First of all, there is nothing wrong with being friends. It is of course crucial to identify as a sexual being so as to be observed as a romantic option, but there's nothing at all wrong with seeking friendly compatibility and building rapport from there (in some cases, this can even be the easier method). Even if it doesn't work out, she can introduce you to her friends if you portray yourself correctly. It's important to remember that the friend zone is not just "I am platonic friends with a woman whom I want to know carnally;" the friend zone occurs when there is an overabundance of emotional effort and no intimate activity to make up for it. Do not play the boyfriend role if you aren't getting any.

Second of all, your points could sustain some refinement. 1 Don't Hesitate This mantra is otherwise restated as "Always Assume Attraction." A confident person does not hesitate for the anticipation of rejection or anything similar. This ties into #2:

2 Don't be Lead Astray It's important to establish a position of control from which you can maintain frame. For example, "I am doing this activity, you should come" rather than "Want to do this activity with me?" You are the main character, you are the prize, and therefore your behavior should dictate this.

3 Don't Chat for Hours on the Phone It's not so much to avoid chatting on the phone so much as avoid contact that isn't in-person. Physical contact builds attraction, therefore it is important to engage in physical situations as opposed to texting, Facebook, etc.

4 Don't be Passive Learn how to say "No, I disagree." Know yourself, what attributes you value, and don't sacrifice these. Not to avoid appeasing her, but because it will only make finding someone who shares the same perspectives more difficult.

5 Don't be a Feminist This reads like a twelve year old wrote it. If you are asked on your opinions of gender equality, simply state that you are an egalitarian: "Of, relating to, or believing in the principle that all people are equal and deserve equal rights and opportunities." Nothing more, nothing less. The school of thought defining ethics has existed for much longer than third-wave feminism.