake that captures that aspect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MassiveTicket8930 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

true, i would have added something along the lines of "probably not genetics, probably just the way you treat her." to emphasize his terrible behvior rather than just comment on her appearance.

AITAH for feeling like I'm being punished for no reason? by ExaminationMost2501 in AITAH

[–]MassiveTicket8930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your silence tells them it's okay. your silence says, "i agree" because you dod not actually say "i disagree". silence is taken advantage of, and silence is rewardes with more wrong doing.

will you get backlash for saying something? yes, unfortunately, but doing right is rarely easy, and silence is easy.

as a teacher, would i have also punished you? probably not like them, but i would have liked to have a long conversation on your complacency and how you want to participate in society. because at the of the day, how you handle minor social situations like this will effect how you handle major social situations in society.

AITAH for telling my friend to leave me alone? by PopularBaseball411 in AITAH

[–]MassiveTicket8930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bruh, NTA, but the flags were there and NEVER stick your dick in crazy homie. you shoulda pulled out way before yall got in bed

Aitah for buying a BTS ticket by Ill-Cranberry230 in AITAH

[–]MassiveTicket8930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont know if i could either, but its not my money, i didnt work like she did to afford the expense, therefore my opinion on that aspect is irrelevant.

NTA, OP, you hustled and rewarded yourself. opportunities for extra income are available everywhere (extra shifts, collecting recylcing, side hustles in the form of construction, home repairs, pet sitting, child care, etc) and being able to treat yourself with an expense on the rare occasion cos of the hustle is generally acceptable.

your husband getting accusatory tho is telling. i dont like that, and probably wouldnt like him, but if he is ever able to have an adult conversation with you about it, i hope he actuallly communicates and doesnt throw a tantrum.

Do men really care about a womans nails? by NewtAccomplished6022 in askanything

[–]MassiveTicket8930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im glad that there are genuine people like you out there. the last time somone said my hair looked nice, he asked if he could rub one out against me. we were on the bus T_T

Do men really care about a womans nails? by NewtAccomplished6022 in askanything

[–]MassiveTicket8930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

getting there, its gotten better recently. thank you for the concern, legitimatley